At 10 p.m., a 3-married couple was talking on the phone. The wife heard someone on the phone opening the door on her husband's side, and there was the sound of high heels. The husband hung up the phone, and the wife called again but no one answered. It was almost 1 a.m. when my husband came home.
Ms. Liu and Mr. Yang of Sichuan are a couple of 3 marriages, they met online, because of similar experiences, both experienced emotional pain and resonated and talked together.
Two or three months later, Mr. Yang went to Chengdu to see Ms. Liu, and they both had a good feeling for each other, and they were soon together. After that, Ms. Liu followed Mr. Yang to Beihai to live.
A few months after his marriage, Mr. Yang went to a shipyard in Beihai to build ships. Because the work is more difficult, Mr. Yang will eat with customers.
That night, Mr. Yang called his wife to chat. Suddenly, Ms. Liu heard someone on her husband's side open the door and come in, and there was the sound of high heels.
Mr. Yang did not have time to say anything, and directly hung up the phone.
Ms. Liu called again after that, and Mr. Yang was afraid of causing his wife to think more, so he did not answer. At this time, Ms. Liu became suspicious of her husband.
It was nearly 1 o'clock in the evening that Mr. Yang returned home from outside. Ms. Liu asked him about high heels, and at that time, Mr. Yang's alcohol had not yet dissipated, and there was no explanation.
After several days, Mr. Yang still did not take the initiative to explain and eliminate the misunderstanding.
Soon after, Ms. Liu's daughter took the college entrance examination, and she wanted to go back to accompany her. Mr. Yang gave up his career in Beihai and followed Ms. Liu to a strange city.
One day, when Ms. Liu was making the bed, she found that there were other people's hair on the bed. Ms. Liu saw that the hair was black, long and thick, like her girlfriend's hair, and suspected that Mr. Yang had an abnormal relationship with her girlfriend.
Ms. Liu confronted her husband, and Mr. Yang said: As long as you don't catch me on the bed, you can't do anything about me.
Mr. Yang let his wife think whatever she wanted, as she did, because she knew that the more she explained, the darker she became.
Mr. Yang likes to tidy up the house, and since then, Ms. Liu has never seen her hair again.
Ms. Liu's girlfriend is one of the few women Mr. Yang knows in this strange city, because she has met several times, and Ms. Liu has doubted their relationship.
In order to confirm her suspicions, Ms. Liu went to her girlfriend's house and saw that her girlfriend had dyed her hair.
But she was a person who never dyed her hair, and Ms. Liu thought that her purpose might be to cover up.
Ms. Liu asked her why she was dyeing her hair, and the girlfriend smiled a little and did not answer.
Ms. Liu remembers that she has never been to her girlfriend's house, but Mr. Yang is very familiar with it and gives her directions. Ms. Liu was even more suspicious.
But Mr. Yang said that in fact, the husband and wife were not the first time to go to the girlfriend's home community, but Ms. Liu did not remember much.
Mr. Yang's car was parked downstairs in the community, and it had been pried twice, and he proposed to park it in the parking lot of the hospital. Ms. Liu disagreed because the hospital was near her girlfriend's house.
Later, Ms. Liu's suspicions and surveillance have reached a very crazy point, whether her husband goes to work, drives or has a meeting, Ms. Liu must ask her husband to video with her. This has brought great trouble to Mr. Yang's work and life.
Mr. Yang was driven crazy, bought two bottles of two pot heads and came back and smashed them in front of Ms. Liu. The wine spilled on the ground, and he took out a lighter to light it, which really scared Ms. Liu.
Later, in order to prove his innocence, Mr. Yang took a kitchen knife and chopped off one of his fingers.
After her husband self-harmed, Ms. Liu still did not believe it, and always asked for phone calls and videos while her husband was working.
Mr. Yang could not stand his wife's suspicions of him, and he felt uncomfortable and beat her.
Ms. Liu felt that she and Mr. Yang could not go on and wanted a divorce, but Mr. Yang was angry, prepared gasoline, and died with his wife.
On weekdays, Mr. Yang does not have a dime in his pocket, and if he wants to smoke a cigarette, he also has to apply for Ms. Liu, but he never wants to get rid of control, because he is already a person in his 50s, if he is divorced, he will be very faceless in front of relatives and friends.
1 Ask for love and understanding in the wrong way
Mr. Yang ran away from home, domestic violence, self-harm, and wanted to die together in extreme ways, to prove his love for Ms. Liu to her, hoping to be understood and loved.
But the wrong method made Ms. Liu not want to live with him. While Mr. Yang did not cherish himself and broke the law, he also made the marriage have a deeper rift.
2 There is a contradiction and an overreaction, refusing to communicate
In the face of his wife's suspicions, Mr. Yang evaded explanations, refused to communicate, had a huge emotional reaction, threatened his wife with excessive behavior, small misunderstandings were not resolved, new misunderstandings appeared, and continued to accumulate, the two sides were hard to fight, resulting in a more intense war in marriage.
3 The law of attraction to a husband is not to control the other person, but to constantly improve himself
Ms. Liu's first two marriages are the problems of the husband and the opposite sex, she projects the problems of the previous marriage at this stage, infinitely magnified all kinds of small things, thinking that her husband will betray himself, thus implementing various surveillance and tying herself and her husband together. But in this way, it will only make both sides very hard.
Enhance your sense of self-worth, make yourself more elegant, have your own interests and hobbies, in order to better attract your husband.
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