My father-in-law's abacus was so good! I got married to my girlfriend, and my father-in-law said that he would marry me for 1 million yuan and buy me a luxury car of more than 500,000 yuan. But my father-in-law asked me to go first

My father-in-law's abacus was so good! I got married to my girlfriend, and my father-in-law said that he would marry me for 1 million yuan and buy me a luxury car of more than 500,000 yuan. But my father-in-law asked me to give my girlfriend a bride price of 880,000 first, and I disagreed, feeling that I had suffered a big loss! My girlfriend advised me that this money was a formality, I gave it to my father-in-law and she will bring it back when the time comes, but this money does not belong to me!

My girlfriend and I are in free love, and the relationship is very good. I come from the countryside, but after I graduated, I worked very hard and bought a house and a scooter in Xiamen on my own with the lowest down payment. I now have a monthly income of forty or fifty thousand, I feel that if I work hard, I will have everything, and I never thought of relying on my girlfriend to get it for nothing.

My girlfriend is from the city, she has a younger brother, the family conditions are very good, it is said that she has seven or eight houses in her family, but what does this house have to do with me? Now that we are ready to get married, I am very distressed, and I think the bride price of 880,000 is very excessive. But the girlfriend insisted that the bride price would be returned, why can't she go through a formality to make her parents happy?

The girlfriend said that the lowest bride price for the daughter of my father-in-law's friend is this number, and if I give it too low, my father-in-law will have no face in front of his friends and will feel ashamed. But now that I have bought a house, I really can't get the dowry of 880,000 yuan, and I have suffered a big loss when I take out the other 880,000.

On the surface, my wife married me for 1 million and added a car with 500,000. But in fact, as long as I give this money to my father-in-law, then this 880,000 yuan will become my money to my father-in-law, even if my father-in-law asks my wife to bring this money back, but this money has become my wife's premarital property, and it has nothing to do with me.

Let's talk about the car of more than 500,000 yuan, it is good to say, I gave my son-in-law a luxury car to marry, but in fact, the car is written with my wife's name, which is also my wife's premarital property, not the common property of our husband and wife, in case I have a conflict with my girlfriend after marriage, then I will suffer a big loss.

Later I said I didn't want to give them so much bride price, but my house could add my girlfriend's name. But my girlfriend said that my house with a loan is not a property, but a burden! She said she herself didn't want to map my house, which was dispensable to her and didn't matter.

I can only say that her family's abacus is well played, my house is bought with a loan, as long as my wife participates in the repayment of the loan after marriage, even if she does not add a name, this house also has half of her, which is also the common property of our husband and wife.

At that time, the 1 million brought back by the girlfriend will be in her own card, and I can't take out 880,000 myself now, I can't always borrow 880,000 from others, and then this money will put my wife card can't move? The more I thought about it, the more I felt that this matter was a loss.

In other words, I took out 880,000 dowry, although my wife brought back 1 million. But the 1 million dollars and the 500,000 cars are all in my wife's name, and her family's premarital property is still her family's pre-marital property, and I have all become our common property, and most of the common property is from me.

In the end, the girlfriend's family only needs to take out 120,000 and a car with 500,000, and can win 880,000 dowries plus half of the suite, and half of my future income! What if there is a contradiction between our husband and wife after marriage, the more I think about it, the more I feel unsure?

By then all I've lost is the 880,000 bride price and half of the suite, so do you think I'm taking advantage of it now? Besides, my father-in-law wants face, so is it not easy to go through the process? Anyway, my father-in-law has money, let my father-in-law take 880,000 to me first.

Then at the engagement ceremony, in front of all my relatives and friends, I personally gave the 880,000 to my father-in-law, and then loudly said that this dowry did not need to be returned, and this was the old age guarantee that my son-in-law gave them both. In this way, the father-in-law has as long a face as long as he wants in front of relatives and friends!

In this way, I will not be embarrassed, my father-in-law also has face, it is the best of both worlds, why not enjoy it? But my father-in-law said that I was not sincere like this, and even the dowry money had to be borrowed from their family? But obviously their own family said that as long as the face does not want my money, then why do they disagree with my plan?

My girlfriend and I had a good relationship, but because of the mixing of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, I was almost yellowed. When I was in a dilemma, my girlfriend hid from her parents and transferred the 400,000 savings of her seven years of work to me, saying that I would find a way to make up another 880,000 yuan for my father-in-law!

My girlfriend's behavior made me very moved, and I realized at this time that my girlfriend was actually the most difficult person to be caught in the middle, on the one hand, her biological parents, and on the other hand, she liked people. My girlfriend can make this decision, let me see her sincerity, and if I still refuse like this, it will be a bit of an asshole.

As long as my girlfriend is really with me and follows me wholeheartedly, then what prenuptial property or marital property does I care about her? If you have such a wife, why should your husband ask for it? For the sake of my girlfriend, I finally agreed to give my father-in-law a bride price of 880,000, do you think I made such a decision? #Affective Firm ##情感情感 #

@ Atu classmate said to you: It can be seen that the girlfriend loves you, she can take out her own savings to let you cope with your father-in-law, in fact, she has solved half of the difficulties for you, I support you, it is not easy to meet a person who really loves you # I want to make micro headlines #