My name is Chen Jie, I am 37 years old, I have a doctorate, I have had a marriage, and I am now a doctor. Yesterday afternoon, at the end of the day, a man stopped my car and proposed to me with a bouquet of flowers, I said I had a history of marriage, but he said he didn't mind.
After graduating with my PhD, I worked in a hospital in Shanghai. 7 years ago, because of the constant conflict with my husband, I divorced and lived with my daughter.
Yesterday, after a busy day's work, I was about to drive off work. Who knew that a man with a bouquet of flowers stopped my car and proposed to me.
I was very surprised, I didn't know this person, if I proposed wrong marriage, it would be a big oolong.
But he said, "Dr. Chen, don't you remember?" My name is Li Lei, it is you who cured my mother's disease, and I have always been grateful to Dade.
As if i was a little impressed, slowly I remembered him.
Seven years ago, Li Lei's mother was hospitalized for brain out of xue, and it was I who saved his mother.
I remembered that before, he was a very handsome young man, and very talkative, and after my aunt was stable, as long as she saw me idle, she would always find a reason to talk to me. During that time when I was on night shift, it was as if he had ordered me a lot of takeaways.
Later on my birthday, he didn't know where to inquire, bought a large cake and a bouquet of flowers and sent it to my office, saying that he was grateful to me for saving his mother.
At that time, colleagues were present, and one colleague joked: "Do you like us Dr. Chen, people are doctors, you have to work hard!" ”
He smiled red and trotted out of my office.
However, since my aunt was discharged from the hospital, we have not contacted each other and said a word.
I didn't expect that after seven years, this time he would appear in front of my eyes in this way.
I was embarrassed and asked him how he could propose to me.
He said that since listening to my colleague's words, after his aunt was discharged from the hospital, he quit his job and studied full-time, and after a year of struggle, he was admitted to graduate school, and after graduation, he was admitted to the doctorate.
He said: "Chen Jie, I like you, I learned that you are a postdoctoral fellow, I am afraid that I am not worthy of you, I have been working hard for the past few years, the emperor is worthy of the heart, I finally got a doctorate!" ”
Never thought, a joke from a colleague, he actually fought for so many years.
I said I was divorced and had a daughter with me, which may not be appropriate. He said I only care about you now.
I said, "I'm older than you, it's not a good fit, you should find a better one." ”
He said: "Age is not a problem, like a person and why care about the age gap, and it is only five or six years old." Now I have also bought a house in Shanghai, as long as you want, this is our wedding house! ”
I replied, "I have my own house." ”
He said: "Then I should be prepared for your daughter, so many years, I have worked hard, I only want to have a degree to match you dare to open your mouth, do you think about it carefully?" ”
Looking at his expectant eyes and the phD certificate on the side of the flowers, I was moved, these days I have been thinking, should I promise him?
Do you have any comments?
@ Light snow Qin dream warm sun into the heart
Listening to your narrative, you have to consider multiple issues!
First of all, whether Li Lei really likes you, from the performance of Li Lei's mother when she was hospitalized, it can be seen that Li Lei may have loved you at that time, on duty to give you some takeaway, something to chat with you, deliberately close to you. And through various channels to learn your birthday, send you flowers, send you cakes, you can see that at that time he did have a heart for you.
And through the words of colleagues, he learned the difference between the two of you, these years, he resolutely quit his original job and threw himself into the master's and doctoral studies, it is not easy to learn, but he also did it, and he has a goal in mind, that is, to narrow the gap with you.
These aspects can indeed conclude that he really likes you.
Secondly, your concerns are mainly about the age gap, and you have a history of marriage and a daughter, so you are worried about whether you are really a good fit. Li Lei has solved all the problems for you, he does not care about age, daughter's words, he is willing to give his daughter a house, this aspect is the guarantee he made to you, from which you can also see that this man likes and bears responsibility for you.
However, after all, I have not seen you for many years, the understanding of a person should start from scratch, it is recommended to ask more parents for advice, you can slowly understand from friends, a person waits for you for so many years, if you really like you, you will not mind starting from friends to get along with you.
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Xinxue Qin dream, warm sun into the heart!
Thank you all for reading!
