The child is 24 years old this year and followed her husband back to the countryside for 23 Spring Festivals. In fact, I don't want to go back, but my husband is a filial piety, and he has to let him go back to spend time with his parents every New Year. His parents did not only raise him one son, the husband and brothers, he belonged to the second eldest, there were brothers and brothers.
More than 20 years ago, my husband's father was the director of the hospital, the kind of barefoot doctor I remembered as a child. On the way to the countryside to seek medical treatment, she adopted a girl who was seriously ill and dying at that time and abandoned by her parents (at that time, her family had many brothers and sisters, the family conditions were not good, and her parents were poor people in the mountains). After her husband's father adopted her, because she came to this house before her husband, her husband called her sister. I heard that another girl came later, because her husband's parents wanted a daughter too much, so they used her husband's brother to buy it from her husband's father and mother. My husband's father and mother gave birth to three girls and also wanted a son, and I heard the old lady say that at that time, the phenomenon of exchanging sons in the countryside was very common in their mountains. Later, for unknown reasons, the two girls who married out rarely returned to their mother's house, including our own brother. Although the eldest brother and sister-in-law are in the county seat, the eldest sister-in-law rarely returns, and I heard that she used to live in a courtyard and often quarreled with the old lady and the old woman and the younger brother and daughter-in-law for some trivial matters. But the sister-in-law was very good to me. There are many brothers and sisters in the family, and the relationship is more complicated, so I rarely talk at home and just work.
Every time I go back, the old lady and the old lady will complain in front of us that this is not right and that is not good, and even the eldest grandson who is thousands of miles away calls them to visit the New Year, and the first sentence is "After so long, you still know how to call your grandparents, and you don't want to think that your grandparents are still alive, right?" "Since I married my husband, I have always felt that the old lady is stronger and not easy to get along with, although at that time my eldest sister also strongly opposed my marriage with my husband, but I think my husband is a good person, and we usually live in the urban area almost a hundred kilometers apart, and we don't go back every day, so I don't think he will have much impact on our lives." But as time went on, I realized more and more that he actually had a great influence on us. For example, one of his phone calls, even if the husband is in the middle of the night, will rush back; every time he goes home, the husband will be unhappy for several days after he returns, and he will ignore me; as long as he wants any medicine, no matter how expensive, the husband will not eat or drink, tighten his pants and bring him back to buy it back... My husband always said that his parents were lonely, but I think that all this was caused by his father himself. The head of the family, who cannot treat his children well, must be too strong and shrewd among relatives and friends, which will lead to such an ending. The children and descendants do not want to associate with him, they all want to be far away. Only my foolish and filial husband will wrap his heart around their knees no matter how much he is wronged, and even if he is tired and wronged, I am not happy every New Year. When should I also learn the way my big brother and sister-in-law and my brother and sister-in-law look, and how good it would be to ignore their affairs.
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