Is there still Chinese New Year's Eve not stir-frying at night to eat reunion dinner? Former colleague unmarried, female, back to his hometown in Huizhou, Guangdong, Chinese New Year's Eve did not even eat a decent meal, watching how the circle of friends lived

Is there still Chinese New Year's Eve not stir-frying at night to eat reunion dinner? Former colleague unmarried, female, back to his hometown in Huizhou, Guangdong, Chinese New Year's Eve did not even eat a decent meal, looking at the circle of friends how people live Chinese New Year's Eve, the heart is very annoyed!

She said that in her memory, her family never seemed to have fried a table (six or more) of dishes in Chinese New Year's Eve for 30 years!

There are four brothers and sisters in their family, the eldest sister is married, the second sister is also going to get married on May Day in 2022, her 92 years old, 30 years old to be in the boudoir, and her brother is 20 years old to study in the third year.

Every year Chinese New Year's Eve, the eldest sister is busy with her nephew and her own small family can not come back; the second sister has good grades in school since childhood, almost does not do housework, this year is the company's holiday after grinding until the twenty-eighth of the year to return home; her brother to do part-time work also did not return until noon on the twenty-eighth day of the year.

Her father was in a car accident fifteen years ago and was semi-paralyzed in bed. Her mother, a southerner, was very petite and busy every day.

So she was the only one who went home as soon as she was on vacation, helped her mother take care of her father, and served the family's chicken farm (more than 300 chickens).

Then wait until the twenty-ninth and thirty days of the New Year, worship ancestors, worship, clean, take care of dad, paste couplets, hang up New Year lamps, anyway, it is busy with this and that, and then she and her mother are tired, her mother has no time to cook, and she cooks badly, she can only lay hands, do not dare to take charge of the spoon!

This year is the situation again, she and her mother are busy, and the operation is until six or seven o'clock in the evening!

On the table were only a plate of white chopped chicken, salt-baked shrimp, sea cucumber roast goose, fried rice noodles, and a pot of sweet potato rice!

Colleagues said that looking at the family of five, there are only 4 dishes, not hungry and sleepy, Chinese New Year's Eve meals are not full at all. Fortunately, she bought more than 1,000 snacks to put in the living room, and ate some snacks, and did not watch the Spring Festival Gala, and set off fireworks to take an early shower and go to bed. Even the boyfriend asked, not embarrassed to explain, look at the circle of friends at three o'clock in the afternoon, one after another exquisite and hearty Chinese New Year's Eve meals, she did not even have the courage to send a circle of friends!

Colleagues said that every time they were afraid that their mother would get tired, so they came back early to help.

She also proposed: three or four days in advance to do a good job of hygiene, one or two days in advance to prepare the ancestors of the tribute and Chinese New Year's Eve rice ingredients to buy, wait until the Chinese New Year's Eve day only need to make Chinese New Year's Eve rice.

However, the colleague's mother said that the countryside is dusty, and it will get dirty if it is cleaned in advance, and it will still have to be cleaned when the time comes.

The colleague proposed to spend money at the restaurant to order a decent Cantonese Chinese New Year's Eve meal, twelve dishes, about 1500 yuan, and she came to pay for it. Her mother also said that Chinese New Year's Eve meals and tributes should be made at home.

The colleague sympathized with the mother, but when the mother worked, she did not think that she had 4 children. She was very disappointed in her mother and siblings, it turned out that the third daughter who worked the most tired and paid the most money was not as good as the sweet-mouthed second daughter and the younger son...

Colleagues said, who does not fry a few dishes, regardless of white and red beer, drink a few cups, while eating and chatting, so that there is a New Year's atmosphere? Like her family, the work that cannot be done, the shabby Chinese New Year's Eve that cannot be eaten, cold and cold, miserable and miserable.

Colleagues this time is also cold heart, she plans to give her mother 3,000 yuan in the future, no matter how she gets it, there is no hope will not be disappointed. It's really hard to read every family!

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