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Time flies so fast, the oldest post-70s are already 50 years old, and the youngest post-70s are already in their early forties.
What kind of life are people in their fifties living now? Those who got married early have become grandparents, and some have retired early and lived in their old age. But are they happy? Satisfied with your life?
A 51-year-old middle-aged man said in an interview that although he is childless and childless, he rarely envies the family life of his friends around him, on the contrary, he envies my friends more and more.
What kind of life does Dink have? Although his monthly salary in a foreign company is only tens of thousands of yuan, through financial management, he can buy a house and a car in full in his city, have a nanny and driver at home, and play some money-burning hobbies in his spare time - photography and Lego, and his life is very rich. His comfort and freedom should be the root cause of everyone's envy.
◆ 51-year-old male self-report: Why should I Dink
The man recounted his experience. The reason why he eventually chose Dink had a lot to do with his childhood experiences.
He grew up in a privileged family, but his father chose to divorce his mother when he was 2 years old, and then her mother took him to marry. His stepfather was good to him at first, but then he began to punch and kick, and his mother was powerless to protect him, which made him taste the pain of the family. Perhaps at that time, the seed of "no children" was planted in his heart. Because he felt that if he had a child but could not raise it well, it was better not to have a child.
Later he met his wife, the only daughter of a wealthy family, who was also a spoiled woman. The wife said that she did not want to have children because she wanted to be spoiled by him all the time. The two hit it off, and both became Dink.
Speaking of the two people's pension plans, the man said that he has been working at present, the salary is good, and the family has accumulated a lot of assets through financial management and other means. And at present, he has no problem supporting his wife alone, and he can also afford to buy and buy his wife and create a cloakroom. As for the wife, she can also inherit a lot of family property from her parents, and the two think of their old age and have no burden in their hearts.
◆ Dink's premise is to have a sufficient economic base
From this man's experience, it can be seen that if you want to become a Dink, you must have a sufficient financial foundation. If there is not enough money to pave the way for later life, such a Dink will probably face the tragic picture of "Dink in the early years is cool for a while, and he comes late to bury his bones on both sides of the road".
For ordinary people, if they are not particularly repulsive to children, nor are they unable to have children for physical reasons, and their earning power is not very strong, then I recommend thinking twice before choosing Dink.
Although raising children is not to prevent aging, in today's aging context, a pension is no longer enough to cover our old age expenses. If you can't save so much savings in the early years, at least the support of your children can hedge the risk of old-age care.
After all, it will take a lot of money to enter a nursing home in your later years, and some of the problems you face in your later years are not entirely solvable with money.
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