We often say that blood is thicker than water, and from this point of view, blood relations occupy a higher position than ordinary relationships. However, in many cases, we often overestimate blood relations, especially for children, and the closest person in their minds must be the person who raised them.
Nurturing grace is greater than being born. After all, adoptive parents and children have been in contact with each other for a longer time and already have feelings for each other, so it is inevitable that they will be more concerned about the feelings of adoptive parents. However, some practices are not appropriate and often hurt the hearts of their biological parents.
When Wang Tao was five years old, his grandfather took him to the market. There were many people in the market, and Grandpa was buying vegetables, while Wang Tao was attracted by the gourd sugar gourd selling gourds next to him, and eventually went with others.
In order to find his grandson, Grandpa almost cried blind. The whole family sold all their property and ran around looking for the child, the child never had any trace, and later, the parents had Wang Tao's younger brother. And Wang Tao has never heard from him.
Later, the police contacted Wang Tao's parents, and it turned out that their DNA matched a boy named Guoguo.
The family quickly rushed to the city where Guo Guo was located, and Wang Tao and his brother looked almost exactly the same, so Wang Tao's parents did not have any doubts.
Wang Tao already has his own job in the city where his adoptive parents are adopted, and considering the future development of his children, the parents decided to respect Wang Tao's choice.
Wang Tao did not hesitate in the slightest and chose to stay with his adoptive parents. Obviously, the conditions of the adoptive parents are better, and It is reasonable for Wang Tao to make such a decision.
But Wang Tao never saw the loneliness in his parents' eyes. After all, in order to find Wang Tao, the family almost lost their homes. Now I have found it, but the child has no feelings for himself, which makes the parents very disappointed.
Seeing that Wang Tao had reached the age when he should get married, considering that the child was going to buy a house, the parents took out all their savings to help the child pay the down payment. After all, they once owed a lot to their children, and parents wanted to help their children more. However, for what his parents did, Wang Tao never said a word of thanks, but instead hated the little money given by his adoptive parents.
On the wedding day, my parents bought decent clothes. But when they knelt down, they found that there were only two chairs on the stage. When the parents were told that they could not go on stage and bow down, the mother could not help but ask Wang Tao: "Son, why can't I go on stage to be worshiped when you get married?" "Because my adoptive parents have to go up!" Wang Tao answered without hesitation.
Wang Tao's adoptive parents, who are local figures with heads and faces, made a wonderful speech on the stage. Wang Tao enjoyed the aura brought to him by his adoptive parents, but he never gave him understanding of his parents' feelings.
After the feast, the parents returned home devastated. Since then, wang tao has rarely been contacted, and Wang Tao has almost forgotten his parents, perhaps from the moment Wang Tao lost it, this child really can't come back.
When children are young, they often do not have the right to choose their parents, but when they grow up, they tend to be a little poor and love the rich, if they can have the opportunity to be rich when the children are rich, they will naturally not give up, perhaps this is also the wisdom of many people's survival. But, in any case, we should be grateful to the people who have brought us life, because without them there would be no who we are today, no matter what happens, please remember that we are related by blood.