Wang Gang is particularly familiar to us, as a powerful old drama bone, a national first-class actor, from the art of these decades, he has created too many classic roles.
Especially in the role of "Hezhen" played in "Iron Tooth Copper Tooth Ji Xiaolan", it has become a classic in the hearts of countless audiences, and the role he created has not yet been surpassed!
Wang Gang, who has been developing very well in his career, has a more enviable emotional experience, and after experiencing two failed marriages, he married his 21-year-old wife Zheng Yandong at the age of 60, and lived happily and sweetly after marriage.
Compared with him, his eldest daughter Wang Tingting's life makes people feel painful.
Wang Tingting became a single child at the age of 3, and she and her mother depended on each other, and after her mother later formed a family, she felt inferior because she had 2 fathers.
Her father chose to divorce her mother, which made her cry and pain in the process of growing up, but she supported her father to remarry and start a family.
Wouldn't she feel embarrassed that her father, who was 62 years old and her third-married stepmother, gave birth to her half-brother, who was 29 years younger than her, or even the same age as her son?
One
Wang Tingting was born in Shenyang, Liaoning Province in 1979, her father is a famous actor Wang Gang we are familiar with, and her mother Du Xiaojuan is also an artist in the circle.
A year before she was born, her father, Wang Gang, was working as an art director in the Shenyang Military Region Acrobatic Troupe and accidentally met her mother, Du Xiaojuan, who was still a announcer in the Forward Song and Dance Troupe at that time.
Wang Gang, who has a special love for Du Xiaojuan, immediately launched a fierce pursuit, and soon fell in love with Du Xiaojuan.
Less than half a year in love, the two of them, who have a very good relationship, entered the palace of marriage and gave birth to their daughter the next year, which is Wang Tingting.
The arrival of Wang Tingting has made the relationship between Wang Gang and his wife Du Xiaojuan more solid, and in order to give his wife and daughter a better life, Wang Gang has devoted himself to his career.
Perhaps because at that time, she was too focused on developing her career, neglecting to take care of her family, and ignoring the feelings of her wife Du Xiaojuan, Wang Tingting only enjoyed the warmth of the family for three years, and became fragmented because of the divorce of her parents.
After her parents divorced, Wang Tingting lived with her mother, although she lost the custody of her daughter, but Wang Gang was not a hand in charge, and after divorcing Du Xiaojuan, he never forgot his responsibility as a father.
Whenever the filming ended, he would take time to visit Wang Tingting, and it was in this way that Wang Tingting felt her father's love.
When Wang Tingting was 5 years old, her mother Du Xiaojuan met a good person, and not long after falling in love with the man, Du Xiaojuan took her daughter Wang Tingting to marry each other.
Fortunately, this man not only du Xiaojuan is very good, but also regards Wang Tingting as his own, and has always regarded her as his own daughter.
Therefore, since entering a new family life, in addition to the discomfort at the beginning and some resistance to the new father, Wang Tingting's family life at that time was very good.
When Wang Tingting and her mother started a new life, her father, Wang Gang, was working hard for an acting career that did not know what the future would be.
Just like neglecting to take care of their mother and daughter before, they are focused on their acting careers.
Two
For Wang Tingting, although her life as a child was not bad in terms of finances, for her, she experienced a time that made her feel very depressed.
In particular, the lack of family affection not only made her mood depressed for a long time, but even made her feel very inferior.
After she went to school, after her classmates learned that her parents were divorced and had 2 fathers, they kept laughing at her because the children did not understand things.
Different from now, at that time, people's ideological concepts were more conservative, and things like parents' divorce were difficult to talk about, not to mention, after her mother remarried, she had an extra father, and she would naturally be ridiculed by her friends.
For the ridicule of those around her, Wang Tingting felt very sad, and she herself could not understand why her father Wang Gang divorced her mother.
Of course, Wang Gang did not know these grievances of his daughter, he was focused on his career at that time, not only entered CCTV as a program host, but also filmed popular works such as "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" and became a big star.
And as his career grew better and better, Wang Gang also met his second wife Cheng Fangyuan at this time.
When the media exposed the news that Wang Gang and his new girlfriend Cheng Fangyuan were together, the young Wang Tingting became the object of ridicule by her friends, and she was often asked by others at that time: "Why did your parents divorce?" ”
"Which dad do you love more?"
"Your dad got you a new mom, you know?"
Similar problems have followed, and even many good media have often exposed that their father-daughter relationship is not good and so on.
Wang Tingting, who was originally cheerful, gradually became silent and taciturn under these harassments and troubles.
But everyone did not expect that Wang Tingting, who had become somewhat introverted because of the divorce of her parents, when her father Wang Gang wanted to remarry and seek her advice, she very sensibly agreed.
Three
Not long after being with his new girlfriend Cheng Fangyuan, Wang Gang, who fought with his girlfriend, soon had the idea of entering the marriage hall with the other party.
Considering that he and his ex-wife divorced too early, had not taken good care of their daughter, and had some debt to their daughter, Wang Gang asked her for her opinion before marriage.
He thought that his daughter would disagree and even make a big fuss, but when Wang Tingting learned that her father wanted to reorganize the family, she not only did not object, but also said with great satisfaction: "As long as you feel happy." ”
The sensible Wang Tingting already knew at that time that in fact, her parents divorced not because they did not love her enough, but because they had no feelings.
Not only did she not blame Wang Gang, but she also felt sorry that Wang Gang had been living alone since his divorce, and now that she had finally met the right person, she would not object, and she was really happy for her father.
Wang Gang, who originally planned to accept his daughter's rebuke and scolding, never expected that his daughter, who was only 7 years old at the time, would be so sensible, he felt particularly guilty, in order to make up for his daughter, he later married his second wife Cheng Fangyuan, and his daughter's requirements were always responsive.
In 1999, when Wang Tingting graduated from high school, she liked to paint and planned to study abroad, and studying abroad cost 300,000 yuan a year, her mother could not afford it, she could only hope for her father.
When she and her father said their wish to study abroad, seeing the hope and expectation in her daughter's eyes, Wang Gang, whose economic conditions were not particularly good at that time, thought of his guilt for this daughter, and he immediately agreed.
In order to pay for his daughter's tuition and food, clothing, housing and transportation, he desperately took over the play, in addition, he also worked part-time as a host, and went around to perform in caves.
After his efforts, he finally scraped off his daughter's first year's tuition and sent her to a famous art school in Britain, focusing on oil painting.
The sensible Wang Tingting also knows her father's hardships, and during her study in the UK, she did not know how to enjoy life like the "second generation of stars" that everyone imagined.
She often uses her spare time to work at a local Chinese restaurant to relieve her father's stress.
According to Wang Tingting's idea, her father worked so hard to send her to study abroad, and after she graduated, she must go back to filial piety to her father.
But before she could graduate, she waited for bad news that her father was divorced again.
Four
In 2001, Wang Tingting, who was studying in London, England, fell in love with a British sunshine boy named Peter.
However, Wang Tingting's feelings have just begun, and the feelings between her father Wang Gang and her stepmother Cheng Fangyuan have come to an end, and after only four years of marriage, Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan have been peacefully separated for various reasons.
When Wang Tingting, who was far away in the UK at that time, learned of this news from the media, she was particularly distressed about Wang Gang, especially at that time, there were media reports: "Wang Gang's divorce is related to the high cost of her daughter studying abroad." ”
When Wang Tingting saw such news, she felt even more ashamed of her father, she felt: "My father had a new home with great difficulty, and he had people who could share joy and sorrow, but he only enjoyed the warmth of the family for four years, and now he has to face the cold stove alone, how uncomfortable does it have to be?" ”
Since then, Wang Tingting has felt guilty about her father in her heart, and she no longer has a grudge against her father's divorce from her mother, but instead begins to feel sorry for Wang Gang, who was 53 years old at the time.
Compared with her father's emotional ups and downs, Wang Tingting's emotional experience is much smoother, and after she fell in love with her British boyfriend Peter, the relationship between the two has been very good.
After graduating from college in 2004, she and Peter had a wedding in the Uk not long after, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
When she and Peter were married, both her mother and stepfather, as well as her father Wang Gang, were present at her wedding.
When she saw her mother and stepfather happily holding hands, and her father standing alone in the audience, Wang Tingting was even more distressed about her father, who was more than half a hundred years old.
Thinking that she was going to settle in the UK after she got married, and she couldn't realize the idea of graduating and coming back to take care of her father Wang Gang when she studied abroad, she was even more sad in her heart, but she couldn't help it, she could only bury these sorrows in her heart.
Five
What made her happy was that since she understood things, she had always hoped that someone could take care of her father for her, and soon after her marriage, she finally waited for this person, this person was Wang Gang's third wife, Zheng Yandong.
In 2005, not long after the marriage of his daughter Wang Tingting, Wang Gang met Zheng Yandong, who was 21 years younger than him, through the form of online dating.
Although the two have a clear age difference, this does not affect their hearts to each other, after three months of online chat, the first time they met, they established a relationship.
When Wang Tingting, who was far away in England, learned that her old father had a new relationship, although she knew that this stepmother was not much older than her, she was not happy to think that someone could take care of her father for her.
In 2006, Wang Gang, who had been in love with his girlfriend for more than a year, and the other party received a marriage license in Beijing's Chaoyang District and began his third marriage.
Wang Tingting not only sent her blessings at the first time, after Wang Gang and Zheng Yandong got married, because the age gap between her and this stepmother was not large, she also had a particularly good relationship with the other party, simply like a girlfriend sister.
In 2008, Wang Tingting, who had been married to her husband for 4 years, finally gave birth to a son for her husband Peter and a grandson for Wang Gang under the preparation of pregnancy for many times.
Coincidentally, Wang Gang not only became a grandfather this year, he also became a father again, and his third wife, Zheng Yandong, gave birth to a baby son for him.
No one expected that Wang Tingting, who became a girlfriend sister with her stepmother, would have her son the same age as her half-brother.
In the eyes of outsiders, such a relationship will inevitably feel a little awkward, but the strange thing is that Wang Tingting does not feel embarrassed, but feels that such a life is very good.
Six
In 2012, due to the bankruptcy of Wang Tingting's advertising agency in the United Kingdom, under the persuasion of her father Wang Gang, she and her husband returned to China with their children.
At this time, Wang Gang, with years of hard work, has developed quite well, not only has become an actor with high popularity and popularity, he has also made a lot of money, and his net worth has already exceeded 100 million.
Therefore, when Wang Tingting returned to Beijing, Wang Gang used his savings to buy her a house in Beijing, so that Wang Tingting's family could settle down in Beijing.
Wang Tingting had no opinion on her father's arrangement.
Although her father had a new family again and a son, in her opinion, her father was always the father who hurt her.
Probably influenced by her father's marriage, seeing the failure of her father and her mother and the second marriage, Wang Tingting knows the importance of running a good marriage.
More importantly, as someone who grew up as a single parent, she knows how difficult life is when a single parent is a child.
For this reason, she and her husband Peter had been married for so many years, although there had been bumps and bumps, there had been quarrels, but she had tolerated it.
She would rather be wronged herself than have her children become single-parent children like when she was a child.
Wang Tingting, who knows how important family integrity is to children, uses her own personal experience to warn herself not to let her children go her way, which is really painful.
But fortunately, there is no irreversible problem between her and her husband, at most it is the quarrel between ordinary fathers, most of the time it is "husband and wife quarrel between the bedside and the end of the bed", and now it is still relatively warm.
Seven
Wang Tingting, who is now 42 years old, is not young in terms of age, but in front of her father, she is always a little girl, spoiled by her father.
Although she was wronged by her life as a single child, Wang Tingting did not blame her mother or father for these faults, but fully understood them.
Her sensible and well-behaved, so that she got the love of her parents, after her parents divorced, she has also been acting as a bond between her parents, not to let this family affection disappear, which is the most rare.
What is even more admirable is that she can now get along so well with her stepmother, who is not much different from her age, and have a close relationship with her brother who is the same age as her son.
The way she handles her family, and the way she maintains a family relationship, really makes people have to like her.
For Wang Gang, to have such a sensible and filial daughter, although his emotional experience in the first half of his life was a failure, he was still lucky after all.
For Wang Tingting, after her parents divorced, she did not have a complete family, but she did not lose her parents' love for her, which is also very rare.
Here, I hope that their family, especially Wang Tingting, who had too many bitter experiences when she was a child, can live happily ever after.
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