The schoolboy who carried his mother to school later became a beauty queen
Text | Rice grain mother
A few days ago, I happened to see a beautiful photo and was really amazed by the rice grain mother.
This good-looking girl in the photo has sweet dimples when she smiles, bright eyes and a graceful figure. She is Liu Ting, the winner of the "Most Beautiful Butterfly Transformation Award" beauty pageant in the international Miss United Nations beauty pageant, and before that, he was a boy.
Now the social environment is much more open, and public figures like Venus can find lovers and achieve fame in the sound of blessings.
But I have to say that in the aesthetic view of the rice grain mother, Liu Ting is too beautiful after her sex change!
Under the magnesium light, she confidently displayed her talent and received thunderous applause, and she was so dazzling at that moment. Before this, she was not called Liu Ting, he was Liu Ting, a filial son who once touched China to "carry his mother to school".
Eighteen years ago, his advanced deeds of "carrying his mother to school" touched the whole country and was praised by everyone as a national moral model. 8 years ago, he underwent sex reassignment surgery and once again became a stunning national beauty pageant champion.
Carry the top student of the family
Liu Ting was born in Huzhou, Zhejiang Province, his father was a worker and his mother was a tailor, and he was the only son in the family.
Liu Ting, who has had excellent academic performance since he was a child, looks beautiful and sweet, and is always mistaken for a girl. Even when going to the toilet, he must make sure that there is no one in the toilet before he dares to enter, otherwise he will always be kicked out.
He has been chatting better with female classmates since he was a child, and he likes to steal her skirts, high heels and secretly use her cosmetics while his mother is not at home.
In those days, such behavior was almost unacceptable to anyone. Whenever his mother found out that he was secretly dressed as a girl again, she would severely criticize him.
Like all parents who worked hard to save money, when Liu Ting was 13 years old, his parents had just saved enough money to change to a big house, and reality gave him a critical hit.
Dad's unit went bankrupt, he was forced to lay off work, the house leaked overnight, and my mother's chronic nephritis for many years was found to be aggravated and deteriorated into uremia.
Dialysis costs high medical bills every time, and the family's money is spent, almost exhausted.
What made Liu Ting and his mother suffer a crit again was that his father said that he would sell the house to treat his mother, but the house was sold, and he ran away directly!
15-year-old Liu Ting realized that his father had abandoned them, and instantly understood that he was the pillar of the family, and the family depended on him to support it alone.
Liu Ting and her mother moved to her grandmother's house, and in order not to add a burden to her grandmother, Liu Ting undertook all the housework. In addition to taking care of his sick mother, he also has to go to school, and rushes home as soon as school is over, afraid that his mother will miss the time to take injections and medicine.
In order to save money on medicine, he taught himself to get injections and use medical equipment, and when his mother fell asleep and all the work was done, he could start learning.
Despite this, he also did a lot of good in every class, with a lot of awards:
After graduating from high school, he was admitted to Zhejiang A&F University with excellent grades.
This child with excellent character and learning hugged his mother and cried the moment he got the admission letter. But because he couldn't afford to pay the tuition, he had to call the school's admissions office to explain the situation.
The school waived his tuition and promised to help him and his mother as much as possible. Finally, when it was time to enroll, Liu Ting took his mother on his back to report to school.
Filial piety that touched China
Mom's condition has deteriorated to the point where she has to change her kidney, and if she doesn't change her kidney, she can only live for up to two years.
Liu Ting wanted to give his kidney to his mother, but because of long-term fatigue and malnutrition, his kidney source index was not up to standard.
He worked part-time to earn money, took care of his mother, and went to school, and gradually, his deeds spread at school, classmates began to help him, and his deeds also received media attention.
After seeing the report, the doctor at Zhongshan Hospital affiliated to Fudan University took the initiative to contact Liu Ting and was willing to do a kidney transplant for his mother free of charge.
After her mother successfully completed the operation, Liu Ting donated the rest of the donation to the school and set up a scholarship, hoping to help more people.
This is really a shining good boy, and his deeds were selected as the first moral model in the country and successfully elected.
In the eyes of the people of the whole country, he is an out-and-out filial piety. Everyone cares about what he gives, but no one cares what he really wants.
After graduating from school, my mother also received the best treatment. Liu Ting, who moved all of China after becoming famous, was not happy.
The mother found that her son, who had finally stopped being busy and working, was miserable and depressed every day. She asked what happened to her son, and Liu Ting said what she had always wished in her heart:
He wanted to be a real woman.
In those days, this thought was generally seen as "perverted" simply and crudely.
Liu Ting's mother was particularly worried, she tried everything she could to hope that her son could find masculinity, and she especially blamed herself for feeling that her illness dragged down her son and caused him to be mentally abnormal.
Later, she took Liu Ting to see a psychologist, and after diagnosis, she learned that Liu Ting had a "transsexual disease". That is, there is a gender identity disorder, and the doctor's advice is to let him really return to his heart, so that he does not screw up, which will be more conducive to his physical and mental health.
Hearing that her son was saved, the mother stopped sticking to traditional thinking and made a difficult decision. She said:
"For so many years, I have wronged you, you can do it if you want to be a woman, be a good daughter of your mother."
The moment he heard these words, Liu Ting cried and hugged his mother. He didn't expect his mother to understand him and support him so much, he thought that his desire to become a woman would never be fulfilled, and he would have to live his life in this man's body.
With love, my mother forced herself to reverse her cognition and values. In fact, this is not easy for a mother.
But as a mother, the most uncomfortable to see the child, the son who once took up the family responsibility in the darkest moment, is a backbone and responsible, who dares not say that he is a man with iron bones?
After countless inner struggles, the mother finally understood that the child's sense of responsibility and responsibility has nothing to do with his gender. Let him be his true self is the best fulfillment for him.
The most gorgeous metamorphosis
The following year, Liu Ting held a press conference in Guangzhou to publish photos of herself wearing women's clothing and announce that she would become a woman.
South Korea's first transgender actress Ha Lixiu also came to the scene and gave him high heels and a wedding dress.
Because of his deeds that moved China, Liu Ting was not famous. This decision was an instant sensation, and everyone had to accept the fact that the moral role model in their minds was desexual, and rumors were flying all over the world for a while.
This kind of behavior, in the eyes of many people, is indeed very deviant. Some expressed understanding and support, but many abusive voices followed.
The voices of "neuropathy", "shemale" and "perverted" are endless, but Liu Ting doesn't care at all. Because compared to these, it is most important for him to truly fulfill his desire to be himself.
He actively cooperated with the preparations of the plastic surgery hospital and began sex reassignment surgery for more than half a year.
The operation process was very painful, and my mother was very distressed when she watched it from the sidelines. But for Liu Ting, this is like a baby silkworm finally made a thick cocoon, even if the flesh and blood are blurry, it must break into a butterfly.
This pain is hopeful, even happy for him.
When the surgery was successful, she couldn't wait to be discharged from the hospital and get a new ID card. The new name is Liu Ting, gender: female.
He held his ID card and cried, "he" finally became "she", this moment she had waited too long.
Liu Ting, who has successfully transitioned sex, actively learns makeup and dressing, practices yoga to maintain her figure, and enjoys every day of being a woman.
With the encouragement of her mother, Liu Ting participated in the Miss United Nations International beauty pageant and won the "Most Beautiful Butterfly Transformation Award" in one fell swoop. It is also the first person in China's history to participate in a beauty pageant as a transgender woman and win an award.
In recognition of her courage, UN Women presented Liu Ting with the 2015 Women's Media Awards Female Role Model Award.
Later, Liu Ting wrote a book based on her own experience: "I am a beautiful person", hoping to encourage more transsexuals like herself through this book.
He also used half of the royalties as a public welfare scholarship for children in poor mountainous areas, and her kind deeds touched the whole country again, this time not only touching, but also blessed.
Later, Liu Ting, as an anchor, appeared on variety shows, actively participated in social welfare activities and protected women's rights and interests publicity, and occasionally posted beautiful photos on social networks to interact with netizens. She also wrote novels and tried to be an actress, living freely and freely.
Powerful people can always shine in various fields. The boy who once touched the whole country because of her filial piety, because her beauty turned red again, she never complained about the injustice of fate, because fate was in her own hands.
And what makes her truly her own is the fulfillment of her mother. When she announced that she was about to change sex, among the overwhelming accusations, it was her mother's firm words that gave her great comfort:
"Even if the whole world comes to accuse and abuse you, I will support you."
Every child is an individual with independent thinking ability, they have their own most unique cognition and thinking, have their own ideals and pursuits, although we as parents, we cannot fully empathize.
Respecting children's individual differences is the realm that education should pursue, and true love is fulfillment.
Psychologist Lai Nianhua said: "If your child, everyone in this world does not accept him, at least you have to accept him, because you are the person who brought him into this world." ”
When the mother finally understood that the filial, responsible, and loving child, no matter what kind of shell he was carrying, had a soul like gold, the limitations of prejudice and cognition were broken.
In fact, individual differences are always greater than gender differences, you are a responsible person, not so you are not a so-called "man", but because you are a person who stands tall.
When Liu Ting under the magnesium light won warm cheers and thunderous applause, Mi Li Ma knew that the world was fair.
When you live your own wonderful life without shame, your decision will be respected, and on the way to achieve your ideals, blessings will outweigh obstacles, and it will push you forward bravely.
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