Speaking of Wang Gang, everyone's first reaction is definitely Hezhen, who called Teacher Wang Gang to play Hezhen into his own feeling that he is Hezhen himself.
His career is successful, and Wang Gang's marriage and family life are also very happy.
He had 3 wives in his lifetime, the youngest of whom was 20 years old with him, and after the two married, Wang Gang was 60 years old and had a son.
In fact, Wang Gang is catching up with the fashion, online love met Zheng Yandong.
At that time, the two were in agreement, but Teacher Wang Gang did not dare to go further because of the age gap.
The two were finally able to cultivate positive results and live a happy life, but they still had to thank Wang Gang's eldest daughter Wang Tingting for working hard in it.
She tried her best to match her father and stepmother so that he could enjoy his old age in peace.
She is also the bond between Wang Gang and her mother, making divorced parents relatives.
01 The parents are not compatible, and the little Wang Tingting has become a child of a single parent
In 1978, Wang had just been assigned to the Shenyang Acrobatic Troupe as an art director, and by chance, he met Du Xiaojuan, a newspaperman in the troupe.
Du Xiaojuan is a typical Beijing big girl, tall and tall, beautiful in appearance, the two fell in love at first sight, and soon established a relationship.
A friend asked Du Xiaojuan, "Which Beijing girl marries a foreigner?" You have such good conditions, why not find a Beijing boy? After all, we are going back to Beijing in the future. ”
Du Xiaojuan also thought so at first, but when love came, she couldn't count everything she thought about.
In 1978, Wang Gang and Du Xiaojuan married in Shenyang. They live in the dormitories of the troops, eat in the canteen, and the living conditions are not good.
A year later, Wang Tingting was born, and the family of three spent a sweet time.
Wang Gang has a strong sense of enterprise, and usually the housework at home is done by Du Xiaojuan. Every time Wang Just came home, he wouldn't help him when the vinegar had fallen. Often, they all rushed into the study to read and study.
Family chores were thrown to Du Xiaojuan, taking care of Wang Tingting's pressure, and the incompatibility with her husband's personality made Du Xiaojuan and Wang Gang's marriage become heavy.
Husband and wife always stumble in life, and sweetness turns into constant quarrels.
In 1982, when Wang Tingting was three years old, Wang Gang filed a divorce request with his wife, Du Xiaojuan. Divorce was a big deal in those days, and many people would point fingers at women after divorce.
Du Xiaojuan does not want to divorce, especially if the children are still young, and hopes that Wang Gang can maintain this marriage for the sake of the children. She tried her best to save it, and the woman would have to cry and make trouble, but Wang Gang had an iron heart to divorce.
"It's not appropriate for the two of us to be together, it's better to be apart." Wang Gang had already made up his mind.
Seeing this, Du Xiaojuan could only accept the divorce, and her daughter was raised by her.
It is too difficult to take a child alone in Shenyang, and this is also her sad place, so Du Xiaojuan quickly went through the profession and took her daughter back to Beijing to live.
Her daughter was only three years old and could only live alone with herself, and Du Xiaojuan complained about Wang Gang in the matter of divorce.
In 1986, Wang Gang was appreciated by CCTV director Huang Yihe and hosted the Spring Festival Gala. Soon after, he was transferred to Beijing, after which Wang Gang visited his daughter more frequently.
Due to the divorce of her parents, the students all looked at Wang Tingting differently. Some ignorant people will also chase and ask:
"Why doesn't your dad want you anymore?" "You're a kid dad doesn't want."
Every time she heard this, Wang Tingting could only shed silent tears. She couldn't figure out why her loving father had separated from her mother.
Every time her father came to pick herself up, Wang Tingting would tightly grasp her father's hand and sweetly shout "Daddy", and Wang Gang wanted to cry when she heard it. After playing, he was sent back to the community, he walked far, and he could still see his daughter standing at the door of the community waving at him.
Wang Gang examined himself, whether he was too cruel to Xiao Tingting, and did not think about leaving his daughter without a complete home after divorce. With this apology, he was better for his daughter.
Du Xiaojuan has a knot in her heart, it is normal for husband and wife to stumble, and she has no principled mistakes, but Wang Gang insists on divorce. This made Du Xiaojuan not want to see Wang Gang.
As soon as Wang came to pick up the child, she sent Wang Tingting to the door of the community. Wang Gang sent the child back, and she also waited for Wang Gang to leave completely, and then went to pick up her daughter and go home, avoiding possible meetings.
02 The daughter's growth, both parents have not been absent
In 1996, Wang Tingting attended an ordinary high school in Beijing after graduating from junior high school, and due to the divorce of her parents, Wang Tingting grew up with heavy psychological baggage.
At this time, she had the idea of studying abroad: If I went abroad, wouldn't I be asked around why your father divorced your mother?
She told her father Wang Gang the idea of studying abroad, and Wang Gang always felt indebted to his daughter.
"My daughter is so good, I can't bear to let her live in a single-parent family." So I said yes.
In September 1999, Wang Gang sent his daughter to London, England to attend a girls' high school. The annual tuition fee and living expenses are more than 300,000 yuan.
This is also a big cost for Wang Gang, but he has borne it alone, shooting a few more plays every day, and trying his best to meet the life needs of his daughter studying abroad.
During his daughter's study abroad in London, Wang Gang would always fly to London to visit his daughter no matter how busy he was, so that her daughter would not be too lonely.
And every time his daughter returns to China, Wang Gang will personally pick up her daughter and take her home as long as she is in Beijing.
Wang Tingting's personal painting and mathematics are relatively excellent, and Wang Gang suggested that her daughter study business administration at university, so that there will be more employment opportunities in her home country in the future.
But Wang Tingting wanted to learn art, and Wang Gang respected her daughter's choice. After graduating from high school, she was admitted to a fine school in London to study oil painting.
During college, Wang Tingting fell in love with an Englishman, Peter, a boy who studied percussion.
At this time, Wang Gang had just divorced his second wife, Cheng Fangyuan. As a father himself, he wants to do a good job for his daughter, and from personal experience, he also hopes that his daughter's marriage can go smoothly.
In the Spring Festival of 2003, he asked Wang Tingting to take Peter back to Beijing, and everyone met.
Peter knew that he was going back to Beijing to meet his girlfriend's father, and he practiced Mandarin at home and used chopsticks.
When they met, he communicated with Wang Gang in his newly learned Mandarin, and when he ate, he also used chopsticks in the countryside.
Such a sincere and serious Peter, after a week of Wang Gang's inspection, was recognized by Wang Gang and supported him and his daughter to fall in love.
In May 2004, after graduating from university, Wang Tingting was going to hold a wedding with Peter on a small island in the United Kingdom.
She said to her father, "Daddy, my mom will come to my wedding too." ”
Wang Gang didn't even think about it, and directly blurted out: "It should be attended, how can my daughter's married mother not show her face?" Rest assured, I will definitely cooperate with your mother. ”
At the wedding of Wang Tingting and Peter, Wang Gang and Du Xiaojuan were present.
It was the first time the two had met after more than 20 years of divorce.
Looking at the marks left by the years on his ex-wife's face, Wang Gang was very emotional in his heart.
As the woman's parents, the two received blessings from the guests and juniors together.
Looking at her daughter's happiness, Du Xiaojuan burst into tears, and Wang Gang also choked up.
In September of the same year, Wang Gang held a Chinese wedding for his daughter in Changping, Beijing.
Du Xiaojuan also attended, and the two still appeared at the wedding as the woman's parents.
Wang Gang issued a new wedding message as a father: "My daughter is married, and as a father, my feelings are very complicated. My greatest wish is for my daughter's happiness. Tingting is not easy, and she must be happy in the future. ”
In this scene, Wang Gang was crying, Wang Tingting understood her father's meaning, and both father and daughter shed tears at the wedding scene.
03 A family of three is happy, is really happy
Du Xiaojuan remarried two years after divorcing Wang Gang, and her stepfather also regarded Wang Tingting as his own.
Wang Gang's feelings fluctuated greatly, and when wang Tingting was sent to study abroad in 1997, it was the second year of his new marriage with his second wife, Cheng Fangyuan.
Because the two gathered less and left more, the two divorced within a few years. Wang Tingting looked at her father and felt pain, and secretly swore in her heart that she must let her father be happy.
When she returned from studying abroad, Wang Gangzheng and a ms. Zheng Yandong got to know each other.
The two are fashionable online love, Wang Gang is very satisfied with Zheng Yandong, thinking that she has a good temperament and is very talented, which can be said to be love at first sight.
But he is more than twenty years older than the other party, and has already had two failed marriages, and he does not dare to be abrupt and rush to show his heart.
Zheng Yandong also has a good feeling for Wang Gang, and the two can talk well when they talk. However, Wang Gang's emotional experience is still a little complicated for Zheng Yandong, and Wang Gang is not young, which makes her very hesitant.
Seeing that her father and Ms. Zheng had a good feeling for each other, but she could not determine the relationship for a long time, Wang Tingting could not bear it. She said seriously to her father:
"Dad, when you meet a good woman like Aunt Zheng, you can laugh secretly." If it really hurts me, you should solve your own personal problems first. ”
Then, Wang Tingting called Zheng Yandong again: "Aunt Zheng, my father likes you, but he has concerns and has not dared to confess." But his heart is very painful, can you accept him? ”
With the support and promotion of Wang Tingting, Wang Gang and Zheng Yandong both took a step forward, established a relationship, and then formed a happy and happy family.
In 2008, Wang Tingting became a mother and gave birth to her son Lulu. In the same year, Wang Gang and Zheng Yandong married and gave birth to a son, Tintin. In this way, both father and daughter have their own small families.
Wang Gang asked his daughters and sons-in-law to return to Beijing to live. He bought a house for his daughter and son-in-law next door to his home in Beijing. Sometimes Wang Gang called his daughter in the courtyard, and Wang Tingting could hear it.
To her father, Wang Tingting loves and supports her; for her mother, she also loves. Whenever there is a festival, she will buy as many gifts as possible for her mother, and the gift money for her mother will be more.
She was worried that her father Wang Gang had an idea about this, so she explained: "Father, my mother is an ordinary person, compared to your average conditions. So I want to help her a little more. ”
"That's as it should be, Dad can understand." Wang Gang said that in fact, he was very touched in his heart, his daughter was so sensible and filial.
Sometimes Wang Gang will send something to his daughter, and Wang Tingting can't finish eating and using it, so she will count some and take it out to give to her mother. After Wang Gang knew, he also praised his daughter's filial piety and was a good daughter.
Du Xiaojuan often went to see her daughter's family, and every time Wang Tingting would inform her father in advance. To avoid embarrassment, Wang Gang would not go to see his daughter when his ex-wife came to the door.
During the New Year's Festival, mom and dad will come to visit at home, and Wang Tingting will stagger the time they come, either mom comes first, or dad comes first. Wait until one party is gone before letting the other party in the door.
Sometimes, Wang Tingting will also be distressed: "Mom and Dad are my dearest family, if we are still a complete family, then we may have less troubles." ”
However, Wang Tingting, who has become a wife and mother, can already look at her parents' grievances rationally, and will not resent anyone or blame anyone. In her heart, her parents are happy.
04 Daughters let ex-husbands and ex-wives can also be relatives
Wang Tingting celebrates her birthday every year, and Wang Gang and Du Xiaojuan, as parents, can't avoid it and will appear together in their daughter's home.
With the passage of time for so many years, the former grudges have long faded, and now all that remains is mutual gratitude.
Wang Gang thanked Du Xiaojuan for raising her daughter so well and giving him such a filial and excellent daughter.
Du Xiaojuan is also very grateful to Wang Gang for raising her daughter so well and providing her daughter with excellent living conditions.
There is Wang Tingting as a bond between them, and Wang Gang and Du Xiaojuan also occasionally communicate when they meet at their daughter's house. They talked about their grandson and daughter and son-in-law together, and the atmosphere was warm.
Wang Tingting's son is called Luis, calling Wang Gang "Grandpa" and Du Xiaojuan "Grandma", and every time he can shout two eyebrows and smile.
Once, his son Louis asked strangely, "Mom, why do I have two grandmothers and two grandfathers?" ”
Wang Tingting may have minded this before, but when her son asked, she replied, "Then do you like two grandmothers and two grandfathers?" They all love Louis, good for Louis, bad for him? ”
In this way, Louis smiled sweetly, the more people like Louis, the better, the child's idea is so simple.
There are many kinds of family affection in the world, and it is not necessary that a family in the legal sense will love each other. There is a kind of affection like Wang Gang and Du Xiaojuan, whose name is ex-wife and ex-husband.
Although the two ended their marriage relationship early, the daughter and grandson made the two relatives.
The two usually have no contact, but they can always learn about each other's situation from their daughters and care about each other's lives and physical conditions.
If Du Xiaojuan encounters any difficulties, Wang Gang will also provide help within her ability through her daughter, so that Du Xiaojuan can live a stable life.
The ex-wife and ex-husband became relatives, which is also the cultivation of the two people, reaching a high realm. It is both a respect for the past of the two and a respect for the daughter.