Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
It is said that having children is a transformation of women. Not only in terms of identity, but also in terms of spiritual growth. No matter how naïve she was before giving birth, the moment she wrapped her child, the sense of responsibility in her heart would arise spontaneously.
This growth is not something that anyone taught them, but a nature and instinct. This is also impossible to achieve quickly before having a child, only after reaching this state, the water to the canal achievements are transformed.
After the woman was abused by the family, she planned for 1 year to make up enough money to take her daughter away
Wan'er's mother is the protagonist of this matter. When she married her husband, she chose to become a full-time wife, and the focus of her daily life was on her husband, although it seemed boring, she was still very happy. Feel like the happiest woman in the world.
After a year of marriage, his daughter Wan'er was born. That's where her nightmare began. When she learned that she had given birth to a girl, her mother-in-law's face was stretched so long that although the mother-in-law did not ask for anything in advance, her reaction represented her thoughts.
It is precisely after this "bane" that wars between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law continue to occur. Just when Wan'er was two months old, her mother-in-law looked for trouble for no reason, which triggered a quarrel between the two generations.
When my husband learned of this, it was the first time he started. Ignoring her wife, who was nursing, she grabbed it and punched and kicked her. For an hour, she was like a sheep, silently bearing her husband's attacks.
The final result is dislocation of the jaw and injury to the tail vertebrae. It is said that the person who committed domestic violence only had 0 times and countless times, and in the days that followed, as long as he was in a bad mood, he would take Guan'er's mother out of anger, and there were always old wounds on his body that were not good and new wounds were added.
Such a day had made her completely dead hearted. The only way to start a new life is divorce. So the following year she began her own money-making plan, and when she had saved enough 30,000 yuan, she divorced her husband without returning.
Life after the divorce is hard but comfortable
After the divorce, she became a father and a mother by herself, taking on all the heavy responsibilities of life. Compared with before the divorce, although life is very hard, she also knows that the road to raising children alone in the future is challenging, but she has no regrets.
She never understood why her marriage had become like this, why she had become a member of the domestic violence community. Which link is the problem?
Could it be that the mother-in-law's preference for sons and daughters is caused? Or is it because I gave up my career to become a full-time mom? There are so many women who regard their families as their careers, why are they the only ones who have overturned the car?
If you want to become a stay-at-home wife, you take a lot of risks
Zhang Guimei said: Housewives are easy to become easily replaced vassals, and their value is worrying.
As a model of the times in today's society, Zhang Guimei used her real experience to give a sample to all women, and she devoted herself to the mountains and contributed her youth and light and heat. Prove to the world that independence is a woman's most powerful weapon.
She was married once in her life, but her husband did not accompany her all the way. But a few days after her husband's death, she immediately adjusted her status and returned to work.
Marriage was like a small episode for her and would not affect any of her actions and decisions. And in the face of women who give up their careers for marriage, she makes no secret of her disgust.
Although housewives are regarded by many as a profession, after becoming a housewife, the risks faced by women have increased a lot. Among them, didn't Wan'er's mother suffer from no job and no salary?
If she had the financial resources, how could she tolerate her beloved preying on her? Although we can't empathize with the feeling of being abused by domestic violence, it must be tortured!
In addition, when you give up your career, it means that you personally block the intersection and contact with the outside world. Out of the workplace, there is no one to interact with, the most direct harm is inferiority.
When women feel inferior, their personality will also become sensitive and suspicious, and they will always have nothing to do with their husbands and quarrels, suffering from gains and losses. Can such a state be benign and normal?
Alpaca mom has something to say:
While not all stay-at-home wives are unlucky, aren't there still many cases of winners in life? The family is under her management, orderly, and the husband has no worries. The kids are cute and lively.
But how many women can actually do this? Many women who have become housewives will have the same feeling, that is, regret, because it is many times more difficult to take care of the family than to run a good business.
Today's Topic:
Are you advocating being a housewife? Would you make such sacrifices and choices?