Wen | a good pregnant sister
"If you dare to do the first year, I dare to do fifteen, and I don't believe I can try it."
When it comes to the problem of male prostitution, Wenwen saw her husband's mouth stirring cement tone, and his heart was alarmed, and he immediately said the above sentence. She has zero tolerance for this matter, and if her husband thinks she is a bully, then the marriage does not have to continue.
"You don't look like a woman."
Husband's evaluation makes Wenwen roll his eyes, in her opinion, a woman's sense of morality is too high will suffer losses in marriage, many times, it is precisely because women are too conscientious, too responsible, too like self-dedication, to give others the opportunity to hurt themselves. Not only in this matter, but also in this matter, but also in all aspects of the housework and childcare for the elderly.
"I don't do who does? Counting on him, there will be no work in the eyes of the next life. ”
This is the helplessness of most women, can housework be more difficult than going to work? Is it harder to bring a child than to pour water for a leader? Of course not, but men just like to "swing rotten", not to be urged not to do, see the work is also natural not to do, it seems that even a parent-teacher meeting has to be listed by the woman to give him a list of precautions, otherwise after the opening of the back on a sentence, "the child is no problem, the teacher did not say anything", the class teacher's surname does not remember anything, the woman will only be angry when she listens.
In this regard, emotional experts have long reminded: the reason why most men are righteous is the lack of family responsibility, they feel that it does not matter if they do not do it, they will not pay any price, anyway, women will do it when they see it. You can say that their sense of morality is too low, or you can say that women spoil them so much that they can't cook, housework can't be taken care of, and children can't be brought.
In contrast, Wen Wenke is too smart, she knew from the beginning that her husband's will not be pretend, so she never gave up, once the dishes are not good, then wash a hundred times; once with the baby bumped, then take a month; housework, shopping, daily life is the same, when to do it well, when the husband and wife take turns to do, all at once her husband was cured.
Especially in the education of children, Wenwen never takes the idea himself, unless the incident is urgent, otherwise all the educational tasks must wait until the husband comes back to do, even if he works overtime until eleven o'clock, he still has to help tutor the child's homework, not why, only because the child's growth path can not lack the figure of the father, otherwise it is not good for the child's mental health.
Emotional experts remind women not to trust the negative stereotypes of men in the environment, what "men are born not to cook" and "daddy with a baby, live is good", in her view, this is all stigmatization of men, and not low intelligence, how can it be done badly. Just like Wenwen never believed in "ten men and nine prostitutes", she believes that most men are bound by a sense of morality, as long as women are willing to cultivate and husband and wife work together, then the days will be better and better.
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