In the TV series "Happiness Duo", two families, one family is short of money, and the other family wants children but has been unable to have children. It's all a potential crisis in marriage. Today, we will talk about this drama.
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Liaosha had always disliked the house she was living in, she thought it was too small, and when she cooked, the whole house smelled of oil smoke. She has always wanted to change the big house, originally thought that her husband was the technical director, she was also going to be promoted, there was no pressure to pay off the mortgage. However, her husband was demoted, and she was not promoted. It's too stressful to want to buy a big house.
Before getting married, Liaosha admired her husband's equation. Because, he can always bring himself happiness. However, after marriage, this appreciation turned into spitting. Because she feels that her husband is not striving for progress, the pressure is also on her. However, her friend Sister Shi immediately pointed out Liao Sha's problem.
Liao Sha is a very strong person, and most men are not optimistic. For example, Dong Boyu, the brother of the equation, does not appreciate such a woman. Sister Shi once introduced her to excellent men, who had a successful career, could make money, and could be independent. Following such a man, he must have no worries about food and clothing. However, Liaosha did not appreciate such a man.
Sometimes that's the case, and who you're married to, there's going to be a problem. You are with a rich man, and you seem to lack nothing, but he is busy making money and has no time to accompany you. You are with someone who enjoys life, he can make you happy, he can tolerate you, but you hate him for not being motivated enough.
One of Shi Jie's views is very correct, no matter who a woman marries, happiness must be fought for by herself. If you expect the happiness you want in a man, it's really hard. Just like Liaosha, she wanted to see the self-motivation in the equation, but what she admired was the Buddha system of the equation.
If there is no shortage of money, if there is no desire, Liaosha will not feel that this is a thing. However, once there is a shortage of money in the marriage, people are under great pressure and will begin to look at the other half again. Liaosha and the equations are like that.
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The contradiction between Liao Sha and the equation is the lack of money, and Liao Sha's pickiness about the equation is that he is not motivated enough. However, Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan are different, they want children, but Gu Xiaonan has never been pregnant, and Dong Boyu has always wanted children. Children are the obsession of this family. For this reason, Liaosha has been seeing a doctor.
This scene is familiar. Li Ping and Hong Wei in "Xiao Min Family" are like this, Li Ping has been trying to get pregnant, but Hong Wei has her own child outside. This scene is very cruel and realistic.
Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan's marriage is not so strong, when eating together, there is a female boss to Dong Boyu secretly sent Qiu Bo, Dong Boyu took over. Later, Ding Zong found that the female boss admired him and immediately asked him to do this project. Dong Boyu wanted to refuse, but the temptations of money, power and status were too great.
As a marketing director, Dong Boyu knows too well how much commission can be made to make this order. Moreover, he is an unscrupulous man for the sake of the upper position. He promoted his own good brother Equation, but instead of appreciating him, Liaosha bought his own company's business. However, Equation does not lead the team, and he does not want to offend his brothers, continuing to start with Liaosha.
When Mr. Ding told Dong Boyu to make him vice president, he knew what Mr. Ding asked him to do, and he did not refuse. However, Dong Boyu miscalculated, and the vice president saw him again, just like a stranger. However, Dong Boyu still plans to use his feelings to change the position of vice president.
One wants a child, one desperately wants to have a child for him. It seems very touching, but in fact, I don't know how much one person has paid for another person's obsession.
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The marriage between Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan seems to be Dong Boyu making money to support his family, and Gu Xiaonan is responsible for looking beautiful as a flower. Such a marriage model inherently has a sense of crisis.
When Gu Xiaonan complained in front of Dong Boyu that Liao Sha did not regard herself as a friend and never liked her circle of friends. Dong Boyu retorted to her, how could someone like Liao Sha, who was so busy that his feet did not touch the ground, have time to reply to her messages, chat with her, and give her likes.
Listening to this sentence, Gu Xiaonan did not agree. She thinks that she is also very busy, cleaning up the house every day, and Dong Boyu can eat when he comes home. However, Dong Boyu did not think so. Gu Xiaonan said that if you let me go to work, I will be more capable than Liao Sha.
This sentence can be seen that it is not that Liao Sha wants to be a full-time wife, but because Dong Boyu wants Liao Sha to be a full-time wife. Once a woman has become a stay-at-home wife, whether it is passive or active, for whatever reason. Unless you have already thought of a way out of security and retreat, it is you who suffer and are hurt.
A woman being a full-time wife is originally a big crisis in marriage, in marriage, do not compromise for the sake of lover, whether it is work, or children, should have their own opinions.
It is said that poor couples are sad, and they are not wrong at all. In marriage, money is important. Can satisfy the desires of two people, live a comfortable life, and there will be fewer contradictions between husband and wife. If one partner is obsessed with children in a marriage, it will also bring pressure to the other party.
For girls, the best way to face the marriage crisis is to remain independent in marriage, earn their own money, and be self-sufficient. Love yourself a little more and don't be led by the nose by men.
Today's Discussion: What Do You Think of The Happiness Duo?