Liao Sha in the TV series "Happiness Duo" is a righteous and capable person, and is a typical iron lady in the workplace, but she has always been sure that she can be promoted, not only did not get promoted naturally, but was kicked out of the game, and Liao Sha, who had a workplace crisis, she at least made several workplace taboos. Today, we will summarize the rules of the workplace through Liaosha.
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Liaosha is quite confident in herself, and indeed she also has the capital of self-confidence, and her performance has become the peak number that no one has surpassed since she joined the company, so when she heard that the director resigned and the recommended person was herself, she had acquiesced to the reality that she was the successor.
It is good to be confident, but to be too confident is to be self-righteous, especially in the workplace, which can only make you an enemy, and Liaosha is exactly such a person
The company's project, the leader let Liao Sha choose first. She did not pick high-quality places, but specifically picked projects that the company could not sell for two years. Even if the people under her hands complained, she still had to try to challenge. Because she wanted to prove her strength through this hard bone, and finally even she admitted that this time it was lucky.
This is a gamble, as a salesman, there is no problem in doing so, as a person more prominent her boldness, but as a top management, what is needed is not simply to sell things, to strategize the overall operation, but also to be responsible for the fate of everyone under the hand, this time selling well, but grasping the key information, you can ask which one hundred percent accurate to win the bet.
She received nothing more than the name and trophy of the hero, and the new director was parachuted in, and she actually did not lose anything. Because she is indeed far from that position, it is not simply the turnover figure.
Liao Sha did not want to understand in the end, and the sentence that her girlfriend Shi Jie warned her was "too much love to show"
Her various gestures reveal a message to the leader all the time, that is, the position of director is not her own. The final announcement is just a process without the possibility of surprises, but this "deserved" attitude will make the superior more determined that she is really not suitable for the current promotion, has the potential to be honed, and has the purpose of suppressing the sharpness.
Do things emotionally and impulsively
Where in this world will there be what you deserve, a mountain and a mountain high, more talented and capable than you abound, no one is irreplaceable and unique, capable people know how to constantly self-examination and improvement, but also in a state of adversity Taoguang obscure, tit-for-tat, self-abandonment, or with emotions on the job, the final misfortune is still their own.
Liaosha pays attention to efficiency and speed in everything, and she hates tortuous behavior, but her straight-forward temperament is her charm and her fatal wound.
The good girlfriend received the news, the new director had someone else, and when she heard the news, she almost ran to question the reason, completely ignoring the seriousness of this will betray her good friend.
Later, when the dust settled on the position, the boss always called her to the office to comfort and kindly mention the point. Although it is a bit of a clichéd chicken soup flavor, it does hit Liaosha's problem. But she thinks she knows why she was promoted, but she doesn't know why she wasn't promoted.
The leader exemplifies Liao Sha's shortcomings, and also analyzes the advantages of the new president Zhao Kai, a leader needs a leader who is a trainer, Liao Sha is just working hard with his own brute force, but there is no one under his hand who can be promoted and reused.
However, in this state, Liao Sha did not really listen to herself and reflected on herself, but emotional gambling, although she did not resign, but the state has fallen into an emotional dead end.
Credulously trust others
However, the key to Liaosha's ultimate defeat is not her self-righteousness and gambling impulses, but her credulous trust in others, especially if this person is still her opponent.
Therefore, LiaoSha was not only not promoted, but her original position was also replaced by her own subordinates.
The new official needed to do something practical, and Zhao Kai persuaded Liao Sha to participate in the development preparations for the new department in his own way.
But all her e-mails had never been opened at all, which she had no guard against, and was still the clue that her stupidest husband had found, but by the time Liaosha really realized the seriousness of the problem, it was too late.
Do not ask about origin, do not remember grudges, only pay attention to the "talent" of the bridge, most of them stay in the art works, rather than reality, for Zhao Kai, Liao Sha is a fierce enemy, but also the biggest hidden danger, especially Liao Sha's personality and ability in the team, it is even more his crisis.
Liaosha's big loss is entirely due to her personality, and the beautiful blueprint planned by the other party is a chip for her to use her ambitions to counter the lows of luck, but she forgets who the person who handed the olive branch is, and it is not clear his true purpose. Liao Sha's credulous belief in Zhao Kai is not how good a man's acting skills are, but stems from women's own problems.
On the one hand, she is too confident in herself, because she feels that she is high enough and has enough weight that no one but herself can do, on the other hand, it is her impulse for untapped areas, she is full of challenges, and eventually becomes a weakness that is used by others.
The workplace is a place that values efficiency and efficiency, no one will cherish your innocence, understand the injustice and grievances you feel, and use the right way to win the right position, so that you can make yourself step by step.
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(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.