Gu Xiaonan's marriage to Dong Boyu is a good fate in the eyes of Gu Xiaonan's parents.
Dong Boyu has a decent job and good family conditions, and as soon as Gu Xiaonan marries in, he lives a decent life as a wide wife.
Gu Xiaonan used to be a dancer, after marriage, he concentrated on becoming a housewife, without going to work, he could also brush Dong Boyu's deputy card casually, and his life was so moist that even Dong Boyu was jealous.
Dong Boyu said: I am tired and tired outside, how relaxed she is, every day to watch TV series, brush videos, simply not too comfortable.
Everyone thought that Gu Xiaonan, the full-time wife, was too easy to be, but no one saw the grievances she suffered in marriage.
Gu Xiaonan said to Liao Sha: I want to wear several positions, both a nanny and a driver, and when he is drunk one day, I will also become a nurse, and I need to be on standby 24 hours a day, and all year round.
Serving Dong Boyu is not only tired, but also tired.
Gu Xiaonan, as a woman who brushed her husband's deputy card, in front of Dong Boyu, always had a feeling of inferiority, she humbly flattered Dong Boyu, carefully took care of his life and life, tolerated his machismo, and even did not dare to tell Dong Boyu about surgery, for fear that he would be disgusted.
How sad Gu Xiaonan's hidden forbearance was, how chilling Dong Boyu's disregard was.
Equation went to Dong Boyu's home as a guest, asked Dong Boyu how the range hood is effective, how to use the dishwasher, Dong Boyu asked three questions do not know, he said that these are Gu Xiaonan's responsibility.
At home, Dong Boyu enjoys the treatment of an emperor, ten fingers do not stick to the spring water of the yang, and never care about water and electricity and chai rice oil and salt.
Dong Boyu was at ease to enjoy Gu Xiaonan's efforts, he looked down on Gu Xiaonan with a lofty posture, the relationship between husband and wife was becoming more and more unbalanced, but he did not expect that he had intensified, regardless of his wife's feelings, and moved the mind of extramarital affairs.
Fu Xiaofen, is a big customer of Dong Boyu's company, in order to win the project, Dong Boyu deliberately approached Fu Xiaofen, accompanied Fu Xiaofen to dinner, drove her home on a rainy day, and sent gifts and flowers, and the enthusiasm was too much.
Fu Xiaofen is more than a decade older than Dong Boyu, Dong Boyu calls her sister, but Fu Xiaofen still has charm, beautiful and temperament, and Dong Boyu does not resent getting along with her.
Dong Boyu flattered Fu Xiaofen, ostensibly for the project, but in fact for his own selfish desires.
Fu Xiaofen's husband is the captain of the ship, the husband and wife gather less and leave more, it is inevitable that they will be lonely, and the appearance of Dong Boyu fills fu Xiaofen's emptiness.
But Fu Xiaofen is not a superficial woman, she and Dong Boyu's getting along, to the point, there is no substantial progress, the original "Happiness Duo" wrote:
"The eldest sister's grasp of this measure and scale is really almost talented. Dong Boyu thought about whether he could not stand it one day, whether he could run to the eldest sister and shake the arm of the other person and say: Don't torture me, you will sleep me. We've got a hundred. But the eldest sister did not, she enjoyed the pleasure of stirring each other. ”
The reason why Dong Boyu did not cheat physically was not because he had self-control, but that Fu Xiaofen did not give him a chance.
The relationship between Dong Boyu and Fu Xiaofen aroused Gu Xiaonan's vigilance, and she secretly followed Dong Boyu to Fu Xiaofen's neighborhood, found Dong Boyu and Fu Xiaofen drunk, and helped them upstairs.
Gu Xiaonan collapsed in an instant.
Gu Xiaonan did not dare to confront Dong Boyu, she carried Dong Boyu to see Fu Xiaofen, the immature Gu Xiaonan, where is Fu Xiaofen's opponent, Fu Xiaofen said three words and two words, and sent Gu Xiaonan away.
Knowing that Gu Xiaonan had looked for Fu Xiaofen, Dong Boyu slapped Gu Xiaonan angrily, and he said with anger: You can't help my career, can you please stop messing with me?
Dong Boyu's slap shattered Gu Xiaonan's nostalgia for him.
On that day, it was the wedding anniversary of Dong Boyu and Gu Xiaonan, and Dong Boyu not only forgot everything, but also beat Gu Xiaonan.
Gu Xiaonan cried and returned to her mother's house, saw the attitude of her parents, and only then did she know why Gu Xiaonan's marriage was difficult to be happy.
Knowing that her daughter returned to her mother's home, she was wronged in marriage, but Gu Mama did not care about her daughter's mood, but urged her to go back, Gu Mama said: Bo Yu this child, I like it in my heart.
Gu Xiaonan asked rhetorically: Do you like his money? You marry a girlfriend, but the 300,000 dowry is not one point less.
Gu's mother was poked in the sore spot by her daughter, and said that there was nothing wrong with marrying a man with good economic conditions.
Gu Xiaonan lived in her mother's house, just like sending people under the fence, Gu Xiaonan repeatedly found reasons to persuade Gu Xiaonan to return to her home, she said: Your father snoring, I can't sleep well, you have a 200 square meter big house to live in, run to squeeze something with us.
The water spilled by the daughter who married out, and Gu Ma's indifferent "feudal thoughts" were more hurtful than Dong Boyu's selfishness.
Gu Xiaonan is at the trough of life, her parents not only did not support her, but frequently pushed her to Dong Boyu's side, they did not ask Dong Boyu what he did, did not ask Gu Xiaonan whether he was angry, but hated his daughter for causing them trouble.
Gu Mom is strong, Gu Dad has no right to speak in marriage, Gu Dad is distressed about his daughter but dare not express it, Gu Xiaonan paid a living expense, and Gu Mom only stopped for a few days.
Dong Boyu did not have Gu Xiaonan, eating and washing clothes has become difficult, he "sincerely" came to his mother-in-law's house to pick up Gu Xiaonan, very sensibly brought expensive gifts to Gu Mama, and also left a pile of tickets, Gu Mama pretended to resign, and then gladly accepted.
Gu Mama's education of her daughter is not to gu Xiaonan to be strong and independent, but to marry a mother-in-law with good conditions, so that she can have no worries about food and clothing, and can also supplement her mother's family.
Gu Xiaonan's family, in the position of the urban-rural combination, there are two suites in the family, the conditions are not rich, but it is definitely not bad, but they are "poor" daughters, Gu Xiaonan has such a native family, which is the root of her marital misfortune.
Gu Xiaonan is obviously handsome, slim, dancing graceful, put on the outside is also very eye-catching, there is no lack of men to pursue, but she is in front of Dong Boyu, humble to the extreme.
Gu Xiaonan looked at Dong Boyu's mobile phone and found a selfie sent by Fu Xiaofen, Gu Xiaonan and Dong Boyu had a fight, Dong Boyu did not comfort Gu Xiaonan, but blamed her for peeking at his privacy.
Gu Xiaonan realized her mistake and took the initiative to ask for peace, she deliberately lay on the ground, pretending to faint, wanting to see Dong Boyu's reaction, Gu Xiaonan put a mobile phone video next to her, Dong Boyu saw through Gu Xiaonan's little trick at a glance.
Dong Boyu did not cooperate with Gu Xiaonan's acting, but pretended to have no intention and stepped on Gu Xiaonan's hand.
Gu Xiaonan screamed in pain, but Dong Boyu was satisfied, he enjoyed the feeling of pinching Gu Xiaonan, Dong Boyu treated Gu Xiaonan like a pet, calling at will, suppressing, humiliating, cold violence, Gu Xiaonan's "palm up" day, not good.
Even if Dong Boyu treated her like this, she did not dare to mention divorce.
Under Liao Sha's reminder, Gu Xiaonan realized that the reason why she had no confidence in marriage was because she did not have her own career, and then Gu Xiaonan took the dance teacher qualification certificate and became a dance teacher.
None of Gu Xiaonan's parents had pointed out to her. Gu Xiaonan's marriage and career must rely on her own groping, and her "hindsight" is too heartfelt.
In order to let Gu Xiaonan return to the family, Dong Boyu sinisterly tricked her into taking pregnancy preparation medicine, tried to give birth to a child with pregnancy, and forced Gu Xiaonan to give up her career.
Gu Xiaonan, who danced and shined, no longer wanted to be held in captivity by Dong Boyu, and what she wanted was not Dong Boyu's secondary card, but her own main card.
However, before her career began, Gu Xiaonan encountered a crisis, and the school she worked for was banned that did not meet the conditions for running the school, and Gu Xiaonan had to find another way to make a living.
She wanted to start her own business, open a dance training institution, due to the lack of start-up funds, Gu Xiaonan called home, but Gu Mom said: The family house is waiting for demolition, can not be sold, if you are short of money, look for your husband, don't look for us.
Gu's mother also specifically told Gu's father that he could not lend money to his daughter.
Hanging up the phone, Gu Xiaonan cried silently.
Gu's mother taught her daughter to manage her husband to reach out for money, but she did not know that her daughter had lost her dignity and lost herself.
Gu Xiaonan, who lacks money and love, grasps a trace of Dong Boyu's warmth and refuses to let go, and her "spinelessness" is the result of Gu Mama's distorted education.
Gu Xiaonan sent Dong Boyu a divorce agreement, Dong Boyu innocently asked Gu Xiaonan why he wanted to divorce, so angry that Liao Sha sarcastically said: "This person is really interesting, he beat his wife with his hands, and asked his wife why she ran." If you dare to do this to me, I will destroy your family. ”
Liao Sha's confidence comes from her independence, there is no equation, she can also live well; and Gu Xiaonan understands from the moment of marriage that her mother's family is no longer a home, and Dong Boyu is the only one who can give her family.
Gu Xiaonan did not know that without a man, an independent and powerful woman, she could also live this life well.
There is a passage on the Internet that says it well:
"When rich, do not squander, when poor, do not have their own hobbies and pursuits, and have their own income and circle of contacts economically." Independence is a woman's greatest excitement. ”
For the sake of the 300,000 dowry to marry her daughter's mother, her reality has long laid the groundwork for Gu Xiaonan's marriage.
The character and upbringing of the other party are more important than material conditions. Gu Mom never asked Dong Boyu whether he was good to Gu Xiaonan, but advised Gu Xiaonan to grasp Dong Boyu, a "high-quality man".
Gu Mama did not know that Dong Boyu's 200-square-meter marriage room was written with Dong Dad's name, and the full amount before marriage had nothing to do with Gu Xiaonan.
While Calculating Dong Boyu's family conditions, Gu Mama's family has also been prepared for it, and she married her daughter for money, which doomed Gu Xiaonan to be difficult to get Dong Boyu's respect and cherishing.
Gu Xiaonan, who grew up poor, met the conceited Dong Boyu, and her concessions were inevitable.
This is also the reason why girls should be rich.
In one book, it is said: "To raise a girl richly is not to raise a girl habitually, but to broaden her horizons materially and enrich her thoughts spiritually." ”
In the time after marrying Dong Boyu, Gu Xiaonan had no spiritual pursuit, and buying a bag was her greatest pleasure; when she found a career she loved, she knew how boring it was to buy a bag.
Gu Xiaonan's "reshaping" growth should really wake up those parents who are poor and raising their daughters.