Her name is Mei Mei, she is 27 years old and is an employee of a department store.
On this day, a man in a suit and leather shoes came to the counter.
When I first saw this man, I gave Mei Mei a bright feeling, and in the process of communicating with each other, I found that the other party was the owner of an advertising agency, and this time I came to buy some items that needed to be used for work.
Because she has a good liking for each other, Meimei is also happy to introduce products to each other.
After that, the man did not ink and directly took a lot of goods in Mei Mei's hand.
Later, the two also left contact information for each other.
Because of this special encounter, Mei Mei has made new changes to her mate selection standards.
Mei Mei is not bad looking, and she has talked about many rich boyfriends before, but this time this man gives her a completely different feeling, Mei Mei feels that this man is not only more golden, but also an honest and reliable person.
Later, after returning home, Mei Mei had the urge to contact each other several times, but in the end she did not dare to contact the other party because she was shy.
Finally, one day, the other party asked some of her questions about the product, at this time, Meimei also took out her professional knowledge and responded warmly to the other party.
In order to express gratitude, the other party also specially invited Mei Mei to dinner, and Mei Mei went to the appointment happily because she liked each other.
In this way, the feelings between the two are also changing day by day, and later, under Mei Mei's initiative, the relationship between the two has become more and more intimate.
When she was with this man, Mei Mei felt that the other party was a special gentleman, and in many cases she would also take into account Mei Mei's feelings, so Mei Mei was also dead-hearted in love with this man who looked very honest.
After falling in love, Mei Mei took the initiative to show her liking for each other with each other.
After such a long time together, the other party naturally cares about Meimei.
Three months after the relationship was formally established, the two chose to marry.
At that time, many friends did not understand Mei Mei's behavior, and even advised Mei Mei to think clearly.
But Meme, who was overwhelmed by love, could take care of so much, so the two received a marriage license and held a banquet.
After getting married, Mei Mei did not live the life she wanted, but instead discovered a lot of secrets about this man.
When in love, Mei Mei never looks at each other's mobile phones, that time when the other party was taking a bath, Mei Mei inadvertently opened the other party's mobile phone, but found a series of ambiguous messages.
It turned out that before marrying Meimei, this man had contacted multiple girls, and even now even if this man is married, many girls are in the dark.
Seeing such news, Mei Mei felt that she was completely deceived by this man, and her heart was also once remorseful.
But a man he trusts so much will now do such a thing.
On the third day of marriage, Mei Mei decisively proposed a divorce, and in the face of Mei Mei's request, the man did not apologize in the slightest, but looked indifferent.
Marriage is not a child's play, and I hope that every woman can be more rational when she is in love.
Love a man, can not just want him to be good to you.
Because if you only look at what is superficial, then your gaze will become very shallow.
Your impulsive behavior will only pay for your own childishness.
Many women will become love brains after falling in love, and no matter what the other party says and does, they will trust unconditionally.
But as a woman, understand that a man's character is the most important.
Women, to be hermes in feelings, not slaves in love.
Wrong decisions will only make you ruin your happy life.
Good love can be encountered but not sought, and your own excellence will attract excellent people.
It's really expensive, don't give it to people who don't deserve it.
Love, do not ask for returns, do not ask whether the value is worth it, but love to the right person is happiness, giving to the wrong person will only become a mystery in the end.
Blind love will only hurt you in the end.
When a boy is in love, he can no longer objectively judge the beauty of his girlfriend. - Franklin
Only when men take the initiative to give you these three "privileges" are they treating you as a lifelong partner, don't believe it.
01.
Take responsibility proactively
Looking at people, you can't just look at the appearance, a really reliable man, often have a sense of responsibility.
They are able to protect you when the storm comes, and they can show up in time when you need it, which is the model of a good man.
For a woman, a man does not have to be handsome, but a man must be responsible and responsible.
Marriage is a matter of two people, a responsible man can shield you from the wind and rain, and the reason why women choose a relationship is actually to be able to find a reliance for themselves.
02.
Be proactive and inclusive of you
Mutual tolerance is the secret of emotional harmony.
At the beginning of the relationship, the two people are undoubtedly sweet, but over time, the feelings between the two will also return to flat, and in real life, it is also normal for two people to have conflicts and conflicts.
But when two people encounter problems, they must learn to tolerate each other in order to make love more long-lasting.
Love is a hormonal impulse, and in a relationship, it is easy for two people to be together, but it is not easy to stay together.
Without inclusive love, it is difficult to really go on.
Everyone wants a long-term love in real life, but only those who really know how to tolerate can harvest happiness.
Without inclusive feelings, it is doomed to die.
03.
Give you the tenderness in the details
Whether a man loves you or not can be reflected in the details, and a man who really loves you will often give you more tenderness.
But men also need to be cared for in love, and good love is never the insistence of any one person.
People who love you are willing to bow their heads for you in life, but love is not a humble prayer, if your love makes the other party feel depressed or even anxious, then the love between you will also become dispensable.
I hope that everyone can love rationally and not hurt the person who is really good to you, because some people will never come back once they lose.
I hope that everyone understands this truth and cherishes the present, which is our best love for each other.