The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart
Different people's understanding of marriage is not the same, but for most people, since they have chosen to enter into marriage with the person they love most, they will definitely focus all their attention on the family in the future life.
However, the family has a difficult scripture, not all couples can be sincere with each other, there are some marriages, from the beginning is doomed to the end of their tragedy, husband and wife seem to be separated, could have had a happy and beautiful married life, but because of their own wrong judgment, resulting in a less satisfactory ending.
Just as some couples implement the AA system, it is really difficult to predict whether it is good or bad.
01 Before marriage, due to the original family reasons, there was a gap between the feelings between the couples
The relationship between Mei Mei and her boyfriend Li Jun has always been very good, at least in the period of love between the two is still relatively harmonious.
Mei Mei and Li Jun met at work, although the two met relatively late, but love at first sight happened to the two, and later after determining the love, Mei Mei and Li Jun got along for a while, in this process, each other found that they were in line with each other's three views, and the two were more certain that the other was the person who accompanied them for life.
After determining this, Mei Mei and Li Jun did not delay any longer, and took each other to see their parents.
Each other's parents are also very satisfied, and in this way, the marriage between the two is half successful.
However, when the two families discussed the bride price, different opinions appeared.
Due to the general family conditions of Li Jun's family, preparing a new house has consumed almost all of his family's savings, but Mei Mei's parents have asked Li Jun's family to take out a dowry of 100,000 yuan.
In fact, for the dowry, Mei Mei has always been prepared in this regard, and her parents have already said to Mei Mei that the bride price is just a formality, and when Mei Mei gets married, she will accompany the dowry together.
However, Li Jun did not think so, after all, in his impression, since his family had prepared a wedding room, as for the bride price, he thought that the Mei Mei family would look at the house and no longer ask for it.
However, when Mei Mei's parents proposed the bride price, Li Jun was silent for a moment.
Mei Mei is distressed about her boyfriend's plight, but for her parents' plans, Mei Mei does not intend to talk to her boyfriend, and she can only try to comfort her boyfriend.
Therefore, there was a gap between Mei Mei and Li Jun because of the bride price.
02 On the night of the wedding, the husband proposed the AA system
Mei Mei did not know how Li Jun had made up enough dowry, only that during that time, the feelings between herself and Li Jun seemed to be much dimmer.
After Mei Mei's parents saw the bride price, they also kept their promise and married Mei Mei beautifully.
On the wedding day, it should have been a festive day, but Mei Mei, who was delicate in her mind, found that Li Jun's face was tense the whole time, and she did not look happy at all.
But at that time, many relatives and friends were present, and Meimei was not good at asking her husband why.
After the wedding was over and the guests were sent away, it was very late, Mei Mei and her husband cleaned up the house and prepared to go back to the house to rest, at this time, Mei Mei just wanted to ask her husband why she was unhappy, but then her husband took the initiative to speak.
The husband said: Mei Mei, let's make AA in the future.
Mei Mei was particularly surprised when she heard this.
Li Jun then said: From the many behaviors of your family before we got married, we can see that you hardly dare to violate your parents' opinions, and I don't think your parents are a pair of enlightened parents, in the future we are both considered to be a family, I want to be responsible for the life of our small family in the future, I don't want your parents to interfere in our lives, and I don't want you to let my little family fall into a miserable life because of subsidizing your parents.
After Mei Mei heard her husband's story, she didn't feel a chill in her heart, it turned out that her family would be so unbearable in her husband's heart.
You know, this time Meimei got married, and her parents married a suite.
03 After telling the truth, the husband regretted it
Looking at Li Jun's face as he should have, Mei Mei sighed in her heart, it seems that the unconditional trust between the two of them has disappeared at this moment, and between herself and her husband, I don't know how much affection there is.
Mei Mei looked at her husband and wanted to give her husband a chance, Mei Mei said: Li Jun, you don't regret it.
Li Jun shook his head firmly.
Mei Mei, who saw this scene, finally dialed the phone of her mother's parents and wanted to give her dowry room to her disciples.
The husband who was on the side heard the contents of Mei Mei's phone call, and after understanding the end of the matter, he admitted that he regretted it.
Li Jun originally thought that the family of his parents-in-law did not know the truth, but all this was just a test for them, and Mei Mei brought back the bride price and married a house.
Remembering what he had just said to his wife, coupled with the request for the AA system, Li Jun was difficult to accept for a while.
But then no matter how Li Jun interceded with Mei Mei, Mei Mei was still unmoved, perhaps it was from this incident that Mei Mei saw her husband's true attitude towards herself, and it was also her husband's behavior that made her feel extremely cold.
But everything is a foregone conclusion, and it is futile to say more.
Conclusion: Since you have chosen to be married, you should be tolerant and understanding of each other, no matter how many and big tribulations occur in the future, you must also work together to deal with and advance and retreat together.
Of course, there may always be some unsatisfactory places in the real world, and there will be many misunderstandings and misunderstandings, but no matter what happens, the husband and wife are a whole, no matter what, can not put forward the AA system, the implementation of the AA system will only greatly hurt each other's feelings, for the couple to get along, there is no benefit.