In this society, there are temptations and traps everywhere, and behind any seemingly good thing there may be a trap, and many people can't find this very well, so they will be deceived. Now there are many men who use dating software to cheat and cheat money, if they are deceived, what should female compatriots do?
First, a 45-year-old woman was deceived: a man has a car and a house and filial piety, how can I not be moved?
Xiao yun, who lives in Mudanjiang City, is 45 years old this year, in 2019 she met Xue through dating software, the two people did something out of the ordinary after meeting, and then Xue borrowed money from Xiaoyun one after another, and then played disappeared, just when Xiaoyun couldn't find Xue, there was another woman who found Xiaoyun, it turned out that she had the same experience as Xiaoyun, and soon they found the third and fourth recruited women.
At Xiao Yun's home, she put on a recording. In the recording, the man does not admit that he has borrowed money from Xiaoyun and asks her to submit evidence, and Xiaoyun says that you wrote me an IOU. But the man said lightly: "You sue, why don't you have a face, you want a face, I slept with you in vain."
Listening to Xue's shameless words, Xiao Yun was angry and angry, and she deliberately provoked the other party: Then you come to me! Unexpectedly, he said fiercely to Xue, "I am looking for you, I will kill you."
In the recording, this vulgar person is Xue Mou, in September 2019, he took the initiative to talk to Xiaoyun who lives in Mudanjiang on a dating platform, the two people met and hated late, chatted very closely, and a few days later they met as lovers and soon had a relationship.
Xiaoyun said that she is a divorced woman, just want to find a crush on the network platform after half of her life, when Xue added her number on the dating software to tell Xiaoyun that he divorced and had a son raised by him, there was a house and a car under his name, in addition to dry engineering, he also invested in Shandong to raise a big car, it can be said that his career is successful, and he currently returns to Mudanjiang to take care of his elderly parents.
Through the video, Xiaoyun saw that the man's face belonged to a particularly thick and honest person, and the other party's frankness was to go home to take care of her parents, making her feel that this man was worth believing.
Xiao Yun said that the reason why she let him make an IOU was that she found that Xue mou borrowed money from her, and then borrowed money from her, she told the other party that she really had no money, and then Xue Mou never appeared again.
In just one month, Xiao Yun not only mispaid the true heart, but also reversed the money, in the face of Xue's disappearance, Xiao Yun, who was trapped in the emotional quagmire, panicked for a while, and just after he continued to ask Xue for arrears and was blocked without results, a woman named Tong suddenly contacted her.
Originally, Xiao Tong used his own ID card to do a phone number for Xue, but then Xiao Tong could not find Xue Mou, helplessly, Xiao Tong used his id card to replace Xue's phone card, she checked Xue's phone list to see who contacted more, and finally Xiao Tong chose to call Xiao Yun and asked her if she knew Xue? As soon as the two chatted, they learned that Xue had borrowed money from them.
Second, the victims appear one after another, the deceived girlfriend hugs the group for warmth, and the scammer threatens to expose the girlfriend's child
Xiao Tong is 41 years old this year, divorced has a boy, she knew Xue Mou seven months earlier than Xiao Yun, the love relationship between the two sides has lasted for nearly eight or nine months, according to the time calculation xue and Xiao Yun together, also and Xiao Tong in love, Xiao Tong said that during the love period, Xue swiped her credit card, a total of 150,000 yuan cheated her.
It turned out that after Xiao Tong's divorce, she had not been looking for it, since she met Xue, let her feel that this man was particularly good to her, so she moved the idea of remarriage, as long as the other party said to ask for money, she tried to be satisfied, but which cheng wanted to pay others wrongly. But she is so old, the feelings were deceived by her recognition, which is a punishment for her, but the money is what she has worked hard to earn, and now the credit card is not enough to let her live like a year.
Fishing on the dating software, cheating divorced women's trust, and then determining the relationship between men and women, and then complaining about borrowing money, Xiao Tong and Xiao Yun are deceived under the same routine, they are willing to pay for their self-identified "favorite boyfriend", but the result is a chicken flying egg fight, people and money are empty.
Xiao Tong said that at that time, she had Xue's mobile phone number, ID card number, car number, and WeChat signal, and when she could not contact the other party, she reported to the police, but the police said that if the amount of fraud was not enough for 500,000, criminal investigation methods could not be used. In desperation, she found Xiao Yun, who was also deceived, because she heard that someone had seen Xue's car in Hailin, and the two of them went to Hailin to find Xue's car in the winter and went to report the case.
But after reporting the case, the local bureau said that you are now two people, if it is three people, he is a fraud, in order to find the fact that Xue is fraudulent, Xiao Tong sent a dynamic on their previous dating software, and sent a green jeep driven by Xue to see if anyone knows the person who drives this car.
Xiao Tong continuously released a number of dynamic actions, which completely angered Xue, he often called Xiao Tong to threaten revenge, and also accused Xiao Tong of not forcing people too much. Xue warned her that if she talked nonsense on the Internet, she would make a photo of her and paste it in their community and children's school. Hearing Xue's vicious words, Xiao Tong said that it didn't matter, her purpose was to let the other party quickly return the money to her.
Xiao Tong's mental state is very poor now, she once did a check-up at the Hongqi Hospital affiliated to Mudanjiang Medical College, was diagnosed with mild depression, Xiao Tong never expected that Xue Mou, who said all the gentle words and fulfilled the eternal oath, was wearing a disguised mask, and his real face was so ugly.
Xiao Tong said that this man's mouth is too sweet, whether in the morning or at night, he will say good morning and goodnight on WeChat, and they are all "wife", this kind of warm love words can most touch people's hearts, a greeting, a wife, completely let them fall into the tenderness of honey can not extricate themselves, Xue Mou also said to him to long-term love words, but now it has become a joke.
Some people say that lies are like deceptions, and it is often people who are extremely affectionate to be deceived.
From the chat between the two, it can be seen that Xiao Tong especially likes Xue Mou, and it is precisely because he likes that it is the easiest to believe in each other, otherwise he would not give each other so much money.
Third, most of the victims think that they are unlucky, so that the more men deceive, the more happy they are
After Xiao Yun and Xiao Tong came into contact with each other, the two women with the same disease and pity wanted to fight a "counterattack war", a battle against the negative man, and they knew that if they wanted to win, they would have to find new allies and new strength.
Kung Fu pays off, after the network released the dynamics, a girl named Xiao Jing appeared, she said that she was borrowed by Xue Mou in the same routine more than 10,000, has not yet been repaid. At that time, she was also impressed by the good conditions of the other party, and during the period of getting along, Xue only invited her to eat a meal, and also swiped her credit card. Subsequently, Xiao Jing contacted a woman named XiaoBo and Pingping, and Xue had borrowed money from them.
Pingping only lent Xue four or five thousand yuan, because the money is less, she does not want it, Xiaobo said, Xue is a scoundrel, when borrowing money she did not leave evidence, she thought she was unlucky.
A cool car, four women, hundreds of thousands of arrears, Xiao Tong's dynamic sentence: "I want to know how many people you cheated with this car" is particularly ironic, and the answer is only Xue Mou's clearest. And as its camouflage coat was stripped away layer by layer, the woman about the woman hiding behind the jeep, Mei Mei, was also dug up.
Xiao Yun said that Xue had told her that the car was his, and the two women went to Mei Mei's neighborhood, and a woman in the house told them that Xue was her aunt.
For more than two years, Xiaoyun has traveled in many ways to collect evidence and look for witnesses, just to get back the money to get justice, but the road to rights protection has been extremely difficult, so Xiaoyun's current boyfriend said that this Xue mou fraud in the name of the object is too harmful to women. So, what is the relationship between Mei Mei and Xue Mou? Why is the green jeep always being driven by Xue?
Mei Mei said that the two were friends before, she had already returned the car, Xue also asked her for money, but she was unwilling to tell each other about the amount, and she could not contact Xue.
Xue has no fixed place to live, it is difficult to find, and before that, Xiaoyun once gave a mobile phone number used by Xue to the reporter, when dialed, the other party denied it, when the reporter said that someone asked for help and said that Xue owed them money, the other party said that he did not know.
Obviously, it was Xue himself who answered the phone, but he had already taken precautions, and when it came to the arrears, Xue directly hung up the phone, but after a few minutes he actually took the initiative to contact the reporter.
On the phone, Xue said that he did not owe Xiaoyun money, and took the initiative to nag with Xiaoyun, he accused Xiaoyun and Xiaotong of ruining his reputation, and scolded Xiaoyun and the two went to find Meimei, it seems that he is very protective of Meimei. He warned Xiao yun: "You go to the court to sue, I admit that there is an IOU, how, can the court sentence me?" ”
Hearing the other party talking so arrogantly, Xiaoyun asked him to understand his hard work of earning money in the night market, but Xue said that Xiaoyun played a double jump for him, and a man appeared at Xiaoyun's house in the middle of the night and moved with him, forcing him to write an IOU.
Xiaoyun angrily accused Xue of lying on the phone, and posted a number of WeChat screenshots and transfer records with the other party to prove his innocence, she said, if Xue was forced to write down an IOU, how could he sign two copies at different times.
Xue said that he admitted that he owed Xiaoyun money, and he also felt that it was not easy for her to be a woman, and finally he promised to return the money to Xiaoyun within 3 months. But he said that if he found her and Xiao Tong mixing again in the meantime to let him know, he would never get used to it. But he also said that he had returned the money to Xiao Tong, and as for the credit card swipe, Xiao Tong also agreed, which he had filed in the criminal police team, and the cashed out money was left to Xiao Tong's own disposal. In this regard, Xiao Tong sent a number of phone recordings to prove that Xue was lying, but Xue played a rogue and hung up the phone.
The reporter suggested that Xiao Tong take the legal route to protect her rights and interests, but Xiao Tong was somewhat repelled, one is that she has no money to find a lawyer to fight a lawsuit, and the other is that even if the lawsuit is won, Xue will not repay the money. It's a sigh to watch.
Sentiment Analysis:
Seeing that so many people have been deceived by Xue Mou, they have chosen to remain silent, why is it? I think nothing more than these points.
1, men grasp the psychology of women
Seeing that Xiao Tong is unwilling to take the legal route to protect his own interests, this is not to promote Xue's arrogance, this man must have gotten their divorce and children from the registration information when cheating, so he grasped the psychology of women's desire for warmth, and walked into each other's hearts little by little from morning to night.
Some people say that when you are deceived, don't always blame the tricks of the liars, have you ever thought that it is precisely because of the emptiness in your heart that you are in the middle?
And these women, however, did not learn a lesson from the previous failed marriage, but did not know for a long time and fell into Xue's sweet words. Not only were they deceived and cheated of money, but they also lost their determination to get their money back.
2, women's greed
There is a saying that the reason why people are deceived is not that others are deceived, but because they are too greedy. This is very true, if they are not interested in Xue's conditions, have a car and a house, package the project and raise a big car, I think they will not be deceived, the key is that they do not know what their real needs are, the marriage based on men is the reason why they are deceived, thinking that finding a successful man is to find a sense of belonging, do not know that this is the man's routine.
3. After being deceived, I am afraid of losing people and dare not speak out
There are two steps to being deceived: one is to perceive loss materially or spiritually, followed by a sense of humiliation that rises up.
Xue deceived five women, only Xiao yun insisted on two years and did not give up on Asking for twenty-five thousand yuan from Xue, some people may say that she is not worth it, but this is not her bravery in the face of her heart, there are many people who have fallen on the road of courtship, and have since lost the right to pursue love, and they dare not ask for the money they have cheated away, one is afraid of losing people, the other is tossing and turning, so they are unwilling to disclose the truth even if they choose to rot in the stomach, which is also their sadness.
We understand Xiao Tong's concerns, but finding Xue to expose his behavior is not only to protect the rights and interests of individuals, but also to be responsible for society, and we cannot let this person use the same script to act with more female compatriots, so that more sisters can be deceived again, and at the same time we must also believe in the power of the law. You tell me?