Human disasters are often due to contact with people who should not be contacted.
No friend is just a lonely person, and contacting the wrong person will bring ruin. There are many such examples around, because of contact with so-called friends, some caught in pyramid schemes, some investments have no return... Of course, flies don't bite seamless eggs, and they can't all blame others, and they may also have times when they are greedy or weak-willed.
The only thing you can do is to make friends cautiously, and beware of so-called friends who sweetly talk at first sight and seem to be going to stick knives into your ribs.
It is not bad to always feel that people are cold, and I have passed the age of being proud of my friends all over the world. After middle age, we must be cautious in our words and deeds, and keep the bottom line of being a person. Don't make friends randomly, contact bad people, you will come into contact with hell, and when you get to hell, there are ghosts everywhere!
Reading a paragraph these days, I think it is quite interesting, share it:
"Pay as little attention to the bad news as possible and live your own little life." Work hard, exercise, eat something good, do something to make yourself happy. ”
You're not that strong, you can't change the world. You can't save others, and you can even easily destroy yourself. Having too much empathy and focusing on too much bad news can easily cause serious psychological problems – or save yourself first.
In fact, a person's best blessing is the kindness.
When people interact with each other, character is the most important. Character is put first, and communication is at ease; only when character is thick enough, can we get along for a long time. The Tao Te Ching teaches people to deal with the world in this way: to treat the thick and not to live in the thin; in fact, not to live in the glory. Being a person is the most shining place for a person.
What is thick road? We are no taller than the short, rich in the face of the poor, and not talking about health in the face of the sick.
Yesterday a woman left a message saying why do you a writer dance? Don't you know that words are what you're good at? Does it make sense not to do the right thing?
Although I have written on the Internet for many years, I have rarely encountered such an impolite message. Probably because I write about small scenes of life.
In fact, I was because of long-term desk work, shoulder pain, the doctor told me to do more exercise, and then a good friend taught me to dance - said to dance, in fact, it is aerobics, do not go outside, only in their own courtyard to exercise.
Of course, I have no foundation, but when the beautiful music comes, I feel very happy. Sometimes my husband would help me shoot videos and laugh that my wife, who used to be very dull and inflexible, had become smart and dashing through dancing.
Amazingly, exercise healed my shoulders, lost weight, and released stress, so I enjoyed dancing in the yard alone and stuck with it.
In the face of the lady's rebuke, I did not give any explanation, but blackmailed her—the person would never have the right to say anything here again. Everyone has their own way of life, you don't like it can be ignored, no one has asked you to pay attention, don't blame others with your own arbitrariness, the writer can only write all the time, can not dance? Besides, I'm just an ordinary writer, and liking music and dancing is just a personal way of life.
What you see is what you get, the same thing, the good see the good, the vicious see the vicious.
Tell me how to face your accusations from others?
1. Are you wrong?
Jump to 4 wrong, jump to 2
2. Is he sick?
If accusing someone else is his fetish, jump to 3, otherwise jump back to 1 reflection
3. Leave him alone and do your own thing
4. Correct mistakes and accept them with an open mind
The image comes from the web, thank you creator.