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"Everyone wants to live this life with great luck, but not everyone can live every day smoothly."
Good luck takes a long time of wisdom, bad luck only takes a moment. If people want to live as much as possible, they have to start by cultivating their own "wisdom."
Life is a process of continuous cultivation, and what step you can cultivate to, then what kind of small life you can live. Whether it is a curse or a blessing, the control is always in your hands.
For life, Li Shutong said that sorrow and joy intersect.
Sorrow and joy constitute the whole of life. To be able to live happily, we will see the smoke of cooking in the distance, and the dawn that pierces the fog. And no longer happy, everything is getting closer and closer to the abyss.
Everything in the world, all encounters in life, is closely related to your own experience. More importantly, everything is "self-inflicted".
There is a saying that "all kinds of self-inflicted wounds are self-inflicted, and hell suffers and blames whom." ”
One thought of heaven, one thought of hell, day and night, yang and yin, light and darkness, combined became the norm in this world. Our task, on the other hand, is to find our own place and then shine out of our own light.
In life, people with a hard life and people with a good life are only 4 things apart.
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First thing: If virtue is not worthy, it will cause disaster.
Confucius once said: "Virtue is thin and dignified, knowing small and seeking big, small strength and heavy responsibility, rarely enough." ”
It would be counterproductive that virtue is too shallow and that one occupies a particularly revered position, that wisdom is particularly short-sighted and that it is planned for great things, and that one bears too much responsibility with little strength.
People with average ability will do things with average ability. People with great ability, go to do big things. Everyone does their duty and occupies their own position, and that is the beginning of normal development.
However, there are not many people who can recognize this. Especially in this extremely grumpy era, most people feel that they can "outperform others", so they do things that exceed their own abilities, and eventually cause trouble for themselves.
Imagine driving a tricycle with someone else driving a BMW faster than the speed, is this normal?
Some people have not even done tens of thousands of yuan of business, just to do millions of dollars of business, that is just to become someone else's leek.
People with good fortunes definitely have self-knowledge, know which step they can do, and will not be too confused and eventually harm themselves.
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Second thing: confusion, like a blind man touching an elephant.
What the heart is, the person is. The so-called "one heart is light and the day is up, one heart is bright and the sun rises" is this truth.
You let your heart become negative every day, you are in the sunshine, but you have to face the rainy encounter, then don't you harm yourself?
You maintain a positive attitude every day, even in the rain, you can live a romantic appearance, then your happiness can not be high?
Life, not only to see the material, but also to look at the "mentality".
It's like a calm lake, the waves are not alarming, and the blue is thousands of acres, giving people a sense of comfort. Unlike the gray abyss, except for the haze, there is only darkness.
Wang Yangming said that a narrow heart is the root of misfortune, and a broad heart is the source of happiness.
If the heart of the sufferer is too narrow, then he can only live more and more unlucky. And the heart of the good fortune-giver is getting wider and wider, then he can accommodate the joys and sorrows of this world and harvest his own blessings.
If fate is bitter, the blind man touches the elephant and bumps and bumps; if the fate is good, the heart is like a mirror, waiting for the flowers to bloom.
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The third thing: the greed of the human heart, the multitude of disasters.
Some philosophers have said that the greed of human nature is like a black hole, and sooner or later it will swallow itself up.
More than a decade ago, two brothers went to the city to do business. Big brother step by step, anyway, especially stable. And the second brother? On the contrary, it is very bold, accustomed to taking risks, and the scale of the enterprise is larger than that of the big brother.
In the follow-up development, the eldest brother still adheres to the principle of "steady progress" and only wants to make his own money, so he takes one step at a time, the scale is average, but the enterprise is very stable.
But the second brother wanted to make a lot of money quickly, so he took out loans everywhere and invested everywhere. But the weather was unpredictable, he was directly bankrupt because of the break of the capital chain, and fell from the peak to the bottom.
When they met again, the second brother found that the eldest brother actually drove home in a luxury car, but he had nothing, which was really unfair.
In fact, there is nothing unfair in this world. People are too greedy, and then they break a good hand of cards, and even lose everything they have, that is, after all, "they are responsible for themselves."
People, don't be too greedy, be content, and stabilize the focus, that is the way to long-term development. People, instead of fighting for the immediate, it is better to fight for the long term. The last laugh is the winner.
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Fourth thing: excessively extreme, full of hostility.
"Cautionary Tales": "The overwhelming force is inexhaustible, the blessing cannot be enjoyed, the cheap cannot be taken, and the wisdom cannot be exhausted." ”
Whether it is momentum, blessings, advantages and clever talents, in fact, it is almost enough, and there is no need to be extreme to the "extreme" end.
Just like heaven and hell, heaven is too hypocritical, hell is too cruel, so why don't we like the human world?
Modern people are too grumpy and full of anger at every turn, which can easily affect their lives. Moreover, the heart is not calm enough, restless, how can we talk about achieving our own career?
Dealing with others, paying seven points of true feelings can be enough; working outside, showing seven points of intelligence is enough; in the matter of making money, it is good to do seven points of effort.
To be a person, you still need to leave "three points" of room for yourself. And this "three-point leeway" is precisely the difference between those who have a good life and those who suffer from a bad fate.
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