If you look at it from another perspective, life is a ruler that needs us to master a good degree, too rational, easy to friction with people; too obedient to emotions, will be swayed by emotions; too insistent on their own opinions, will eventually go to the end of the road.
Different people will have different degrees of grasp, and we can also judge what kind of person she is from the degree of grasp of others.
At the same time, it will also decide whether they will spark love between each other, and smart people will use this to find true love, and they can also minimize the harm they have suffered in love as much as possible.
I believe that for all men, do not want to pay a lot, but only receive a "good man card", if you can determine each other's heart and attitude as soon as possible, then the success rate of love will rise sharply.
And whether a woman is easy to seduce, can be observed through these three details.
1. How many friends of the opposite sex
Everyone has the right to make friends, on the basis of ordinary friends, there is also pure friendship between the opposite sex, so many people have some friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship.
But from the actual situation of most people, among many friends, it must be the same sex friends accounting for the majority, because everyone has the same gender, similar thinking mode, three views are consistent, there will be topics that cannot be talked about, and the opposite sex, there will always be a lot of differences in thinking, so there are not many objects that can be fully matched.
However, some women are around, but there are a lot of friends of the opposite sex, and even the relationship is still good, and some people may think that maybe the other party is just more like a boy, so they can play with men.
In fact, this kind of thing is not true, female thinking is innate, but also brought in the bones, and can not be completely changed the day after tomorrow, so from a practical point of view, when a woman has many friends of the opposite sex around her, it can only show a problem, her feelings are currently in the empty window period, and there are ideas for love.
It is precisely because of this that they will expand their dating horizons and find their true love, and for this kind of woman who desires love, the success rate of being able to seduce her will be relatively high.
2, and the sense of distance between the opposite sex
The sense of distance will have a ruler in many people's minds, and some people will not want to cause more trouble to themselves, and they do not want others to misunderstand, so they can keep a distance from the opposite sex.
But some people, when interacting with the opposite sex, do not particularly care about the sense of distance, although to some extent, this is also a form of expression that women like each other, but some women do not deliberately pull away from each other when they get along with many people of the opposite sex.
Although it is not excluded that such a woman is not serious enough about feelings, it is undeniable that it is precisely because the other party does not mind closing the distance between the opposite sex and that it will give you more opportunities to get closer.
If you want to invite each other out to dinner alone, or invite each other to travel together alone, these can give you more opportunities to be alone, so that you can better cultivate your feelings for each other.
3. Attitude towards feelings
Everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, and even the same person has different attitudes toward feelings at different times.
If the other party is still trapped in the previous relationship and cannot be withdrawn in time, then most of the time she is not willing to carry out a new relationship, as long as she mentions related issues, she will think of her ex.
If the other party is a very strict and serious person with feelings, when talking about feelings, they will have a serious face, and they are not willing to easily joke about emotional things, and such people generally have no emotional experience.
Of course, some people will be light when talking about their ex, indicating that she has completely "forgotten" the other party, and is very much looking forward to the arrival of new feelings, and even takes the initiative to let friends around her help introduce.
For such a woman, everyone can seize the time to act quickly, because at this time, she is opening her own door, if you do not act as soon as possible, you will be taken by others.
It should be noted that we must not think that others are good, you can not cherish, so the love from the heart is the object we want to cherish.
Don't think that easy to get, there is no value to cherish, you know, this is just to fight the other party like you, when the other party's love is consumed by you, you will find that all the beauty of the past, into luxury, is no matter how hard you try, you can no longer have.
There has always been no good for no reason in the world, and there is no love for no reason, don't step on the efforts of others, no one should be like this.
People are mutual, whether it is good or not, just determines the success rate you get after paying, does not mean that the value of this relationship will plummet, such a wrong and fatal idea, do not have.
Love can be very beautiful, can also be very ugly, the key lies in the people in it, is to choose what kind of attitude to deal with this relationship, do not let themselves become the object of scorn, love has always been sloppy.