The daughter really had her wings hardened, and in the face of the marriage I opposed, she chose to marry Fengzi

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Reader's Letter:

Muzi Lee:

I am a civil servant, my husband is a businessman, and we only have one daughter. In this way, in the process of growing up, we gave our daughter pampering.

However, when my daughter became an adult, she gradually stopped listening to my husband and me, especially in the matter of marriage, and in the face of our opposition, she actually married her husband Fengzi.

The daughter and her husband were college classmates and formed a relationship in their sophomore year.

At that time, I asked my daughter about the family status of the other party. The daughter also said lightly: his family is in the county seat.

At that time, I did not interfere with the relationship, and always felt that college love would basically graduate and die.

What I never expected was that after graduating from college, the other party actually followed my daughter to the city where we live to find a job. It was then that I realized the gravity of the situation. So, I began to block it.

In order to separate them, I have insulted my daughter in various ways, and even detained my daughter at home and did not let her go out; I also went to the other party's unit and warned the other party that he and my daughter could not.

Even so, I couldn't separate them.

Eventually, they married.

To be precise, they have not yet held a wedding, but my daughter secretly took the household registration book from me, and they issued the marriage certificate at the Civil Affairs Bureau.

I've been very angry lately because of this and don't know what to do.

Muzi Li answered the reader's question:

1) Why oppose this family affair? Answer: Do you think the man's family is poor;

2) You are this one daughter, you and your husband are making money, and from your description, you can see that your family is not bad for money. So, as long as your daughter is happy, you are fully capable of helping them buy a house. I want to ask: why use so much money?

3) Didn't your original intention be to want your daughter to be happy? I would like to ask: If your daughter marries a man you think is reliable but your daughter does not love, do you think your daughter will be happy?

Think clearly about the above three questions, and perhaps, you will accept your daughter's current feelings.

Now that they are legally husband and wife, don't continue to make it difficult for them.

You can also not give them any financial help, but don't add to their marriage anymore, is it?