The wife is too double-standard, and when treating both parents, she can't always be a bowl of water flat

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Reader's Letter:

Muzi Lee:

To be honest, I don't like to lick a dog in a relationship.

To tell the truth, I'm not good at admitting it in a relationship.

When I was single, I examined myself and evaluated myself as: I may be more suitable for single life.

However, after the age of thirty, in the face of the forced marriage of parents and the blind worries of the people around them, it is really annoying.

My wife and I are the product of blind dates.

My wife and I have a good relationship with herself, and my wife is not the kind of woman who loves to "do", but there is one thing that I am particularly dissatisfied with my wife: she is seriously double standard for both parents.

For example, if my parents stay in my house for a few days, her face will show displeasure; her parents can live in our house at will;

For example: every New Year's Festival, the gift to my parents is about 100 yuan; the gift to her parents is basically thousands of yuan;

For example, she often listed in front of me the goodness of her parents; she often provoked my parents.

It bothered her particularly about this.

Because my parents are still "young" and don't need our help in life. However, my parents will eventually have an old day, and I am really worried that when the day really comes, my wife will show her unfilial face.

Muzi Li edited the following words:

Those women who only want to see their mother-in-law's parents and reject their in-laws are basically unreasonable. The premise is that the in-laws have not squeezed and rejected them.

If you do not handle the relationship with the elders well, it will also affect the feelings of husband and wife.

Now, your parents do not often deal with you in life, and your wife is like this, in the future, she will definitely not be a filial daughter-in-law.

Once, you who didn't want to be a dog licker, you who didn't want to admit it, has it changed now?

I still feel that a man with the right to speak is not enough to let his wife manipulate his parents.

Of course, the premise of wanting parents to be filial piety:

1) You have the ability; 2) your wife loves you enough and is willing to take care of your emotions; 3) your wife is sensible.