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Reader's Letter:
Muzi Lee:
Supposedly, my parents' generation did not practice family planning, but they were all only children.
Because our home is far from my grandparents' house, I have been helped by my grandparents until I went to kindergarten.
At that time, my aunt was not yet married, so my aunt also poured a lot of feelings into me, so that at that time, I called my aunt "mother" and my mother "big aunt".
Later, after following my parents to school, I changed the "title".
Probably, I have a special relationship with my grandmother, so all the winter and summer vacations during my school days, I will clamor to go to my grandmother's house.
In my first year of work, my grandfather died of illness; the second year of my marriage, my grandmother died of illness.
Although, when I was growing up, I could see my grandfather and grandmother every year, I always felt that I had a deeper relationship with my grandmother and grandfather.
Now, my parents and I don't work in the same city, and I have a feeling that since my grandmother died, I have a lot less concern for my hometown. There are even times when I feel that my grandparents and I are better than my parents.
How many people are like me: not brought up by grandparents, but brought up by grandparents?
Also, is it not true that some people, like me, feel that grandparents are closer than grandparents and parents?
Muzi Li edited the following words:
In fact, whether it is grandparents, grandparents, or parents, the love for you is the same.
You and your grandparents are strange because you are far apart; you and your parents are strange because you feel that in the process of growing up, your parents did not participate more than your grandmother and grandfather.
You should understand the things: Your parents "put" you around your grandparents in your early stages of growth because they wanted to make money to ensure that you had no worries about food and clothing during your growth.
Because your grandparents have given you too much time to accompany, it is very understandable that you are dependent on them. However, you must also understand that in fact, your grandparents and your parents also need your care and concern.
In this life, people may really accompany their lovers for the longest time, but every relative will have a very heavy weight in their own lives. Especially when living in different cities with relatives because of work relationships, it is really one less to see each other.
So, take every chance to go home and get along with them.