Only 4 years after marriage, the wife has already given birth to two babies, and she still wants to continue to have children

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Reader's Letter:

Muzi Lee:

My wife and I fell in love freely and got married, and before we got married, the idea of favoring sons over daughters about my wife naturally didn't feel it, but after four years of marriage, after she gave birth to two daughters in succession, she still wanted to continue to have children, which made me see one thing clearly: she just wanted to have a son.

I negotiated with my wife about this matter, but my persuasion did not listen to her at all.

In my mind, giving birth to a boy or giving birth to a girl is the same.

Of course, in the face of two children, the most tired person is my mother, because most of the time, it is my mother who helps us take care of the children.

When my mother heard that my wife was going to continue to give birth, she was very emotional: if you are reborn, I will not help you bring it for a day.

Because of this incident, I am even a little resistant to conjugal life now, or if my wife does not agree to contraception, I will not have sex with her.

I wondered: my wife is also a girl, why is there a patriarchal mentality?

Muzi Li edited the following words:

And look at the so-called son preference in life, basically women have such thoughts.

In the process of children's growth, in fact, the dependence on the mother is stronger than the dependence on the father, not because the father is not important, but the mother mainly bears the child's diet and living. The result: eating, dressing, pocket money, are all children negotiating with their mothers.

In this case, the warmth or coldness of the family that the children feel is actually the feedback given to them by the mother.

Even if some men prefer sons to daughters, at best, they will only be manifested in their reluctance to let their daughters continue to go to school.

Therefore, for a family, the mother's preference for sons and daughters is more lethal for the daughter.

Regarding your family, the most important thing now is not whether to continue to have children, but, in case you can't help your wife and have three children: 1) What if you are still a daughter? 2) Having a boy, your two daughters are growing up in a very messy way; 3) Raising three children, can you eat well?

In between, my advice is: never give birth again.

When there is no "son" between you, perhaps your wife will be kind to your daughter in desperation, after all, your daughter is also her flesh and blood.

This means that in patriarchal families, once a son is born, it will be a disaster for the daughter.

Now, you can only use your way to avoid the appearance of the third son.

That's all there is to it.

If your wife divorces you because of this matter, my advice is: consume, really can't go on, divorce will be the next policy.