If I take my parents to live in the city, my wife will divorce me, and my mother: the countryside is very good

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Reader's Letter:

Muzi Lee:

In my sophomore year of high school, my father died of illness.

Because my parents were farmers, it was not easy for my mother to continue to provide for me to go to college after my father's death, and even so, my mother did not flinch.

I thought about not studying anymore, but my academic performance was very good, so I was also a little reluctant.

My mother understood me very well and comforted me: Son, if you don't continue to study now, you will suffer for a lifetime; if you continue to study, your mother will suffer for you for four or five years at most. You should understand this simple truth, right?

In the end, I chose to continue my studies and work part-time in college after studying.

Later, I studied for a master's degree or a doctorate.

Now, I have a well-paid job, I have married a city girl, and I have our house.

In the blink of an eye, my wife and I have been married for more than ten years, and my mother's health is deteriorating.

In this case, I intend to bring my mother to live with me.

My wife's attitude toward this matter: If you take your mother to our house, we will divorce.

My mother could feel my difficulties and comfort me: the countryside is very good.

For the first time in my life, I felt like I was living a bit of a nest.

I know it's not easy to be a mother, and I know it's not easy to start a family.

Every time I was in trouble, it was my mother who accommodated me.

This matter has become my heart disease, the more I think about it, the more I feel that I should divorce my wife.

If so, how do you decide?

Muzi Li answered the reader's question:

Your wife's rejection of your mother made you want to divorce.

You also understand that starting a family is not easy.

Your wife's rejection of your mother has formed a disharmony in the relationship between husband and wife.

However, in our lives, we still have to start from reality:

Perhaps, giving your mother some money every month and asking her to find someone in the village who can take care of her may be more reliable.

Forcibly took your mother to your house, and your wife did not divorce you because of this, but will she give your mother a look every day, and do not feel that it is a blockage or mental destruction to your mother?

By forcibly taking your mother to your house and your wife divorced you, do you think your mother can feel better? And have you considered your child's feelings?

Therefore, leaving your mother financially unchecked may be a more practical choice.