If you talk about the male artist who loves his wife the most in today's Hollywood showbiz, I am afraid that it is Not Will Smith.
No way, at the Oscars, he slapped himself with a "spoiled wife crazy demon" persona.
Yes, it was an accident, but it was also a declaration by Smith's spoiled wife: My wife I have come to protect, and no one can bully and blaspheme her.
But does this dude's performance have a feeling of overexpression? You know, the guests of honor are just to enliven the atmosphere and say a word:
"Jada, I love you. I can't wait to see you play "The Devil's Soldier." ”
So Smith rushed up and slapped him directly: "Don't mention my wife's name with your stinky mouth", because he thinks this statement is a kind of irony to his wife Jada.
In fact, although Jada shaved her head because of her own disease, she could not accept this reality for a while.
But when she was bare-headed and attended such a grand event as the Oscars, had she already accepted the reality of her bald head in her heart?
Whether it is the innuendo or ridicule of others, Jada should have enough ability to face it, after all, she is no longer a little girl, nor is she meeting people with a bald head for the first time.
In fact, Smith didn't think there was anything wrong with that sentence at first, but only when he saw his wife Jada's blackened face did he "react" again, so the award guest got a hard blow.
This rhythm is very coherent to say, but it may not be so one-size-fits-all on the spot.
Maybe Smith himself felt that his behavior was abrupt, right? So he said this when he was receiving the little golden man:
"I know I look like a crazy father, but love makes you do crazy things... When family members are disrespected, you can't cope with it with giggles..."
So, what were you doing when you first heard people talk about your wife? Laugh more than anyone. As a result, changing your face faster than anyone else, is this proof that you are a qualified actor?
Of course, the guest of honor should also be to blame, who let you keep your mouth shut?
In short, it is a group of abnormal people, and then they do an abnormal thing.
Some people say that Smith really loves his wife, and people are right.
I am afraid that it is not very comprehensive, and the act of fighting for the wife is not necessarily out of love.
Earlier, Smith himself had revealed that his marriage with his wife, Jada, had once fallen apart, almost to the point of inability to fall in love, and the two of them reached an agreement: each looking for a way to make him happy.
Yes, Smith's love affair with Jada is already a bit incomprehensible, they are 21 years apart, and it was only 27 years old when he met Jada under the introduction of Jada's son.
Although age is never a constraint of love, the age gap can open up the distance between two people.
After Smith and Jada Bongzi get married, both of them cheat in love and each seeks what they think is happiness.
The so-called "open marriage", that is, the marriage model of Smith and Jada, about this, Jada himself also approves.
She once said on the live show of the online TV channel HuffPost Live:
"I've been married to Will for 16 years, and it's been an open marriage indeed! That's why our marriage lasts so long. ”
No way, Smith was so young, he had fantasized countless times that he should have multiple female lovers. He is also said to have a list of "20 celebrity girlfriends".
"I can't sway any decision he makes, and vice versa, and he does the same to me."
Jada said this on the show, and it can be seen that the marriage of two people is more like a partner than a love. Because love is exclusive, the two of them cleverly avoid it.
"I always tell Will that you can do whatever you want, and before you die, you have to face yourself, so Will can do whatever he wants, I'm just his partner, he can really control himself." 」
This is Jada's view, and from this view, we can't find that a marriage that is packaged as true love is actually helpless behind it, and it is independent.
Of course, Jada is not the traditional kind of woman, and she is not idle when her husband cheats. Even, after marriage, the first person to cheat is her.
In one interview, Smith said that after Jada married himself, he was with Augustus. But then he learned about it, but instead of getting angry, he chose to forgive.
Is this a fragmentation?
You have your flower world, I have my happy life, we are husband and wife, but we do not constrain each other's loyalty to themselves.
That is to say, Smith's marriage to Jada is more like a collaboration: we want to live under the same roof, but we must do not disturb each other, because we all have our own lives.
Who can admit that such a marriage is premised on love? Who would think such love is real?
It can be seen that Smith's act of angrily shooting at his wife is itself not so much love as a show, an impulse to please Jada's approval.
Smith has his own opinion on this, and he doesn't think there's anything wrong with this open marriage, because "you shouldn't approach each other with a purpose and want to get what you want from each other." ”
That's right, love is all-encompassing. But the contradiction with it is that love is the only one, and the open marriage itself is a betrayal.
"Being like a beggar with an empty bowl, forcing each other, filling up his own empty bowl, forcing the other party, and satisfying his own demands, is unfair to anyone, is not too realistic, and may even be devastating." 」
Smith seems to be very satisfied with his marriage to his wife, so he talks about the secret of his "marriage success".
How many people agree with this statement? You don't have to force each other, but monogamy is perfectly broken by you.
And about this, Presumably, Jada also gave the answer earlier: "Will is my best friend in life and helped me through many difficult moments."
You see, they're not really a couple, but friends, a legally recognized couple with a marriage certificate.
Today, Smith and Jada are still together, still known as a sweet couple. However, what the essence of their marriage is, I am afraid that only they themselves know.
For ordinary people, this kind of open marriage does not apply, at least, a person with three views of normality, there is no way to accept to live with them, or live with a husband, you say?