Text/Fish Xiaoyu talks about emotion
Society is developing, human beings are progressing, modern society, women are no longer the old society, only responsible for being good wives and mothers, modern women's thinking, has been very open.
For marriage, they will look at it rationally, and many women no longer regard marriage as the key to changing their destiny, so when they really use modern women's thinking to look at marriage, they will be afraid of marriage and think that marriage is the shackle that binds their freedom.
Therefore, the reason behind the refusal of contemporary women to "get married" is because of "fear of marriage", and most women are afraid of marriage, but the following three points cannot escape.
01. Worry about not being free after marriage
In this era of equality between men and women, women have become free, whether before or after marriage, their minds are pursuing freedom, so when they are free to get used to it, they will be afraid of being bound.
In their view, the most binding thing for women is often the family, so many women are afraid of marriage, afraid that marriage will restrict their freedom.
Love is free, marriage is also free, women are afraid of marriage, see a lot of unhappy marriages, they also began to worry about their future married life.
Therefore, the reason why modern women are afraid of marriage is that they are worried about being restricted from their freedom after marriage.
02. Worry about being too tired of doing housework
Although men and women are now equal, and many women's minds are free, but free thinking does not mean that they will not be affected by the ideas of the old society, and many times, women have to admit that men have more responsibilities than women.
Many times, women's own physical conditions are limited, for example, most women do not have male strength, so in married life, most people's families are male and female, which leads to women having to do more housework at home.
Although housework is not a tiring job, but housework is the most tedious thing, repeated every day, even if the body is not tired, the heart will be tired, especially when men do not know how to understand them, women are even more aggrieved.
Therefore, women are also afraid of marriage, there is a reason and basis, they are not worried about doing housework, they are worried about doing housework every day, and they are not understood, resulting in tiredness.
03. Worry about not getting along with your mother-in-law
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an eternal topic in marriage, whether in ancient times or in today's society, the most difficult relationship in marriage is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In marriage, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, the feelings of the husband and wife will be affected no matter how good it is. You must know that in most marriages, women marry and men marry.
Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always existed, no matter how reasonable the mother-in-law is, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will exist more or less, after all, the mother-in-law is not a mother-in-law, it is impossible to fully understand the daughter-in-law, therefore, many times, the mother-in-law can not take into account the feelings of the daughter-in-law.
And the daughter-in-law will not really treat the mother-in-law as a mother-in-law, so they will not do it, and treat the mother-in-law like a mother-in-law.
Therefore, the reason why women are afraid of marriage is still worried that they will not be able to get along with their mother-in-law after marriage, even if many young people now do not live with their parents after marriage, but many women are still afraid of facing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Emotional Conclusion:
After encountering love, everyone will consider their married life, and when they think of married life, many women are both yearning and afraid.
Yearning to live with the person you love the most every day, I am afraid of the various tests that life brings after marriage.
The reason why many women are afraid of marriage is a common problem, so for women who lack security, fear of marriage is also normal.
However, no matter how much fear of marriage, it is all to be faced, and sometimes when you really face it, you will find that the original reality is not as bad as you think.
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