Love is a necessity in life.
And love is often considered to be the main source of love.
Many people stumbled on the road of love, crawling and rolling, full of scars.
In the beginning, it was always full of hope, and slowly it was only disappointment.
Falling in love is a matter of two people, and some of the bumpy feelings may really be due to the fact that two people are not compatible with each other.
However, if you find that you have been in a state of emotional unhappiness for a long time, then you may be able to examine whether there are the following problems in yourself?
Not loving yourself enough
Love, really important.
But if we always focus on the outside world, then it is very likely that we will become detached from ourselves and place our joys and sorrows on another person.
A person who does not love himself enough will often pin his hopes on his partner, expecting him to meet his inner desires.
When we want others to love us in the way we expect, it is usually hope that greets us.
In life, the chance of meeting someone who loves you is very high, but the chance of meeting someone who loves you in the way you want is very, very low.
A person who loves himself will often have a higher acceptance of the love of others and will cherish the good of others to himself more.
And a person who does not love himself enough will often continue to criticize the efforts of others, and finally lose a person who loves himself.
Learn to love ourselves, we will make love more possible.
I don't know what I want
Emotion is an inner experience.
Happiness comes from within.
When choosing a mate, many times, we are usually attracted to a person's external conditions.
Appearance, wealth, social status, these have become the most competitive factors in the marriage market.
The emphasis on external conditions often stems from a lack of exploration of oneself.
Because you don't know what happiness is, you need something that is easily perceived to fill your inner emptiness.
Of course, it is not that external conditions are not important, but that these are all clues that we can explore.
The wealth of a rich second generation is given by TA's parents, and what kind of lifestyle he chooses truly represents what kind of person HE is.
Expectations of love are too high
Hot love is a stage that most relationships will go through.
Psychology's division of the hot love period is usually about 3 months, that is, the enthusiasm in love cannot be maintained for a long time is a normal phenomenon.
But if we always demand a partner by the standard of the hot love period, then the normal pace of emotional development will be disrupted.
A partner is a peer relationship.
Keeping pace is a very important thing.
Many times, the rift in feelings does not begin with some major life event, but with the details of life.
There's nothing wrong with sticking to yourself, but if it's a two-person trip, then what we need to work out is a route for two people.
Placing love on someone else is a high-risk event.
Learning to love ourselves is the deepest connection we have with the world.
Because I am the one closest to me.
The injuries we suffer in love do not come directly from others, but because we give each other the opportunity to hurt ourselves.
Love is an inner feeling, when love happens, look more into your own heart, you may be able to see, that feeling of happiness, from your own heart began to sprout.