See a lot of stories about marriage and discover a fact. Infidelity, as one of the deadliest marriage killers, its injuries are the most difficult to heal.
We often say that the broken mirror is round, if the mirror is broken, can you still hope to go back? It seemed to me that it could never be, even if it was barely round, and the crack was there, a scar that could never be erased.
From acquaintance, to acquaintance, to love, to marriage, the process is long and sweet. Marriage, as a result of love, is wonderful, but love is only part of marriage.
In love, we can divide it into hot love period, run-in period and dull period.
The run-in period is usually intertwined with the hot love period. Due to differences in personality and living habits, both parties accommodate each other and get close to each other. After these two periods, we ushered in a long period of dullness.
During the dull period, the two may enter the marriage hall because of an opportunity. Marriage is a long ordeal for both parties. There will be all kinds of difficulties in the exam, such as work, such as parents, such as children. Some people get good grades, some people barely pass, and some people fail.
As one of the biggest deductions in marriage, cheating is intolerable for many people. In married life, many couples will gradually transform love into family affection. In family relationships, both men and women will gradually lose the feeling of love. At this time, many people will begin to cheat in order to pursue the original feeling of love.
In today's society, the parties in many marriages are unequal. We can say that the woman sacrificed too much for the family, and even gave up her career and circle of friends. However, in this unequal relationship, the gap between the two sides will become wider and wider. Men's careers and the circle of friends around him will continue to rise, while women's reasons for taking care of their families will lead to stagnation or even regression. At this time, the generation gap between the two sides appeared.
In the process of marriage, one partner continues to make progress, while the other party is unable to keep up with the other. At this time, marital changes are inevitable.
At this time, many men will choose to cheat, because he can't feel your freshness and can't feel the taste of love. He needs another woman to fill him with love and passion.
As a woman in the host family, we must allocate our energy reasonably, take care of the family at the same time, we can not give up their career work, to pursue their dreams, completely put the future out, so the risk of this way is very large, many people have given the answer.
Love has to be renewed, to grow, to create, marriage is the same, life is the same.