All the tipping points are: "Refers to the condition under which an object transitions from one state to another." ”
The relationship between a man and a woman also has a critical point, and when there are certain conditions between the two, the relationship can proceed to the next stage.
It may be just a friend relationship at the beginning, and eventually it will become a lover's relationship, and when two people evolve into a lover's relationship, the next step may enter the relationship between husband and wife.
None of this happened suddenly, but there were conditions that made an important part of the bridge, connecting these stages and contributing to a beautiful marriage.
Between the opposite sex, once they acquiesce to the following three behaviors, they are about to reach a critical point.
01.
Eat the same bowl of noodles or eat the same thing
If two people have been in an ambiguous relationship for a long time, but the two people still have not established a relationship in love.
Then at this time, when two people eat, they still eat their own food.
But if one day when two people are eating together, and you eat a bowl of noodles at the same time or two people eat bread, you eat a bite of a cake together.
It shows that these two people have reached a critical point, and the next step, the two people have become lovers.
Under normal circumstances, even if you have a good relationship with this friend of the opposite sex, because the other party is a member of the opposite sex, there are still some taboos when the two of you eat, and it is impossible for two people to eat a bowl of noodles together.
And sometimes some of the things you eat leftovers can't be put on the other person's mouth, because you feel that this is disrespectful to the other party, and you yourself will feel particularly embarrassed, if the other party does such a thing to you, you also feel that the other party's behavior is insulting you, or you feel that such words are too intimate.
If the other person acquiesces to the two of you eating a bowl of noodles, or acquiesces to eating some of the rest of what you eat, the next step in your relationship is a phase of the relationship where the two of you become lovers is without doubt.
Walking on the street or in what kind of restaurant, you will find that many people, if they are just ordinary friends, it is impossible to eat a bowl of noodles together, because the relationship between the two people is not ordinary, there will be this action. You will also find that some girls pour inexhaustible things into men's bowls and stuff unfinished bread into men's mouths, which is some of the intimate actions between lovers.
The same was true of my first relationship, when the two of them ate a bowl of duck blood vermicelli soup together, and they made a beautiful love.
When we did not eat this bowl of duck blood vermicelli soup, the two of us were still just ordinary mutual temptations, after eating this bowl of duck blood vermicelli soup, the two people completely became lovers, and also accepted each other, and previously acquiesced to the relationship state of the two people.
02.
There is physical contact
After two people have confirmed the relationship, if there is physical contact, the relationship between the two people will be further.
Some love is platonic love, after two people fall in love, do nothing, but some people's love is particularly hot, which is also the state of most people's love.
When we are in love with each other, we can't do something particularly excessive, but for holding hands or kissing, hugging this kind of thing, because this is indispensable in love, with these, your love can be more passionate.
When you have this, your love will enter the next stage, which is what everyone calls the hot love period, then at this time, you only have each other in your eyes, and only you in each other's eyes, at this time, your feelings will be very good.
If once the feelings begin, it is not red, it means that the feelings of these two people cannot go to the end, because you have no passion for each other, indicating that your feelings for each other are not very enthusiastic.
When there is contact, the girl will become very nervous, the boy will become very impulsive, one in the tense atmosphere, testing this beauty, one in the impulsive desire, testing his beloved woman, this is the wonder of love.
If a love has no physical contact, the love is problematic, either the other party is not enthusiastic enough for you, or you are not enthusiastic enough for each other, and the love between the two of you is like a child living at home, without the appearance of an adult.
Although women should be self-respecting and self-loving, and men should also be responsible for women, some basic physical movements are still indispensable.
03.
Go meet each other's parents
By the third stage, the two people also have a mutual understanding, maybe the two people have passed the hot love period, then at this time, if you want to make the next step, the two people have to go to see each other's parents.
Many people have been in love for 4 or 5 years, never bringing each other into their own homes, and they have never been to each other's homes.
If you don't bring the other person into your own home, it means that you still have something to consider about the other person, you haven't thought about marrying this person, so you haven't thought about what the two of you are going to do next.
If a woman has concerns about this and it is possible that it is because the man is not performing well enough, or that the woman has not yet chosen well.
If a man has this consideration, it means that the man has never thought of going well with this woman from the beginning.
So at this time, two people must communicate well, if the two of you have not yet chosen, the other party is not the object of your marriage, then at this time you must say what you think in your heart, so as not to delay everyone.
But some men are very responsible, and after having some relationship with this woman, at this time they will take the other party to their own home, let the other party understand the situation in their own home, and also let their parents see this woman.
In this way, the people in their own family also have some understanding of this woman, and the woman also understands her own home, laying some foundation for the marriage of two people in the future.
Women who want to take men home may think a lot, because sometimes feelings are particularly unstable, maybe this time you think about marrying each other, but after a few days, the other party will change their minds.
When the other party changes his heart, your neighbor already knows that you have a boyfriend, so at this time there is also a bad impact on your reputation, so the woman's concern is forgivable, but if the woman has been worried, there is cattiness.
Once the opposite sex acquiesces to each other, these behaviors above are actually acquiescence to the next stage of the two people.
Feelings are like a person's career, it is constantly moving forward, some careers will succeed, and some careers will fail. Feelings are also like careers, there are successes and failures. Everyone's feelings must be managed well, and only if you manage your feelings well, your lover will always be by your side.