The cousin's mother-in-law lives with her precious daughter, and the pocket money is 3,000 yuan per month, and the money is also known as testing her husband for her daughter.
The cousin only used one sentence to directly drive his mother-in-law back to his hometown, and everyone around him praised that the cousin did the right thing.
Point 1, my cousin's personal experience.
My cousin and my mother-in-law got along so badly that sometimes when we saw a wild dog running back and forth on the side of the road or saw an animal, my cousin would burst out laughing.
We asked my cousin, cousin, why are you so happy? My cousin said that the little animal just now really looked like my mother-in-law, and we also expressed our helplessness about my cousin's statement.
But the cousin is willing to play as much as he wants, after all, for the cousin such an idea is already the cousin's cheapest method of spiritual victory.
In the early years, when the cousin was about to marry the cousin, the cousin's family was also the cousin, and the future mother-in-law spoke.
There's no problem with marrying my daughter, but my daughter is so beautiful that she can't waste it on you, so you need to buy a car, you need to buy a house
In addition to a car and a suite also need a bride price, at least 300,000 of these money forms can not be made up, what to do?
Don't think that my cousin is poor, please cousin is also like me, that is, the children of an ordinary family can afford to buy a car or can afford to buy a house, or can get a 300,000 dowry, any one of the standards is already very impressive.
The cousin had no choice but to lower his eyebrows and go to the mother-in-law to intercede, but the mother-in-law refused, but the cousin really loved his cousin too much.
So the cousin had no choice but to go around in debt, did not know how much money there was, it is said that conservative estimates, should be around 1 million, finally bought a similar car, and then paid the down payment of the house and also took out a dowry of 300,000.
Although the cousin did this, the cousin's life was completely ruined, because the cousin needed to pay all his monthly salary to pay off the debt.
Of course, the cousin also said that he would never let his daughter-in-law, that is, the cousin, participate in it, and he took out 2,000 yuan from his parents every month to ensure the basic food, clothing, shelter and transportation of the cousin, which is already the limit of the cousin's ability to do it.
The sister-in-law was reasonable and did not say anything, although the cousin said so, but the sister-in-law has always been silently helping the cousin.
Of course, there is not much help, such as giving the cousin 10 yuan and 100 yuan a month, and then helping the cousin to pay off this foreign debt.
Don't think that the sister-in-law is a bit of a door," after all, the sister-in-law's money is not blown by the wind, but also the money earned by people working hard.
So if you understand this logic, it is easy to understand the contradiction between the cousin and the mother-in-law, who is about to retire, and it is too lonely to live alone after retirement.
In fact, the mother-in-law originally had an old wife, but the wife really couldn't stand the strange temper of the mother-in-law, and she had no choice but to divorce directly.
In this way, the mother-in-law lived in her cousin's new home with dignity, completely ignoring her cousin's opinions and suggestions.
Because at that time, the cousin's parents also found a job in the county town in order to help their son pay off his debts.
So the cousin's parents live in a small room, the cousin and cousin live in a small room, and the children are in a small room.
Although the child has not yet grown up, but sooner or later in the future will need to have a room of their own, the cousin has been carefully arranged, according to the table, another year and a half should let the child live independently in a small house.
But the mother-in-law's family did not care about these things, and when the mother-in-law came to the cousin's house, she directly chose the largest house and then lived in it.
The sister-in-law kept persuading, so the cousin slowly and helplessly lived in the smallest room with the little doll from her sister-in-law.
The mother-in-law's pension every month is almost 1,000 yuan, and the mother-in-law has all taken it to buy snacks for herself and eat it herself, and the mother-in-law eats alone to eat alone.
In addition, the mother-in-law often put forward various harsh conditions, asking her cousin to buy her this and that.
At the new year, you have to buy new clothes, usually you have to buy a variety of new shoes, you have to buy a variety of designer bags, buy a variety of lotions.
According to the mother-in-law, I am not trying to embarrass you, I am just trying to test you, I am just trying to make my daughter take a reassurance pill, let my daughter know that her husband is so considerate and filial, his old man.
The cousin was close to collapse, never thought that according to the cousin's point of view, as long as they got married, there would be no mother-in-law or anything.
The mother-in-law should at least know that she should stay away from herself, but she did not expect that after marriage, although the mother-in-law was very close to herself.
And frequent intervention in their own lives, if they continue like this, their good days will be completely mixed.
Point 2, what the cousin does and how to look at it.
In fact, if the mother-in-law is not particularly excessive, or as long as 500 yuan and 1,000 yuan per month, it is not a big problem.
Of course, if there is a mother-in-law's temper and can take the initiative to take out some money to help the cousin through difficulties, it is estimated that the status of the mother-in-law in the cousin's mind will be even higher.
But I am sorry that my cousin did not take any effective measures, nor did my mother-in-law take any effective measures.
The mother-in-law later intensified, asking her cousin to give her 3,000 yuan of pocket money every month, otherwise it would not be enough to spend.
The mother-in-law sometimes feels that she has gone a little too far, after all, the people around her are pointing at themselves, and then they say it to outsiders.
What do you know? The main purpose of my doing this is to help my yellow flower daughter test her son-in-law.
After saying this, the cousin suddenly blew up and pointed at the mother-in-law and said, Do you know how long you have tested me?
Do you know how much pain has been caused to me because of what you have done? This marriage will leave immediately if you continue to want us both to get along.
If you don't want to, we will go to divorce now, I don't serve you this big Buddha, I don't want the previous bride price, I don't want all the money I gave to your daughter in the past few years, the child can give it to me.
As soon as the mother-in-law saw that her cousin was angry with herself, she seized the time to find her daughter, but she was very sorry, and at this time, her daughter was more or less powerless.
I felt that my mother usually did a little too much, ignored it, and finally the mother-in-law could only return to her hometown in despair, but even so, she still said bad things about her cousin behind her back.