01.
Bread and milk, everyone wants to have both, but many times, the two can not be owned at the same time.
Or rather, when you have bread, you can't get milk for the time being.
Of course, the bread and milk mentioned here are not hungry breakfasts, but more of a love and career.
Fish and bear paws can not be combined, and while having a career, it is difficult for people to take care of love.
This is also why love is a thing with a shelf life.
When you don't pay attention to time, the other party will get tired of yourself in the passage of bit by bit.
In the beginning, during the hot love period, every time they meet, the two people have to prepare carefully for a long time.
Dress yourself up for an upcoming date to show that you value the other person.
But as it gradually enters a better situation, it seems that everything can be perfunctory, perfunctory, and the love of two people is gradually perfunctory.
In fact, when men do this to you, most of them are tired.
When men are tired, the performance is extremely obvious, and the people who are unwilling to respond to you in everything have exhausted their enthusiasm for this relationship;
When the desire to share between lovers is dissolved, the day when the two people part ways is coming.
02.
Sharing is a great tool for maintaining love.
The plot in the TV series always says this, and love begins with confession.
But in reality, love mostly begins with sharing.
When two people who were originally complete strangers had the idea of sharing, this relationship was just beginning.
Simply put, because everything cares, I want to share everything.
In fact, everyone's day is just running for life.
Occasionally there are some small condiments, where to play, ordinary every day is constantly staged.
But it is precisely because of the people who want to share that every day's life is meaningful.
Men who put you in their hearts will share the two or three things around you.
On the contrary, if a man ignores you;
I will never talk to you about my own things, and I will never think about you or care about you when I do things.
Either I have never loved it, or I am tired of this relationship.
When the desire to share is lost in love, then there is no need to maintain the relationship.
If you still love deeply, it is better to take the initiative to share it with boys.
If it is irreparable, there is no need to be sentimental, a man who is tired of himself, it is better to give up early.
03.
The absence of a response to everything shows that they are tired of it.
One of the happiest things in the world is to be able to have someone respond to anything.
Just like playing badminton, the ball that is sent out always has to be played again to have fun.
Playing alone is far less fun than playing with another person with a similar mind.
The same is true of love, the voice that is made, with a response, becomes meaningful.
Having a response means that you still care deeply, after all, the news that does not respond is not all kinds of boring information, or those irrelevant things.
Only what you really care about will always care about how to respond.
When you love someone, people want to stick together all the time, even if they say some nonsense, they become meaningful because of love.
At the same time, when men are tired, no matter how simple and perfunctory they are not willing to reply, your repeated initiative seems quite annoying in their eyes.
When there is no response to everything, it already shows that they are tired of the relationship.
There is an essential difference between a satisfactory response and a perfunctory reply, and whether it is sincere or not can be easily felt.
The man who loves you can always perceive the slightest change in you.
Only if you really don't care, your emotional changes will become so cheap that no one cares.
04.
When men are tired, there is no need to hold back, just walk away.
When in love, men and women want to share two or three things in life with each other, and they also hope to get a sincere response.
In the same way, because of love, people are willing to share and willing to respond.
But love always has a deadline, when this deadline is not forever, when men are not willing to share the response, most of them are tired of the relationship.
You know, feelings are always inexplicable.
When men are tired of themselves, the redemption of the dead beggars makes them realize their gold and preciousness.
Not loving is not loving, he is not a homework problem, and the effort he puts in may not be able to get proportional feedback.
Therefore, when men do not love, they should also learn to let go.
You know, everyone's life, to be more or less injured, a glance of love is not nothing, but very little.
If you are not so lucky and cannot hold a person's hand, you will live a lifetime to the white head, and you must also learn to let go.
In the vast world, there will always be a right person silently guarding themselves.
Therefore, in the relationship, there is not so much right and wrong, when a man, there is no need to hold back, just walk away.
You know, things that belong to you will come to you sooner or later, and in life, you must learn to wait for the flowers to bloom.
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