The sudden outbreak of the new crown epidemic has made everyone panic, and they can only go out less at home, or even not go out. Because of the epidemic, many couples have to "fall in love in a long distance".
Separated from each other, unable to take care of each other, there is always a loss in the heart. This separation will stimulate some people's anxiety and uneasiness, and will also have a great impact on the relationship between two people.
And some people, in this state, still feel happy, for them, two people sometimes stick together, although it is happy, but separation is not so painful, they are rarely lonely, and there are few long thoughts.
So, when the epidemic breaks out, what kind of problems will couples who separate the two places face? How to solve it?
Challenge 1: Poor communication. When the other party is not around, when encountering problems, it is likely that they will not be solved in time because of the distance between time and space, and it is easy to produce diaphragms and misunderstandings over time, so that each other becomes strange and lacks tacit understanding.
Challenge two: The emotional link is not timely. When you miss each other, reminisce about the good times of the past, and look forward to the other party's active care and greeting, the other party may not understand and receive your needs. Loss and pessimism, which make your emotions rise and fall, will also cast a shadow over long-distance feelings.
Challenge Three: Lack of companionship. You prefer realistic contact to online text communication, hoping to touch and hit that person from time to time, which makes you feel more real and warmer. Separated from the two places, the need for intimacy and companionship cannot be met, the spirit is empty, there are gains and losses, and even some people will be ambiguous and flirt with other people of the opposite sex when they are empty and bored. If the other party is suspicious, the hard-cultivated feelings will also leave hidden dangers.
How to keep a long-distance relationship warm?
1. Phone calls or messages about two people
"You can't do without your phone, you can't do without the one on the other side of your phone."
When separating the two places, contact is one of the most important means of maintaining the relationship between the two people. Therefore, when you miss the other party, you can tell them instead of waiting for the other party's initiative. Passing on what you think and think in time will make your love more solid.
Of course, you should also pay attention to: if you dial the other party twice in a row without answering the phone (or hang up directly) or the text message has not returned, you may be a little anxious at the moment, even a little angry, but no matter how anxious you are, you must calm down and learn to wait.
Admittedly, the waiting process is hard, and you'd love to get an immediate response. But don't think about it, the other party has no response for the time being, it may be that something is busy, and it may be accidentally slept over.
You can't see each other when you're separated, trusting each other is more important, so be careful not to let doubt ruin your previous bond.
2. Create common time
Long-distance couples, if you can, try to maintain a consistent rhythm of life. Although your partner is not around, you must also let life run regularly, and at the same time let the other person know your rhythm, and both parties will feel at ease. Otherwise, if you go to bed early and get up early, go to bed late and get up late, the time for synchronization will become very small.
When the pace of life is synchronized, it is possible to start creating some common time. For example: play games together, cooperate together in the game, and fight off enemies. Mobile games such as Glory of kings, eating chicken, and the fifth personality are all good choices. Or you can choose a movie that everyone likes to watch, while watching the movie and WeChat video, you have the feeling of watching the movie together. It's also a way to accompany.
3. Everyday vignettes add to the fun
In your spare time, do what you want and create a little surprise for the other party.
This surprise can be a skin that ta likes in the game, or a pay movie that he wants to see but doesn't buy, or a funny little comic or joke and so on.
If your subject doesn't like sports, if he is a dead fat man whose body is not good, force him to exercise and supervise the video.
Don't think that these are redundant and insignificant, knowing that your TA is in a different place, it is inevitable that sometimes they will miss the time together, and they will doubt whether you miss yourself as well. You can't give companionship at the moment, so these little surprises are evidence that you have TA in your heart. Maybe these things seem like small actions at the moment, but when you think about it later, these are sweet candies
Listen to it Psychological Counseling Conclusion: A short separation will eventually meet. What about the next mobile phone, and it is not necessary to separate a mobile phone for a lifetime. When he can't be with you, you can just maximize the fun in your life, he is your spiritual partner irreplaceable, but there are other things in your life besides TA.
Under the epidemic situation, taking care of yourself and living your own life is the best love for both sides.
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