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People have emotional out of control, because people's life, can not be smooth and smooth.
The road of life, there will be sunshine, there will be rain and dew, there will be happiness, there will be sorrow.
Some people like to talk to someone when they are in a bad mood, and some people like to find a place for themselves to vent bitterly.
Emotions need to be vented, whether it is to find someone to talk to, or to solve it yourself, as long as you can release your emotions, it is always a good thing.
But instead of talking to someone, as I get older, I prefer to find a place for myself to vent, for example, to cry bitterly.
When you are young, you always like to talk to your girlfriend when you are sad, and then you don't care about anything, just say something to her, and then you will feel better.
The older you get, the more you feel selfish you are doing it. Because people have their own emotions, they all have their own joys and sorrows, if you don't ask, just tell people, in fact, this effect is not as beautiful as you think.
First of all, you don't know if the point in time you're confiding in is appropriate.
When you're in a bad mood, you don't know if the person you want to talk to is also in a bad mood. If the TA is also in a bad mood at this time, then isn't it more emotional for you to talk to the TA? Even if he is someone who controls his emotions and is willing to listen to you, things that make matters worse are always bad.
If people are in a good mood and are preparing to play happily, you will talk to others at this moment, and you will also sweep away people's happiness. Even if people don't mind once or twice, if the number of times is too much, it is inevitable that there will be mustard.
This is human nature.
After all, the emotions of two people can't be so synchronized, and it can't be really intimate to talk about nothing. No matter how good the relationship, after all, is a complete individual, even if it is a husband and wife, it cannot be one and the same.
Therefore, instead of looking for someone to talk to, it is better to find a way and place to solve and release yourself.
Secondly, you don't know if the mood of the TA is suitable for listening to you.
It is impossible for a person to live a smooth life every day. The person you want to talk to, he will also have a sad mood. When he is in a bad mood, he will not necessarily talk to you, because you often look for him, but he will not talk to you, which is very normal.
If you talk to him, he himself happens to have something unpleasant, but he can't or doesn't want to tell you. And you have to talk to him, and his mood may be worse.
Even, he will form a psychological resistance to the things you talk about, or choose to be too deaf.
If so, what is the use of your confession?
The same is the release of emotions, in fact, do not necessarily need to be poured out. Sometimes, crying and yelling a few songs is also a way to release.
This way of not worrying about others, not bothering others, is actually the best.
Some people say, what is the use of crying? Moreover, crying is the behavior of the weak.
In fact, this understanding is wrong. The reason why people laugh and cry is that God gives this body a necessary function. Just like the mouth speaking and the ears listening to sounds, these are all necessary functions.
Now that it is, it is useful. Being able to laugh and cry is a normal human reaction. If a person does not laugh or cry, it is strange and abnormal.
Laughter is a soothing expression of emotions, and crying is also a release and venting of emotions. Surveys have found that people who occasionally cry are healthier than those who don't cry for a long time. This is because crying can produce a large amount of tear fluid, which has a protective effect on the eyes; in addition, crying can relieve people's stress, relieve people's emotions, and increase human lung capacity.
Therefore, when you are unhappy, when you are sad, it is actually more reliable to find a place to cry than to find someone to talk to.
Otherwise, it is also a good choice to find a private room where you can sing K songs, order a few explosive songs, roar a few roars, and let your emotions vent.