People say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and most people, no matter how much they pay, their mother-in-law will not treat their daughter-in-law as their daughter-in-law, and their daughter-in-law will not take their mother-in-law as their mother-in-law. As the old saying goes, the good heart is separated from the belly, and it can probably be used to describe part of the mother-in-law. However, every family has a difficult scripture, it is difficult for the qing officials to judge the family affairs, even if there is a very rational outsider to deal with, I am afraid it is difficult to handle properly, after all, it is a closed door thing, and the bell must be tied to the bell.
Such an incident happened to a family in Zaozhuang, Shandong. One day the husband said to his wife that he wanted to eat cherries, but a little expensive and not willing to buy, the wife heard her husband say this and was a little distressed about him, so the next day he bought 5 pounds of cherries and put them on the coffee table in the living room. Who knew that the mother-in-law opened her pocket and saw so many cherries, and on the spot, she angrily accused her daughter-in-law: "You are also too hungry, you have bought so many expensive cherries, you can't eat other fruits, you are so expensive, really a loser woman!" The daughter-in-law heard her mother-in-law insult herself so much, and she was very angry in her heart, but she thought that no matter how to say that she was also an elder, she should not talk back to the old man, so she patiently explained to her mother-in-law: "It is your son who wants to eat, so I bought it for him." When the mother-in-law heard this, she immediately changed her attitude just now and muttered back to her room.
The daughter-in-law was angry, of course, she felt wronged, so she called her husband to cry about what had just happened, who thought that her husband was smiling and giggling on the phone: "Our mother is like that, a lifetime of saving habits, Che Lizi is so expensive that she will of course be angry when she sees it, you don't worry about the old man." After hanging up the phone, the wife was even more angry, so she ran to the living room and took out the car to wash it and eat it in the house, and the mother-in-law heard the movement and followed up: "Don't you mean that my son wants to eat, how do you eat it with taste?" "The daughter-in-law chose silence because she did not want to quarrel with her mother-in-law. Who knew that at this time, the husband returned, and the mother-in-law suddenly sat on the ground and rolled and cried, crying while saying: "I am too old to be used, my daughter-in-law is not filial piety, and if there is good food, I will hide and eat it myself, my life is bitter!" As he spoke, he patted the ground with his hand. The son stood next to him and could still laugh, and with a hippie smile on his mother, he helped her to the room and brought the cherry to his mother, and the mother was quiet.
The wife dragged her husband into the house and asked, "Look at your mother is too unreasonable!" Between me and your mom, you choose one! At this time, the husband did not realize the seriousness of the matter, and thought that his wife was venting her grievances, or said with a smile and a giggle: "Wife, don't embarrass me, you also know that our mother is like that, there is no insight from the countryside, you don't have to worry about her, let's live a good life." The wife expressed that she was discouraged by the attitude that her husband had shown every time he encountered such problems, and did not want to continue this family torture, so she filed for divorce from her husband.
In life, interpersonal relationships are an indispensable part, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also included, so how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a lesson, but the husband also plays an important role in it, if the husband can not handle it properly, then he will inevitably be wronged, so he still has to find a man who has responsibility and emotional intelligence, so that not only the family relationship is harmonious, but he will also have a good mood every day.