As the saying goes:
"There's a hard book to read."
Every family is not easy, especially in such a social environment as now, the pressure we are under is only clear in our hearts.
When you enter adulthood, you have to think about a lot of problems, when a woman is married, you must try to have a good relationship with the people in the family, because you want to integrate into other families, at this time you should have more thinking.
Ms. Liu was also a lively and cute little girl when she was young, and later married like everyone else, because this is a process that everyone must go through, at least for ordinary people.
When Ms. Liu got married, she felt that the people in the in-laws' family were a little wrong, and after marrying someone, she confirmed her own ideas, and after marrying, she found that the mother-in-law in the other family was very picky, and after only one month of marriage, Ms. Liu felt that she could not go on.
Because Ms. Liu's own conditions were not very good, so the dowry required when marrying at that time was relatively small, but there was a requirement, that is, to let the man buy a house for himself, so the man agreed, and the woman's request bought a 110-square-meter house in the city.
When the two people got married, they lived in this room, but after some days, the mother-in-law also had to live in the city, because the mother-in-law's health has not been very good, and there is no one else to take care of the family, so she and Ms. Liu lived in this house, and the people in this house changed from two people to three people.
Because the mother-in-law is usually more slammed, Ms. Liu already has an opinion on the mother-in-law, and after the three people have lived in this house for a month, the contradiction finally broke out:
Ms. Liu's mother-in-law said that as an old man, she has no source of income, and she needs to let her son pay himself 1,000 yuan for living expenses, so that it is more convenient for him to go out to buy something, and he can also buy a little bit if he wants to eat.
Did not think that this request made Ms. Liu can not accept, Ms. Liu felt that as an old man, you should not spend the money in the family, not to mention that her husband did not earn much money, and the two people also have to save money, later to change a bigger house, after having children, the pressure of life is greater, so Ms. Liu does not want to give money to this old man, and feels that this old man should go out to make money.
However, at this time, Ms. Liu's husband said that he was willing to give his mother 100 yuan a month, so Ms. Liu felt that this husband was also biased towards her mother, and Ms. Liu turned around on the spot, pointed to her mother-in-law's face and said:
"Please transfer 2,000 yuan to me immediately."
As soon as Ms. Liu's words came out, the family was stunned, they all felt that this might just be a verbal talk, did not expect that Ms. Liu from morning to night, forced the mother-in-law to transfer 2,000 yuan of savings to Ms. Liu, the mother-in-law borrowed money overnight to take a taxi back to the countryside.
After this incident, the relationship between Ms. Liu and her husband is getting worse and worse, and it has only been more than a month since the marriage, and such a drama has been made.
Subsequently, her husband also proposed to divorce this Ms. Liu, and Ms. Liu became single again.
In fact, sometimes it is not easy for mothers-in-law to have mother-in-law, and daughters-in-law also have daughter-in-law.
As a husband, sometimes you can't be so impulsive, you have to be a mediator between your family, rather than being particularly angry and blaming one of them, which will make your marriage unstable and your family worse and worse.
As a mother-in-law, if you can endure it, try to endure, sometimes if you really don't need money, you don't have to ask the people in the family for money, if you really don't have money, at this time, in fact, you can quietly tell your son, don't put these things on the surface to say, so that your daughter-in-law may have opinions about you, which will affect the harmony of the family.
As a daughter-in-law, we must be considerate of our in-laws, sometimes we need the understanding of others, but we also have to be considerate of others, maybe they really need a little money, because as an old man going out to buy a little thing is also excusable, as long as you are not asked for one or two thousand, then, such an old man can still be forgiven.
As for asking the old man to collect rent, this is too much, because your house was bought by your husband, and your husband is also the son of the other party, then the other party has the right to live in this room. But sometimes people are angry, there is nothing that cannot be done, and by the time you regret it, you are already widowed, because you have already done what you should have done.
So sometimes if you are very angry, you must calm down and think carefully, don't do something casually, so that you may regret it after doing it, but it is already difficult to collect.
Marriage needs to be maintained, both people have to maintain a marriage well, rather than after a little problem, they think about divorcing each other, as an adult person, must be responsible for their marriage.
There is no easy word in the adult world, and maintaining your marriage is also a difficult journey.