Introduction: "Love is not a person's journey, it makes sense to go in both directions"
A woman who is still single in middle age indicates that she has more or less experienced some emotional experiences, even if she sees through the essence of marriage. They still believe and crave love.
Maybe they see something clearly and some people begin to doubt, wondering if there is still such a person waiting for them in this world? Also understand that life is a chicken feather, just like going to work, more is irritable things, in fact, love yourself will never be wrong, meaningless meals, hypocritical friends, not will be love...
To middle age
Woman
Still believing in the desire for love, they see themselves clearly, unwilling to put the rest of their lives in a meaningless marriage, hoping to find a marriage that is worth giving the rest of their lives to, hoping to find a way to spend the rest of their lives hand in hand with the person they love.
A middle-aged single woman has innocence in her eyes, sunshine in her heart, and passion, which is the most precious, she knows very well what kind of relationship life needs, she can believe in love, and can not pursue, the result is to understand that the road of life is always a person's road, a good career, understand, only the wallet is the greatest sense of security.
There are very few men who can match such strong women, and at this age, the chances of finding true love are getting smaller and smaller, but who doesn't want to have a two-way love? However, when flirting with middle-aged women, what kind of signals the other party releases may be equivalent to saying "I do"
01.
active
Mr. Chen has been busy with work when he was young, in the best 20 years of his life, he has entrusted all his thoughts to his career, completely did not consider the problem of starting a family and having children, he has a successful career in middle age, but unfortunately he has not established a family, and men also long for love.
Until he was at a banquet, he also met a woman who was still unmarried in middle age like himself, the woman talked elegantly, behaved generously, was a strong woman with a strong sense of enterprise, Mr. Chen fell in love with this woman at first sight, in the conversation between the two, Ye Xin also had a strong interest in this man, Ye Xin took the initiative to ask Mr. Chen for contact information.
If a single woman takes the initiative to ask a man for contact information,
That's without a doubt
She's more or less
Yes
The man in front of you
Interesting
。
In general, women
Generally, it is not easy to give your contact information to a strange man, let alone take the initiative to ask this man for contact information
If she takes the initiative to contact a man, it means that she has a good feeling for this man, wants to be friends with this man, wants to have a deeper understanding of the other party, and wants to seize this opportunity.
They usually chat often, and they are not familiar with each other, but they are very familiar with the feelings, and they can feel the look of struggling for their careers in each other's bodies, and they can also feel the desire and expectation for love and marriage in middle age.
As a man, Mr. Chen clearly understands that a man should give a woman a sense of security, give her enough details and romance, he is not in love with an 18-year-old woman, is a mature woman who has experienced the world, can not rely on sweet words and sugar-coated shells to coax, no matter how old a woman is, she will be captured by the romance and details of a man's sincere man.
In the face of Mr. Chen's sincerity and what he did, Ye Xin could feel it, and she suppressed the excitement in her heart and tried not to let the excitement run out of her eyes and mouth.
02.
Not exclusive
Mr. Chen asked her to go hiking, to go for a walk, to see the small animals... Ye Xin did not refuse, and every time she carefully dressed up to face their date.
She is a strong woman with a strong sense of enterprise, and when she is with Mr. Chen, she is like a little woman, docile and obedient, and the two people chat together and are very happy to talk and meet.
Chinese women are not necessarily passive in the face of feelings, people who can see the eye, will also take the initiative, especially from the heart to accept a person, although the mouth will not say, but may be expressed in a subtle way, such as they go to dinner together, go to the movies, go out to play, Mr. Chen does not know whether the two of them are in love.
In the process of walking, he took Ye Xin's hand, Ye Xin was stunned, his face was blushing, and the two held hands and looked at the maple leaves falling on the side of the road.
Many men say that women's ideas are the most difficult to understand in the world, in fact, many men miss the good relationship because they do not understand the woman's mind, if a woman does not reject physical contact with this man, it shows that she is willing to accept this relationship. Men should know how to read these signals and seize the opportunity.
If a woman has no heart or feelings for the man at all, and is a little closer to a person she doesn't like, she will also be disgusted, not to mention that she can walk hand in hand.
03.
Love can make a woman shy.
Men understand the woman's intentions, women to middle age, or single, must be anxious to get off the list, the treatment of this kind of mature women, should be more active, increase each other's good feelings, a beautiful love, maybe it will sprout.
He decided not to try again and again, and he directly opened his mind and asked Ye Xin
“
Would you like to be my girlfriend? ”
A middle-aged woman blushed instantly from her neck to behind her ears,
If a mature, confident and generous woman is easy to become shy and blush in front of men, especially when she is alone with men, some small actions will make her blush instantly, completely looking like a small woman, this feeling is two-way. Once a woman has a spark of love, she can't help but want to get closer, but women will not easily confess that a middle-aged woman will not go near a man for no reason, and it is a possibility to promise a man a date.
Ye Xin changed from a mature and generous woman to a look that would smirk from time to time, facing the man's confession, a middle-aged woman's face was blushing with shame, and Mr. Chen's heart also had the answer.
This kind of appearance can only be expressed in front of the sweetheart, which is the usual performance of women who fall in love, and this reaction of women, in fact, the answer is to like.
"I do"
This is Ye Xin's heart has long been prepared today, middle-aged women also understand, the older they are, understand that the pursuit is too much, the vision is too sharp, it is not as good as honestly staying by the side of love, making people feel solid.
She has already experienced the tempering of life and the beating of reality, to middle-aged them, in fact, the feelings have long been very thorough, if men really want to interact with middle-aged women, the first thing to pay is the sincerity, and the meaning behind the sincerity is infinite, the other party will be completely impressed by your sincerity, and will not hesitate to be with you.
04.
"I do" may send a signal.
When flirting with a middle-aged woman, the other party releases these "signals":
Willing to take the initiative to contact, willing to understand each other, not to reject physical contact with each other, such as walking very close, such as accidentally touching, often shy in front of men, become like a small woman, become gentle, in love, although sweet words are very good, but really let women move, the most critical is action, especially middle-aged women, judge men's behavior is completely based on men's actions, if women do not reject these behaviors, willing to continue to get along, willing to spend time and energy feelings, may be equivalent to saying:" I do."
No matter how strong a woman is, in fact, in her own heart will still want to be protected by others, to a certain age also want to have a sense of belonging, men's hypocrisy is unable to escape the eyes of a sharp woman, often their sincerity or false intentions, are reflected in the details, in the feelings of adults are needed time and energy to maintain, effective communication can determine the two people's feelings heating up the basis, love is inseparable from each other's communication, so men should be bold.
Once we have a person in our hearts, then we can't help but miss each other, in the process of interacting with the opposite sex, if men clearly have a feeling of expressing love to women, then, may wish to pour out their love to women.
When people reach middle age, the love they want is not a sugar-coated shell first, they need real love, a sincere love, a two-way love,
For middle-aged mature women, men's booing and warm greetings are not as good as the role of a cup of hot water, men's rhetoric, nor as good as taking the initiative to express sincerity, women can definitely feel the heart.
I hope that in this season, everyone will have something to gain and encounter love in both directions.