Marriage is not a child's play, and impulses can be tied casually. Marriage is a lifelong affair that involves responsibility. Every woman wants to be able to marry a good man. The standard of a good man in every woman's heart is different. Some women have a good man in their hearts to be handsome, gentle and considerate.
Some women have a good man in their hearts who want to have money and can buy cosmetics and bags for themselves. But some women are particularly pure. Her standards are not handsome, or rich. She had only three very simple conditions.
As long as she can meet these three conditions. She does not want a motorhome and living expenses, and is willing to get married immediately. Her surname is Wang and she is 54 years old. The family has a house and a car, and the son works for a company. What's going on? Let's hear what she has to say?
Self-report of 54-year-old Aunt Wang
I was born into a business family. My parents are in the building materials business, and the annual income is very impressive. My parents didn't have much time to spend with me, so they all made up for me with money. I often eat alone at home and alone. I felt very empty and lonely. But I had no choice but to endure it. My parents also had high expectations of me and wanted me to grow up. So I also worked very hard to get into the best key universities in the local area.
My parents were very proud of me. A few years later, I graduated. I went into a company as a sales manager. Life is as uneventful as water. Busy with work every day, there is no time and energy to fall in love. I'm getting older, too. My parents were afraid I wouldn't be able to marry. So he arranged for me to be the right man.
The other party is a rich second generation, and usually has a particularly generous shot. At that time, I thought that if the other party had money, I could be happy. So I married him very quickly. After getting married, I found out that having money does not lead to happiness. He ignored me every day and ate and drank outside by himself. Play until late at night before I am willing to go home and sleep. I've had countless fights with him, hoping he can change.
But he was impatient, saying that he would not change when he died. He was getting less and less patient with me. He even took the girls from the bar home for the night. I was really angry enough to explode and gave him a slap after filing for divorce.
After the divorce, I lived alone with my children. I didn't ask their family for a penny. Fortunately, he still has a bit of a conscience and will send child support every month. My mom and dad were very upset with me, but that's the way it is.
I felt a lot more relaxed. I can have more energy to do the work. I don't feel bad because of men. My kids are also very obedient and will help me with some housework.
A few decades have passed. I'm in my 50s. My kids are also growing up. At this time, my work is not so busy. I began to crave a wonderful love again. I want that kind of love in its purest form. I don't need my husband to have a house and a car to give me living expenses. I have worked hard all these years and have bought a house and a car. And I also have a lot of money in my hands, enough for my pension.
It doesn't matter at all whether you have money or not, what matters is that you can spend your old age with someone you love.
First, I am the only one in my eyes, and I don't get into trouble
My wife must be the only one in my eyes and heart. Go out shopping and don't peek at other girls. With me, we must abide by the two principles of singleness and loyalty. And I'll abide by it. Since we are truly in love with each other, we must do this. I don't accept any friends of the opposite sex on the other side. Female girlfriends are even more unacceptable. I would check the post from time to time. The other party must report to me when he goes out. As soon as I found out about cheating, I would immediately propose to break up.
Second, take the time and energy to take care of me and accompany me
I don't need a man to have a good career. There is no need for men to work hard to earn how much money to spend for me. Because I have enough substance. I don't care much about money now. I want to be loved. I hope that the other party can spend a lot of time and energy with me, and do some careful and romantic little things for me. Every day we could go for a walk by the river hand in hand and watch a movie together in the evening.
My body often has some small problems. I also need someone to help me take my medicine and remind me to take it.
Third, humorous and funny, understand a little romance
Rigid straight men I don't like at all. They were particularly boring to talk to, and I was annoyed to hear them. I like the humor that comes and goes. Particularly introverted, stuffy I really don't like. I don't like to talk. If the other party doesn't like to talk. That would be too silent!
I also hope that the other person understands a little romance. Give me beautiful flowers or handmade gifts during the holidays. It doesn't cost much, just get your heart.
The above is the 54-year-old aunt's partner requirements. I don't know if anyone can reach it.