According to statistics, there are 34 million more young men of the right age than young women, and this data means that there will be 34 million single sticks that cannot get a wife, let alone a family branch and a half-daughter.
And young men and women of the right age and unmarried must not only polish their eyes to find the right other half, but also accept the pressure from their parents to urge marriage, but helpless to be limited in the number of age-appropriate candidates around them, they gradually derived a blind date, first understand each other's external conditions, and then understand the personality through getting along, so as to improve the marriage rate.
Recently, Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, was led by the local red lady Ms. Jiang to hold a blind date, which once again proved that the ratio of men and women is so large that marriage will become a major problem for many people in the future.
It is reported that there were many people on the scene that day, but most of them were boys, roughly calculated to be more than 100 people, but there were only 5 girls.
Although the red lady expected in advance that there would be more boys than girls, I am afraid that there would be so much difference, only to see the red lady in the middle of the crowd with a microphone shouting: "The boy stands here to show a picture, let the girls look at it", hearing this, the boys also consciously vacated the middle place, surrounded several girls in the middle, and put a small table on the opposite side, so that the boys could see clearly when they stood up to introduce themselves.
Then the boys successively stood on the high ground to introduce themselves and some basic information about the family situation, taking one of the boys to see, when introducing themselves, he said: "This year is 28 years old, there are three sisters, there are cars and houses in this county."
The advantage occupied by girls is still relatively large, and the phenomenon of "women choosing men" is also more common. It is precisely because of this that the weight of girls has been further increased, so that girls' vision and requirements are generally higher.
According to the requirements of girls, the most basic requirement is to have a car and a house, although it does not need to be purchased in full, but it must have a house. The second is to have a stable job and be able to have enough financial resources after marriage.
And even so, the dowry at least 160,000 at the time of marriage, more can even reach three or four hundred thousand, this is not the end, three gold can not be less, here "three gold" refers to gold necklaces, gold rings, gold bracelets.
But it is such a request, in the scene of the extreme shortage of girls, people are still scrambling to hope that they will become the lucky one who can get off the list.
But after all, the number of girls is limited, and the lucky ones can only produce 5 at most, or even 5. According to the red bride, if the boy is good-looking and the family's economic conditions are relatively good, it is easier to find a partner.
Lao Yu thinks
I have to admit that today's girls are very sought-after, and boys suffer losses in terms of the number of people who do not dominate. Although girls have many requirements for boys, whether it is a room or a bride price, it is not mentioned at all that their dowry will be very rich when they get married in the future.
Most of the family conditions that can afford to marry a daughter-in-law in this year will not be too bad, if there is no equivalent dowry as a foil, in the future, when you marry into the husband's family, you will not have the share of speaking for yourself, and you will be looked down upon by others, thinking that your parents sell their daughters, everywhere to be angry, such a thing is not in the minority, and how should girls regret it at that time?
Of course, everything is not absolute, and I hope that every girl can think clearly about what she wants before talking about marriage, and the way to get along with other people after marriage, there is no turning back arrow, since the choice must make yourself not regret.