When children enter the school, parents hope that the child is an excellent child, but the reality is always cruel, in the process of learning, there will always be a gap between children, some children have good academic performance, some children have poor academic performance, for children with poor academic performance, because learning is not good, there will be negative psychology, resulting in behavior that does not love learning, serious boredom, truancy.
As a parent, the first thing to do is to improve the child's interest in learning, but also to recognize the child's behavior, so how to improve the child's interest in learning?
1. From an early age, parents should cultivate their children's interest in reading. First of all, parents should love to read, and influencing children from themselves is the most effective education. When you are a child, you can read bedtime stories to your children, slowly form a habit, and at a certain time, because of curiosity, children will go from listening to their parents tell stories to watching stories themselves. When children find pleasure in reading, they will slowly like to read, thus developing the habit of reading. As the saying goes: "There is a golden house in the book", through reading, not only exercise the child's literacy ability, but also exercise the child's logical thinking and concentration.
When the attention is concentrated, the teacher's thinking will also follow the teacher's thinking in the classroom, and the learning will become easy to understand. Then, there will be a good interest in reading and learning.
2. Convey the message of learning happiness to children, and at the same time let children feel the joy of learning. The ancients said: "Ten years of hard reading in the cold window", the original meaning of the ancient precept is to indicate people's perseverance in learning. But in the process of transmission, because of the wrong understanding, let the child feel that learning is a painful thing, if a person wants to succeed, then they must endure the pain. So that children have resistance to learning. On the contrary, if parents use games to teach their children to learn, when the child associates learning behavior with happiness and thinks that learning is happy, then he will take the initiative to learn. People always like to escape from pain and pursue happiness. Therefore, parents should pass on good ideas to their children.
3, when the child every small progress and success, parents do not skimp on their own appreciation. In order for children to become interested in something, parents should not skimp on their praise and appreciation. When a child does something to tell his parents, the parents should give the child appreciation and encouragement. When he feels that his work has been paid attention to and praised, he will become interested in it. This, in turn, is a prerequisite for promoting children's success.
4. Understand the points that children are interested in and not interested in. First of all, give the child a relaxed learning atmosphere, so that the child can fully display their interests, and then find the common ground between interest and learning to guide. Regardless of the interests, we must also look for the root causes and understand the reasons why children hate learning. In this process, parents should lower their posture and communicate seriously with their children on the same level. Identify problems in a timely manner to solve problems. Parents must not communicate with their children with sarcastic words.
5. Develop the habit of independent learning for children from an early age. In terms of children's learning, parents should not always think about tutoring their children, because with the improvement of the class and the increase of knowledge, one day you will not be able to tutor. Therefore, from an early age, let the child develop the habit of independent learning, when he learns through his own experience and continuous efforts, it will make him get the joy and joy of success. So good habits will be slowly formed.
6. Help children build self-confidence in learning. It's really important for a child to have self-confidence. Parents should know that self-confidence and success complement each other, and when children have self-confidence, they will have active learning behavior for anything. Only if children are interested and love to learn, it is easy to succeed.
When children have a sense of accomplishment, they become more confident. So parents can learn to let go appropriately, let the child's homework and his own things do by himself, and let the child experience the joy of success. If your child succeeds, you can come up with new goals, and if you fail, analyze the causes with your child and encourage your child to try again. Let the child know that there are failures on the road to success, but failure is not terrible, look for the reason for failure, and then succeed through continuous efforts.
The last thing to remind parents is that parents must remember not to impose their own learning models on their children. For the child's various questions, listen carefully and encourage the child to ask questions. For learning to stand on the same role as children, they are all scholars and grow up with children. At the same time, children should be trained to learn to make plans for themselves and arrange their own learning time.