The relationship between parents and teachers should be mutual respect and mutual understanding.
But nowadays, the relationship between some parents and teachers is becoming more and more "delicate" and "rigid". Some "thoughtful" parents are not at ease with the teacher and him, and the teacher's psychology has also been hit hard.
A friend around me has experienced such a thing, a friend is a kindergarten teacher, treating children with dedication, thinking that their responsibility can be exchanged for the understanding and support of others, but the facts are contrary to it.
One day, when a friend took the children to exercise, a 3-year-old baby in the class said that his pants were bulging and uncomfortable when he jumped.
When the friend saw that the child's pants were indeed stuffed, he thought about taking out his things so that the child would be more relaxed. As a result, I pulled open the zipper and flipped through my pants pocket, and actually dropped a voice recorder, which made my friend instantly sad.
Immediately the friend was aggrieved to tears, and then the matter reached the ear of the head of the kindergarten, fortunately the director was on the side of the teacher, after understanding the truth of the matter, the garden resolutely persuaded the child to retreat.
Because the child's mother did not trust the teacher and was afraid that the teacher would abuse the child, she quietly carried a voice recorder in the child's pocket.
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It can be seen from this incident that the distrust of parents will make teachers and schools feel very disappointed in their children. But there are many parents who are afraid that their children will suffer unfair treatment from teachers in school, worried that their children will be bullied, so they have to do it, in fact, parents also have hardships, so what should we do?
If you are worried that your child will encounter dangerous situations in school and that the teacher is not responsible enough, these are more desirable than letting children secretly record:
Get a comprehensive overview of the kindergarten in advance
● A good kindergarten is never afraid of parents to understand the specific situation.
Kindergartens that never allow parents to enter the campus and do not have surveillance footage are best not to choose.
It is recommended that parents should have a comprehensive understanding of the kindergarten in advance before sending their children to kindergarten, only in this way can they make their children's kindergarten time more secure, and they do not have to spend a lot of time to make unobtrusive behavior in order to understand the child's school situation.
The child's "innocent" words
● Communicate with children more often and ask more about their children's kindergarten life
Children in kindergarten actually have a better memory, and parents do not need to deliberately make "invasion of other people's privacy" such as eavesdropping.
After we return home, we can communicate with the children more, ask more about the specific life and specific situation of the children in the kindergarten, and let the children share more about the happy and unhappy things that happened in the kindergarten.
In the process of listening to their children's kindergarten life, parents will have a general understanding of the specific services of their children's kindergartens and their children's performance in school.
In this way, if the child really has something not very good in the kindergarten, parents can also know it at the first time. Compared to having children secretly record, this method comes more quickly:
Ability to bring children closer to their parents;
Let the child's presentation ability and memory have a big rise.
"Role" playing
● You can get a general idea of your child's kindergarten life by playing role-playing games with your child
If we want to enter the kindergarten life of our children, there is actually a relatively simple way, that is, we can directly play role-play with children.
The child's imitation ability is very strong, parents and children do games, exchange roles, be students themselves, and let children be teachers. From the behavior and language of children imitating teachers, parents can also have a general understanding.
In this way, if the child really suffers any unfair treatment in the kindergarten, parents can also know and give the child comfort in the first time.
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Everyone wants to be respected by others, and this practice of sneaking a voice recorder in a child's pocket is undesirable and makes most teachers feel disrespected.
If you let your child do this from an early age, it will also affect the child's mental health, and will make the child have a habit of secretly listening to other people's words, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.
If parents really want to know about their children's school situation, they can communicate with the school in a generous way and understand by viewing video surveillance, or we can also understand the child's school situation through the above methods. It is beneficial for children to grow up in a healthy, loving, positive environment.
Parents, what do you think of putting a voice recorder in your child's clothes?