Little tiger mother said that her son does not love to learn, do not love to write homework, after school he wants to play crazy, the teacher said that the preview review, is simply a task for parents, every time they write homework is chicken flying dog jump. Even if he forced the little tiger to sit down and start writing, he was not serious, either thinking of being lazy, or writing a word and crawling with the dog.
But when it comes to playing, the little tiger is excited, take a small pillow, get a card, and have fun with himself and himself.
Play is the nature of children, how to let children learn like play, so happy?
1. Change the name of the game to the learning!
My family's second treasure finished all the homework on the weekend on Friday, and then said to me: "Mom, I have finished my homework, tomorrow is my game day, I want to play for a day." I was busy and said casually, "Okay." ”
But the next day, I didn't have time to play with her all day, and the old mother's anxiety didn't allow me to let her do nothing else except play and look at her phone for a day.
I thought of the method mentioned in the book "It turns out that children are addicted to learning this way" and changed the name of learning.
I said to Erbao, "Let's play the 100-point challenge!" The child asked excitedly, "How does the mother play?" How to play? ”
I took out the test paper that was ready for him to do, timing it, and then began her own challenge. That day she did two sets of papers, one practice question. More study time than usual.
It's easy for children to judge things based on "names." We can use this feature to give learning some interesting names and help children change their attitudes towards learning.
For example, in front of the eldest child, mathematics, physics, chemistry, etc. are called "guessing games", and the liberal arts such as language, history, geography and other liberal arts are called "knowledge competitions", in fact, the content of learning has not changed at all, but because of the different names, children have the enthusiasm to learn.
2. Design your homework as a game
Many parents do not understand why children like games so much, as long as the child starts to play games, no matter how good the commitment is, how to call it later, either can't hear it, or wants to play another game, why can't it be so when writing homework?
So let's talk about the settings of the game. A good game has at least four characteristics: the first must complete the task to upgrade, the second, the difficulty is gradually increasing, the third, the results are quick, and the fourth is only encouraged without criticism.
Whether the child is a rookie or a god, when they play the game, they can only pass the level and level up by doing the tasks at the first level. Once the upgrade fails, the game will say do it again! There is no criticism or accusation, just invite the child to do it again, and as the child practices hard, the reward appears when the final pass is completed. This allows the child to feel that he is awesome, that he is too good, and that he has overcome a big difficulty.
But children's homework, writing parents will criticize, often we do not say "think again", but say "how stupid you are, have said so many times, you can't remember!" "Children are not motivated to keep working hard except to be depressed and helpless.
So we can design homework as a game with our children, and every day when we come home, we ask our children, "What is the devil of today's homework?" ”
"The math monster has to write 20 oral arithmetic problems and 10 application problems. The language magic wants three words and three words and one sentence! Hey, I think it's a lot more than a day! ”
"Then let's play the game of playthrough!" 20 oral arithmetic problems are the first level, after the oral arithmetic clearance, is it the first language magic or mathematical monster? ”
"Let's fight the language demon first!"
"Well, defeat the Language Demon in thirty minutes, and you'll pass the level!"
"Okay, I'll be able to get through these three levels quickly this time!"
By naming the homework after the game, the child will feel like a warrior fighting monsters, and write the homework with full of fighting spirit!
3. Turn practice into a game
In addition to school homework, many children also have some exercises bought by parents and thrown dryly to their children, and children may not want to do it at all, and even resent their parents' arrangements. Say out loud, "It's not left by the teacher, I don't do it!" ”
How can you make the exercises more fun? Still the game.
My family's second treasure did not recognize enough words, but she hated to recognize words, so I played a game of Chinese character bumping with her. We took out the word card and laid it on the ground, and then I chose a word and asked him to choose the other word that made up the word with that word, so that in the process of knowing the new word, he also learned to group words.
We will also play the game of "Chinese characters change by change". Give a Chinese character, and then add or subtract the side of the head into a new word, whenever she can write a new word, she will cheer, the excitement of the small mood overflowing.
Children are actually very good at coaxing, as long as we do what they like, their nature is to like to play, then we will write homework with him in the way of playing! When we replace homework with games, it is really not too cool to write homework with children.
Say goodbye to the chicken flying dog jumping homework routine, start with the "game"!