Liking someone, falling in love with each other, and then walking into marriage, it should have been a very simple thing to say.
Love well, happily marry a person, instinctively fear marriage, be more afraid when single, even if you are with a person, you are still still very afraid.
I know that this is not good, but I can't find a solution at all, and for a few days, I am just trapped in it.
I have to admit that the influence of the original family on a person has always been very huge. The original family is very good, a person's heart will be very positive, even if there will be a lot of difficulties in life, it can always be healed well, the heart is always full of energy, and people with bad original families are relatively different.
When others are looking forward to marital happiness, we often just think that our parents' marriage is so bad, and we don't want to be like that, and we don't want to repeat the same mistakes.
Therefore, in order not to marry a person, just live so badly, from the beginning, we will directly not want to marry anyone, but always remain single, always unwilling to go to that step.
Simply don't love, just don't get married, and don't, face that result. Many times, a person's marriage will really repeat the parents' pattern, and we really don't want to live so hopelessly.
I don't want to be in love at all, I don't want someone to love, and if I want to come, it doesn't exist at all. However, while longing for someone to love themselves, we will also feel that the state of our own life alone seems to be good, not so bad, and we are still enjoying and content.
Accustomed to a person's life pattern, and indeed life is not bad, in the desire for love, we will also think, in case a person into our lives, with us, the days are not so good, what to do.
We want the other party to be able to shield us from the wind and rain, but I am worried that the other party will always bring us some wind and rain, I hope that I can have a happy time with the other party, and I am worried that the other party will always make us cry.
Being too afraid of falling in love with a person and marrying someone will be such a consequence, and when we meet someone who seems to be good, when a person approaches us, we will really start to back down early.
Do not get married, stay in their own world, at least they will be safer, the years will be more controllable. Such a year, even if it is not so good, but I will feel more down-to-earth and at ease.
In feelings, people cannot have no desires and no needs after all, but will only be particularly greedy.
I hope that the other party will be very good to us at this moment, and also expect that the other party's good will continue forever, and we will be white-headed until we are old. Either we don't love, and if we love, we will have no reservations, and we will want to live a lifetime.
A lifetime of one couple, it sounds very simple, but too much love, but it will only disappear with time, too many marriages, walking and walking but will only be directly separated, and each other has become enemies.
Among them, we will hope that we are just the luckier one, but we feel that we can't really be so lucky, otherwise when we really get to that day, we will only be full of scars, and we will really be desperate.
When people face the unknown, they will have some worries, some fears. The difference is that even if you don't know what will happen in the future, some people are still very serious, and some people just stop moving.
In life, when we happen to be like this, we don't have to blame ourselves too much, but we also have better not let it go, just keep trapping ourselves in our own small world, or learn to break through and let ourselves go out.
Try to love, slowly learn to know people, to find a really good person. When people are right and with each other, marriage is actually not so terrible, it will become the icing on the cake.