People before marriage yearn for a plain life, hoping that they can be stable long ago and enter the palace of marriage with the people they love as soon as possible. People who are married are more eager for passion, and feel tired of repeating yesterday's life over and over again, walking the road that has already been planned.
Many people always think that marriage is stability, and after marriage, two people will be more inseparable from each other. But for some people, marriage is just a means for him to bind you, before marriage he was gentle with you, but after marriage he was very indifferent, not only not honest with you, but also many things are not willing to share with you.
Many women feel that their husbands have changed a lot from before marriage, but in fact, you are blinded by the illusions he made, and he does not love you much. In marriage, the man is reluctant to share these 4 "things" with you, and it is obvious that he does not really love you!
1. Share a bank card
Husband and wife are one, and should no longer be divided between you and mine, especially in terms of money. If two people get married, each other's property can not be transparent, and there is not even a common account, or they all spend their own money, the family's expenses are AA system, such a mode of getting along, can only be said to be not enough love.
A man who says he loves you, but he doesn't have any practical contribution to you, and he doesn't even want to share a bank card with you, which only shows that the man does not regard you as his wife in his heart, and he does not trust you enough. Although you have the name of husband and wife, you do not really have the trust you deserve.
The man who really loves you should give you all his bank cards after marriage, he just wants to live a good life with you, and since you are willing to marry him, he must not be wronged.
2. Share a pair of dishes and chopsticks
Life is a lamp left for you at night, a delicious meal at home.
After getting married, the two people living together are definitely going to eat together. Two people fry a few small dishes at home and chat about homely dishes at the dinner table, which is also a very warm picture.
If a man does not even want to share the dishes with you, and even the dishes you clip are not willing to eat, then the man must not love you enough. The man who really loves you will never care about this, he can drink the same bottle of water with you, he can eat the same bowl of rice with you, even if it is the leftovers you can't eat, he will not abandon it.
3. Share a mobile phone
Two people are already husband and wife, then each other's mobile phone passwords must be known, occasionally take each other's mobile phone to check the information, or make a phone call, look over Weibo, this is a normal thing.
If your husband never lets you use her mobile phone, even if it is just a phone call, usually you are not allowed to look through his mobile phone, and even his mobile phone password does not know, then such a man must not love you.
His phone won't show you, there must be a reason, the man who really loves you will never mind you using his phone, you can use his phone as if it were his own.
4. You share privacy
In my opinion, privacy is more important than emotions, and emotions will complain at most, but secrets can easily cause estrangement from each other, causing two people to go farther and farther.
We often say that trust is the cornerstone of marriage. But two people can't be honest with each other, so how can they trust each other?
There is a saying that for a story to be beautiful, it must hide the truth. The sense of security is never earned by oneself, but given by the other party.
If a man can't share privacy with you, likes to hide everything, and even cheats on you in order to hide one thing, it means that he doesn't regard you as a trustworthy person at all, even if he is polite to you on the surface, but your husband and wife relationship has long existed in name only.
Caring for marriage, some people laughing and whiteheading, some people crying "break up"...
Husband and wife get along, expensive in the business. A good husband and wife relationship is inseparable from the joint efforts of two people.
Marriage is not about finding someone to live with, but about finding someone who really loves you and is really suitable for you.
If your husband does not really love you, then your married life will certainly not be happy, the road ahead is still very long, do not let yourself be bound by an unhappy marriage, you should know how to stop the loss in time.
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