Two people together, not all the time is sweet, it is normal to argue without a word.
Two people together, not quarreling is not normal, quarrel should not have other people's mixing, other people once mixed things will change.
But too many people do not understand this truth, when the husband and wife quarrel always have to be nosy, the original simple quarrel but because of the nosy things make things change.
On February 16, Chengdu, Sichuan, the two little families quarreled, the woman was about to go back to her mother's house with the child in a rage, but the mother-in-law came out to stop it, and the words spoken were even more chilling: You can go, the child stays.
The couple in Chengdu, Sichuan Province, had not been married for a long time, the child was only a few months old, and the young couple quarreled because of the child.
Since the woman gave birth to the child, she has started a full-time life with a baby, and she wants her mother-in-law to help take the baby and the mother-in-law to say that she does not look at the child, and the child is small and has nothing to do with her.
The woman felt helpless, but the child was indeed her and her husband's, and what the mother-in-law said was not wrong, but it sounded uncomfortable. Since the mother-in-law does not help with the baby, the woman can only resign full-time to take the baby at home.
But the day of taking the baby at home is not good, the children of the months are crying, the woman feels very broken at home for a long time to see the baby, and what is even more devastating is that there is a mother-in-law next to her who does not help but likes to be nosy.
Whenever a woman gives a child a diaper is not wet, the mother-in-law is always nagging next to it, saying that the diaper is not wet to spend money to use diapers directly, but in this weather, the children's clothes with diapers in winter are likely to be wet without paying attention, and the rural conditions are limited and the clothes will dry for a long time.
The woman told this matter to her mother-in-law, did not want to beat her mother-in-law did not understand at all, and said shamelessly: You are fine at home, and you do not go to work, the child is still not good, why marry you.
The woman was very angry, and remembered all kinds of past events and told her husband about the matter, but she did not get her husband's understanding. The woman and her husband had a big fight, and they had to go back to their mother's house when they picked up the child, but at this time the mother-in-law came out to stop it, which meant that the woman could leave, and the child was a must stay for their family.
This matter was exposed by netizens to the Internet to trigger a heated discussion among netizens, some netizens said: the child is the mother's life in exchange, what qualifications does the mother-in-law have to grab.
Kotani's view:
Husband and wife together there is no quarrel, whenever there is a quarrel, others do not go over to be nosy, the small two will slowly reconcile, if someone is nosy, things will develop in an unpredictable direction.
The young couple in Chengdu, Sichuan Province, quarreled not because of anything else, but because the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law had a disagreement over the issue of children. In the face of such differences, the husband does not understand, and the woman has to take the child away in one breath.
The mother-in-law's approach makes people feel cold, and not helping to see the child has been understood by the woman, but the mother-in-law says such a thing, which is too sad. When there is no quarrel, the child is the mother's, and the child is the mother-in-law's family when there is a quarrel, and there is no mother's right to take it away.
However, the child is bought by the mother with her life, and the mother-in-law has no right to grab the child born in October. But this mother-in-law not only snatched it, but also said such words, and it was obvious that the mother-in-law's heart thought that the daughter-in-law was an outsider and the child was her own.
But in the eyes of the mother, the child is the whole. In order to avoid such problems, I think young people and old people should live separately so that they do not disagree because the other party does not look good. If you don't have the conditions to live together, don't be nosy if you don't look at the one with the child.
Here, girls are advised to polish their eyes when choosing the other half, not to look at the character of the other half, but also to see the character of the in-laws. A good in-laws will be of great help to themselves, and a bad in-laws will bring a series of troubles to themselves.