Seeing a post in which a man who boasted about his wife and girlfriend for causing war and eventually leading to divorce resonated strongly with me: getting along with men with low emotional intelligence is basically a disaster, and the mouth is ruined for a lifetime.

Seeing a post in which a man who boasted about his wife and girlfriend for causing war and eventually leading to divorce resonated strongly with me: getting along with men with low emotional intelligence is basically a disaster, and the mouth is ruined for a lifetime.

Many years ago, when Dabao was about two or three years old, Mr. Lin drove us out to play, I and Dabao rushed in the back seat to talk and sing, full of expectations, at this time Mr. Lin saw a beautiful mother in the community with two children, while holding the second child to shake and sleep, while laughing and playing with the boss, suddenly came a sentence: You look at people, two children are so good, are so patient, even like you, with a child will shout tired all day, no patience for anyone...

I exploded and said, "Have you ever seen someone's dad?" This family mother does not go to work, as long as the father will bring his own baby at home, I see that the father is taking the baby, people two babies, the mother still has time to dance square dance with your mother every day, go to yoga class, go shopping, buy and buy, how can you see these few seconds of things to come to the conclusion that I am not as good as others?!

Later he said what I don't remember, anyway, the last big fight, not happy and scattered, nowhere to go ...

There are countless times in this situation, back to the hometown to come back and say: you see how delicious people's sister-in-law's cooking is, you learn from others; friends come back from dinner and say: You see how many people have brains, you learn from others; see your colleagues come back and say: You see how good people are, you learn from others...

How to say this feeling, is to use the advantages of all people to compare your shortcomings, he does not understand that everything is balanced, sugar cane does not have two sweets, he only saw me cooking no one is delicious, no one is smart, no one is good, but I can't see that people don't have to work to support their families, they are not afraid of the risk of unemployment, they are willing to invest in themselves, and they can't see me studying seriously, working steadily, living a sincere life, humorous personality, and I can't see what advantages other people's men have, well, serious double standards, talking about themselves, it feels good, It's all where you can find someone so good as me, the standard of leniency and self-discipline, strict treatment of others...

It's not that he didn't communicate, but saying that he talked too smelly and affected his mood too much, he also said that you have a glass heart, saying that your heart should be stronger...

I often think, maybe he doesn't love me, he doesn't owe me too much, and he also earns money and takes care of his family, but the single mouth owes this one too much to affect the happiness index, often makes me feel regret and regret, in this life did not find a soul mate who understands me [tears] [tears]

I don't know how other people's homes have lived [cover their faces] [cover their faces]