Anhui a lady she is very troubled! He has a 26-year-old son who has been working for two years. The year before, my mother knew he had a girlfriend, and this year she casually asked: What about the object

Anhui a lady she is very troubled!

He has a 26-year-old son who has been working for two years. The year before, my mother knew that he had a girlfriend, and this year she casually asked: How about the object? He said they just got along and couldn't draw conclusions.

The mother usually asks her son about the girl. The son told his mother all the advantages of the girl. In her son's eyes, it was an angel, so mom wanted to see what this perfect girl looked like in her eyes.

Later, the son said the girl agreed to come to the house and if possible, they would discuss the matter of marriage. Mom was so excited those days, more nervous than the first time she saw her in-laws.

The mother carefully prepared a variety of fresh ingredients, and also carefully inquired about the preferences of her son and the girl. The son said her girlfriend was not picky and didn't have to worry. Mom is so happy!

After a week of meticulous preparation, I finally met my son and his girlfriend for the first time on a weekend morning. When she walked into the room, Mom was really shocked. Although there is heating in the house now, will the girls wear too little? If you wear less, forget it. But can't go to a boyfriend's house for the first time and dress so sexily! Take off your coat, a super short hip skirt, and a low-necked legging.

Mom felt embarrassed. She took a blanket for her son and motioned for him to wrap his girlfriend up. Mom even complains about his son and girlfriend getting dressed and doesn't talk about it!

When the son handed her the blanket, the mother obviously felt that she was stunned, and then covered her chest, tugged at her skirt, and actually put the blanket aside.

The mother asked her son to have a good chat with people. Busy in the kitchen by yourself. During this time, the girl did not come to help and did not chat with the boy's mother. A vigorous fight with the boys, eating melon seeds, drinking water, eating fruit. Mom was busy, Dad was just on the phone because of business, Mom couldn't help but chat with the girl, chatting and talking, and found that the girl's parents were divorced! The boy's mother giggled!

Their home was a small round table. The mother sits to the girl's left and the son sits to the girl's right. What the girl did during the meal really surprised the boy's mother.

She was always talking when she ate, and they didn't seem to be very rude to talk, and they could only cater to it. When she spoke, her mouth was full of saliva, and while she was talking, spraying everywhere, making the boy's mother not want to eat. The carpentry girl didn't know it yet. When the girl was eating vegetables, she said that the leaves were too old to eat and was ready to spit on the table. Mom kindly handed her a napkin and asked her to wrap it up. As a result, she wiped her mouth and continued to spit and spit. After a while, the meat was hard and the fish was too salty... She even spat on the boy's mother's pants.

When Mom put the chopsticks aside, she wasn't going to eat them. The girl asked her: Auntie, why do you eat so little? The boy mom can't stand it anymore!

After eating, the boy's mother motioned for her son to take the girl back. The girl wanted to sit down and talk, but her mother asked them to go back first, citing her discomfort. Her son really thought his mom was uncomfortable. When he went out to send the girl off, he called his mother and asked if it was better?

Mom said she was fine. Tell him to go early and come back early. Mom had something to tell him. After returning, the son asked his mother directly: "Mom, my girlfriend is coming for the first time." Didn't I tell you to prepare red envelopes? Why didn't you give it to her? She was angry. ”

Mom said, "I didn't see her at all." Why should I give her a red envelope? ”

The son asked his mother why he didn't like her. Mom said: Her behavior was too bad. She spits on the floor while eating. Look at what she spit out in my pants and in my shoes.

My son doesn't think so. He thought it was no big deal. He also said it was acceptable to tell his mother not to pay attention to these details.

The mother said to her son, "Son, Chinese pay attention to table manners." A girl's performance at the dinner table can reflect a lot of problems, she does not have a good eating habit, how can she develop other good habits? I had just had a meal with her and found so many problems that I couldn't imagine what she would look like in reality.

Plus, she really shouldn't wear such clothes to meet your parents. Anyway, I don't want her to be my daughter-in-law, because she really doesn't have a tutor and it will make people laugh. If I say so much and you still want to marry her, then I won't stop it, but I'll say it once I look at it once. If she's unhappy or doesn't correct herself, the most I can do is not live with her in the future, not seeing and not upsetting, but she will affect you and your children for a lifetime. ”

But the son did not hesitate to argue with this girl, or even get married! The mother is also helpless, she can't figure it out, don't let her son date such a girlfriend, is there a mistake?

I said: Auntie is right, table manners have existed since ancient times. Many of the rules on our tables today are less stringent than in ancient times. But at the very least, don't disturb others and influence others to eat.

As a mother, giving her son valuable advice also gives him the right to choose. As a parent, although you should not interfere too much with your child's feelings, you should still remind. People say that if you were this mother, would you accept such a daughter-in-law?