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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Some people say that love has become particularly realistic now, and women have become particularly fond of money, but in fact, this statement is not all correct.
It is true that there are some women who are more materialistic, but most women have the correct view of marriage and love, and they do not only look at men's money.
Therefore, men still don't hold a prejudiced view of women, otherwise, it will only make you more and more distant from the love you want.
For women, the other half they want to find is not necessarily a handsome, rich man, but a man who really protects her for a lifetime.
Men with a good economic foundation, or handsome men, can only be said to have advantages in external image, but they are not necessarily the favorite in women's hearts.
If a man only has good conditions on the outside and no excellent inside, the woman may not be rushing to engage.
In the end, the man a woman wants to find needs to have an inside, will hurt her, and bring her the best sense of security.
Such men are often incomparable to ordinary men, they are reliable, loyal, and make women extremely impressed.
Generally speaking, men who like women, most of them have three "superiority", not handsome and rich, I hope you have.
First, good character, will respect women
Women are often particularly cautious about feelings, which is nothing more than fear of encountering men with bad character.
After all, once a woman enters love and marriage, it is equivalent to losing the second half of her life, and if she meets someone who is unladylike, they will lose very badly.
Therefore, in the eyes of women, they must find a man of good character, who can respect women and give women the best love.
In fact, in life, many women do not have a good first impression of handsome and rich men, and they think that such men may be of poor character or disloyal to feelings.
Women generally do not associate until they fully understand the character of men, but have a strong defensive heart.
Only after contact, gradually discovering that men have good character and respect women, they will let down their guard against interacting with you.
If a man is just handsome or rich, but has no character and does not respect women everywhere, basically will not get the favor of women.
In the novel "Jane Eyre", Rochester is a man of good character, who respects women, can treat Jane Eyre equally, and finally gets Jane Eyre's heart.
Rochester had money and status, but Jane didn't fall in love with him when she first met him.
After a long time of getting along and understanding between the two people, Jane Ai gradually saw his personality and felt that he was different from other rich men.
At the end of the day, Rochester has an inner strength, he not only has money, but also a wealth of knowledge, and can know how to respect women.
In that era, such a rich man could have a broad mind, could let go of the prejudice of dignity and inferiority, and must be an attractive man.
Therefore, Jane Eyre finally fell hopelessly in love with him, even if his eyes were damaged, even if he had limited mobility, Jane Eyre would not abandon him.
Therefore, a man's character, which often determines his height, is also the key to attracting women.
A man with good character and respect for women will surely please women and make them feel moved throughout their lives.
Second, do things measured, high emotional intelligence
A man who is measured in his work, has high emotional intelligence, and behaves mature and stable, and naturally gets the likes of women.
For women, the man they are looking for is really not handsome and rich, and it is often this kind of mature man who can make them more impressed.
After a woman enters the relationship, she will consider many things, all aspects of life, the division and integration of feelings, and various difficulties that may occur in work and career.
This is what women will think of, because they hope to live happily in the future, naturally they will think more, under this premise, their requirements for men are higher.
A man, handsome, or well-off financially, is not the key to a woman's consideration. Instead, women will focus on character and a man's ability to do things.
Men do things with measure and high emotional intelligence, and will make greater achievements in the future, while also avoiding possible family disputes and marital conflicts.
Because this kind of man can control his emotions and know how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, as well as various interpersonal relationships, women can naturally live more comfortably.
On the contrary, even if a man is rich or handsome, but does not have this ability to deal with things, emotional intelligence is very low, and everything is done by his own nature, where is happiness?
In fact, a man who is able to control his emotions, do things with great purpose and planning, tends to get more opportunities and more success.
Women's real hearts of men, not necessarily rich, can live a rich and expensive life, they just want to get the peace and happiness of life, at least not to be hurt by men.
Therefore, in the hearts of women, it is particularly important for men to have high emotional intelligence, measure to do things, and a sound personality.
When women interact with men, they will not only look at the man's appearance, nor will they only look at whether the man has money, but look at the man's inner and his ability to control emotions.
Third, be self-motivated and let women have a sense of security
Someone once asked, "What is a woman most afraid of in a marriage?" ”
There is an answer that is very heartfelt: "It is not that I am afraid of having a hard time, but I am afraid of losing completely." ”
It is true that women have a hard life after marriage and live a hard life with men, and they are really not afraid. However, what they fear most is that they will lose their lives and will not see future happiness.
Therefore, when women interact with men, they will definitely value men's self-motivation, and if men are not self-motivated, women will have no sense of security.
Many men do not work hard, are not self-motivated, have the mentality of getting by and living a good life, and also require women to follow him to "eat soil", this attitude is not right.
If men are not self-motivated, women will force themselves to put down no matter how much they love, who will gamble their lives on future happiness?
The other half that women want is really not a handsome and rich man, but a self-motivated man.
The so-called "sitting and eating the mountain", a man does not work hard, lack of self-motivation, the future life is difficult to be happy, women can not marry.
So, men really don't think that women love money and are very materialistic, on the contrary, most women value whether men are self-motivated.
As long as you are willing to work hard, work hard for life, and bring women a sense of security, they are willing to associate with you.
Diligence is a traditional virtue, self-motivation, is the greatest capital of men, a hard-working man, will always be a woman's heart.
This kind of man can take on the responsibility of the body, can bear the burden of the family, and can give the woman the life she wants, how can a woman not be moved?
Women are not afraid to suffer with men, nor are they afraid to work hard with men, but the only thing they are afraid of is that men have no responsibility and are not self-motivated, which is intolerable.
I hope that men can change their attitudes, treat women correctly, truly make women appreciate, and believe that they will soon reap the love they want.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Dumas said: "Women sometimes allow others to cheat on their love, but they never allow it to hurt their self-esteem." ”
Men and women, do not rely on those so-called "love skills" to coax women, once it hurts their self-esteem, they will completely abandon you.
After all, for women, a man's sincerity is the secret to impress them, as long as you pay sincerely, they will be willing to associate with you.
To sum up, what really moves women is not a handsome and rich man, it may be the above "type", most of these men have "superiority", so that women like it very much.
They have good character and will respect women; they are measured and have high emotional intelligence; they are self-motivated and make women feel secure.
Such men, if women meet, must cherish well, with them, there will be happiness in the future.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.