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Once read a story, a man fell in love with a woman, but the woman's attitude towards him is always lukewarm, people around him persuade men to give up, saying that women do not love him at all, but men do not want to, he feels that women must have their own hearts, so even if they love him temporarily not deep enough, but he can wait.
However, in getting along again and again, what women say to men gradually makes men understand that they actually have no place in women's hearts.
Many people say that women who fall into love will become very stupid and will easily lose themselves, in fact, why not men? There have been many obsessive men throughout the ages, because once they fall in love, they will automatically block out the results that they do not want to see.
But men also need to understand that it is undoubtedly unwise to waste energy and emotion on a woman who does not love you, because you never know that without giving up on a wrong person, you will not meet the person who is really suitable for you.
And it is not difficult to know the true intentions of a woman, from her attitude towards you, what she says to you, and the way she gets along with you, you can understand what her attitude is towards you.
Women who don't have you in their hearts often say these words to you, men don't be confused, really met, and it is wise to wake up in time.
01 You're really bad
Men are eager to be recognized, appreciated, and even adored by the women they like, which is understandable and in line with men's psychology.
Because men have the desire to conquer, especially in the face of the women he likes, they want to show their good side to women.
So when a man hears a woman's praise for him, it undoubtedly gives him a huge motivation, and it also makes him more certain that he occupies an important position in the woman's heart.
But if a woman always says to him, "You're so bad," it will give men a feeling that whatever they do will not be affirmed by women.
Friend Sun Yining is a very introverted man, after liking a girl, he did not dare to confess, and later with the help of friends, he dared to express his heart to the girl.
After the two people established a relationship, Sun Yining was very good to the girl, because he was rushing to get married, and he did not want to delay himself or the other party.
But the girl always seemed to be dissatisfied with him, and Sun Yining gave the girl every month's salary, hoping to make her less hard, even if the two were not married.
However, the girl was still not satisfied, either because she hated Sun Yining for being too busy at work and had no time to accompany her, or because she thought that his bonus was not as much as other people's boyfriends.
Over time, Sun Yining most often heard his girlfriend say that "you are really bad", in his girlfriend's heart, he is not as good as anyone, always the worst one.
Changing to any man, presumably can not accept such feelings, so in the end Sun Yining resolutely proposed to break up, because he finally saw that the girl did not have him in her heart.
Men have to understand that if a woman has you in her heart, she will not compare you to anyone, because no matter what kind of person you are, in her heart, you are the best one, so she will not say that you are very bad, because she is reluctant to make you sad and inferior.
02 Don't bother me
Two people who love each other will always feel that time passes too quickly, just in response to that sentence, not seeing each other for a day is like three autumns apart, because they care about each other in their hearts, so they are eager to be with each other as much as possible.
Especially for women with delicate minds and higher emotional needs, if she is in love with a man, she will want to seek a more secure sense of security from men, even if two people are just chatting, it will make her very satisfied.
If men are careful, they can find the answer they want from the tone and attitude of women' speech.
When the woman who cares about you is asked by you, that joy will flow from the heart, and even more eager to meet than you.
When you're together, whether you're shopping, watching a movie, or eating, she's happy because as long as she's with you, it's the most important thing for her, and everything is good.
But if she doesn't have you in her heart, she won't have this kind of happiness and satisfaction, but will become impatient, and even directly say to you, "Don't bother me."
Men should know that at this time, your invitation is already a kind of trouble for her, not only will not make her happy, but it will make her feel very bored.
At this time, men should not continue to do useless work, even if you behave well and you come up with particularly good dating content, it will not attract her, because you are not the person she cares about, so your good has become bad.
03 Are you having other women anymore
For men, it can be very tired, and he can pay the greatest effort to make women live a better material life, but the most intolerable thing is that women question him.
Women need to feel secure, men need enough trust, and when the two collide, a lot of resentment arises.
Colleague Wang Lin made a boyfriend, the other party is a very good man, which makes Wang Lin feel very lucky, and she also looks at her boyfriend very tightly, afraid of being robbed by other women.
But men are very busy at work, can accompany her time is very small, which makes Wang Lin more and more dissatisfied, every time a man says to her overtime, she will always have a variety of conjectures, will it be dating other women? Will you have an ambiguous relationship with a female colleague in the company?
The more suspicious you are, the more uneasy you are, so Wang Lin always presses him, "Do you have other women?" ”
At the beginning, the man patiently explained to her that he was just too busy at work and did not do anything to apologize to her, but the number of times, the man's patience was also worn out, and even began to dislike Wang Lin's suspicions, so he proposed to break up.
Wang Lin felt aggrieved in her heart, she just cared too much about him, how did it become her own fault? But in fact, as a bystander, everyone understands that Wang Lin only cares about her own feelings, she never thinks about whether her boyfriend is so busy at work, nor will she understand the embarrassment of men, she cares about her own feelings.
In other words, a woman who has you in her heart will not doubt you without moving, because she can feel your sincerity to her and will cherish this sincerity.
Only a woman who does not have you in her heart will use doubts to force you to constantly compromise with her, such a woman actually only has herself in her heart, and men should stay away as soon as possible.
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